Best private student loan options for co-signers - experience with Sallie Mae vs College Ave?
Looking for recommendations on private student loans where we'll be co-signing for our daughter. We've maxed out her federal aid options ($8,750 in direct subsidized/unsubsidized loans and a modest Pell Grant) but still need about $14,000 to cover her sophomore year expenses. I've been researching options and see Sallie Mae and College Ave mentioned frequently. Has anyone co-signed with either of these lenders? What was your experience with interest rates, customer service, and repayment flexibility? Any other lenders I should consider? Our credit score is good (760+) if that matters. This is our first time venturing into private loans so any guidance would be appreciated!
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Aileen Rodriguez
we used college ave for my son last year. the application was easy but interest rate was higher than what they advertised online. ended up with 9.8% fixed which feels like robbery tbh. they did approve us quickly tho
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Bruno Simmons
•Yikes, 9.8% is steeper than I was hoping for. Did they offer any kind of rate reduction for autopay or anything? Were there any origination fees on top of that?
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Zane Gray
I've co-signed private loans with both Sallie Mae and College Ave for my two kids. Here's my honest assessment: Sallie Mae: Slightly lower interest rates (about 0.5% less than College Ave in our case), but their customer service is terrible. When my son needed to defer payments during grad school, it took weeks of phone calls and paperwork. They also have more fees hidden in the fine print. College Ave: Higher interest rate, but much better customer service. Their online portal is easier to navigate, and they were flexible when we needed to adjust payment dates. They also offer a 0.25% interest rate reduction for autopay, which helps a bit. Also consider Discover Student Loans and Citizens Bank - both offered competitive rates when we were shopping around. The most important advice I can give: apply to 3-4 places within a 14-day window so the credit checks count as a single inquiry on your credit report.
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Bruno Simmons
•This is incredibly helpful, thank you! I hadn't considered the customer service aspect but that's definitely important. Did you find the application process similar for both? And I appreciate the tip about applying within 14 days - I had no idea that was a thing.
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Maggie Martinez
Sallie Mae SUCKS!!!! they added $750 in random fees over 2 years and kept calling me at work when my daughter missed a payment even tho i'm just the cosigner. AVOID THEM
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Alejandro Castro
•Actually, as a cosigner you're equally responsible for the loan. They have every right to contact you if payments are missed - that's literally what cosigning means. I work in financial services and see this confusion all the time.
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Monique Byrd
Have you looked into Earnest? They gave us the best rate (7.2% fixed) last year for my son's junior year after we compared 5 different lenders. Their application was completely online and took about 25 minutes. They do a "soft pull" first to show you your potential rate range before the hard credit check. One thing to watch for with ALL private loans - some capitalize interest while your student is still in school, which means you're paying interest on the interest! We're making interest-only payments while my son is still in school to avoid this problem. Also, make sure to exhaust all federal PLUS loan options before going private. The interest rates can be comparable, but federal loans have better protections and forgiveness options.
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Jackie Martinez
•this is good advice but not everyone qualifies for PLUS loans. we got denied and had to go private
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Bruno Simmons
•Thanks for suggesting Earnest - I'll definitely add them to my list to check out. And thank you for that tip about interest capitalization. I think we're planning to make the interest payments during school too. We did look into PLUS loans but the origination fee is over 4% which seemed high compared to what some private lenders advertise (though I'm now wondering if those advertised rates are realistic based on the other comments here).
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Lia Quinn
Has anyone tried using Claimyr to get through to financial aid? We were on hold for HOURS trying to discuss our FAFSA results and potential appeals to increase federal aid before resorting to private loans. I found claimyr.com and their service actually got us through to a real person at the Federal Student Aid office in about 10 minutes. Saved us hours of waiting. There's a video demo at https://youtu.be/TbC8dZQWYNQ that shows how it works. After talking with FSA, we realized our daughter qualified for more subsidized loans than what was initially offered. Didn't eliminate our need for private loans completely, but reduced the amount by $2,500.
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Monique Byrd
•Never heard of this service but I'm definitely checking it out. We're about to file an appeal for my younger daughter's SAI calculation and I was dreading the phone wait times.
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Maggie Martinez
•does it actually work? sounds 2 good 2 be true if you ask me
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Alejandro Castro
I'm a financial aid counselor at a university. Before committing to a private loan, I strongly recommend: 1. Double-check that you've maximized all federal aid. The Parent PLUS loan, while still requiring credit approval, offers more protections than private loans. 2. If you're set on private loans, don't just look at interest rates. Consider: - Is there an origination fee? - Are there penalties for early repayment? - What deferment options exist if your student attends graduate school? - What assistance is available if you experience financial hardship? 3. Local credit unions often have excellent student loan products with lower rates than the big national lenders. 4. Consider having your student pay the interest while in school to prevent capitalization, which can add thousands to the loan balance by graduation. I see too many families focus solely on getting the money quickly without understanding the long-term implications of different loan structures.
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Bruno Simmons
•Thank you for the professional perspective! I hadn't thought about checking with our credit union - that's a great suggestion. And I appreciate the reminder about the Parent PLUS loan. We initially dismissed it because of the origination fee, but maybe we should reconsider given the protections it offers.
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Jackie Martinez
SoFi was the best for us! No fees, 6.8% fixed rate, and they gave us a $300 bonus for signing up through a referral link. My daughter graduated 2 years ago and we refinanced all her loans with them too. much better than dealing with multiple servicers.
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Zane Gray
•Just a caution about refinancing federal loans with private lenders like SoFi - you permanently lose all federal protections like income-based repayment plans and potential loan forgiveness. For private loans it can make sense, but I'd never recommend refinancing federal loans unless you're absolutely certain you won't need those protections.
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Haley Stokes
OP have yuo considered jst paying the 14k yourself instead of loans? that's wat we did for our son, no loans no debt!!!
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Bruno Simmons
•That would be ideal, but unfortunately not everyone has $14,000 in cash available to pay for college expenses. We're already contributing what we can from savings, but still need the loans to fill the gap.
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Maggie Martinez
•wow must be nice to have that kind of money lying around 🙄
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Nia Jackson
Just wanted to add another option to consider - CommonBond. We used them for my daughter's senior year and had a really positive experience. They offered us 7.4% fixed with no origination fees, and their customer service was excellent when we had questions about the repayment timeline. One thing I learned through this process is to really pay attention to the variable vs fixed rate options. Several lenders tried to entice us with lower variable rates that could have jumped significantly over the life of the loan. With interest rates potentially rising, we felt the fixed rate gave us more peace of mind for budgeting. Also, make sure to read the fine print about co-signer release policies. Some lenders make it nearly impossible to remove yourself as co-signer even after your student has been making payments reliably for years. Good luck with your search!
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Emma Wilson
•Thanks for mentioning CommonBond - I hadn't heard of them before! The 7.4% fixed rate sounds reasonable, especially with no origination fees. That's a great point about variable vs fixed rates too. I was initially drawn to some of the lower variable rates I saw advertised, but you're right that with the current economic climate, fixed rates probably make more sense for long-term planning. I'll definitely add CommonBond to my list of lenders to research. Did they have any requirements for co-signer release, or was that one of the areas where they were more flexible?
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StardustSeeker
As someone who just went through this process last semester, I'd recommend starting with a spreadsheet to compare all your options side by side. I created columns for interest rate, origination fees, autopay discounts, co-signer release terms, and deferment options. It really helped us see the full picture beyond just the advertised rates. One thing that surprised me was how much the rates varied even with the same credit score. We got quotes ranging from 6.9% to 11.2% for the exact same loan amount. Don't get discouraged if the first few quotes are higher than expected - keep shopping around. Also, timing matters more than I realized. We applied in late July and got better rates than friends who applied in October, possibly because lenders were trying to meet quotas earlier in the academic year. With your 760+ credit score, you should be in good shape for the better rates most lenders offer.
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Ava Kim
•This is such great advice! I love the spreadsheet idea - that would definitely help me keep track of all the different terms and conditions. The rate variation you mentioned is eye-opening too. I hadn't realized timing could play such a role in the rates offered. Since we're planning for next fall, I should probably start the application process soon to take advantage of potentially better rates earlier in the cycle. Thanks for sharing your experience!
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Isabella Ferreira
I'm new to this whole private loan process and feeling a bit overwhelmed, but this thread has been incredibly helpful! Based on what everyone's shared, it sounds like I should definitely shop around with multiple lenders and not just go with the first offer. One question I have - for those who've been through this, how long did it typically take from application to getting the funds disbursed to the school? I want to make sure we start the process with enough time before the semester begins. Also, did any of you run into issues with the school's financial aid office when coordinating the private loan disbursement with the rest of your aid package? I'm leaning towards starting with Earnest, CommonBond, and maybe our local credit union based on the recommendations here. The spreadsheet idea is brilliant - definitely going to set that up to compare everything side by side. Thanks everyone for sharing your experiences!
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CosmicCowboy
•Welcome to the private loan journey! From my experience, the timeline from application to disbursement is usually 2-3 weeks once approved, but I'd recommend starting at least 4-6 weeks before you need the funds just to be safe. Some lenders are faster than others - Earnest was pretty quick for us, about 10 days total. As for coordinating with the financial aid office, definitely give them a heads up early! Most schools have a process for this, but they need time to adjust your aid package and make sure you're not going over the total cost of attendance. I learned this the hard way when our first private loan got delayed because we hadn't notified the school in advance. Your plan to check Earnest, CommonBond, and your credit union sounds solid. I'd also suggest adding Discover to your list if you have time - they were surprisingly competitive when we shopped around. Good luck!
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Ravi Choudhury
As someone who just went through this exact situation with my daughter last year, I'd strongly recommend checking out Citizens Bank in addition to the others mentioned here. They ended up giving us the best rate at 6.2% fixed with our similar credit score, and their application process was surprisingly smooth. One thing I wish I'd known earlier - definitely apply for pre-qualification with multiple lenders first before doing the full applications. Most do soft credit pulls for pre-qual that won't hurt your score, and you can see your potential rates without committing. We ended up saving almost 2% by shopping around this way. Also, don't forget to factor in your state's tax deductions for student loan interest when comparing options. In some states, you can deduct the interest payments which effectively lowers your cost. With $14K in loans, that could add up to meaningful savings over the repayment period. Good luck with your search - sounds like you're being smart about researching thoroughly before jumping in!
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Jamal Anderson
•This is exactly the kind of detailed advice I was hoping for! I had no idea about the pre-qualification option with soft credit pulls - that's a game changer for comparing rates without impacting our credit score. Citizens Bank is definitely going on my list now, especially with that 6.2% rate you mentioned. The point about state tax deductions is something I hadn't considered at all. I'll need to look into what our state offers for student loan interest deductions. With the amount we're looking to borrow, even a small percentage could make a real difference over the years. Thanks for taking the time to share your experience - it's so helpful to hear from someone who just went through this process recently. I feel much more confident about approaching this systematically now!
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