Final tip: After the correction processes, download and save a copy of the corrected SAR (Student Aid Report). This documents that the correction was properly submitted and processed, which can be invaluable if questions arise later. You can find this on the studentaid.gov dashboard after logging in.

As a newcomer here, I'm dealing with a similar situation and this thread has been incredibly helpful! I just wanted to add that if anyone is still struggling with the correction process, you can also contact your school's financial aid office directly. They often have direct lines to help with FAFSA issues and can sometimes expedite processing if you're approaching deadlines. My daughter's school was able to make a provisional aid offer based on the corrected information while we waited for the official correction to process. Don't hesitate to reach out to them - they're usually very understanding about honest mistakes like this!

One additional tip: For the CSS Profile (which some private colleges require), you can specifically request an address privacy block if you have documented safety concerns. Contact the College Board directly about this option if any of your children's schools require the CSS Profile. They have protocols in place for situations exactly like yours.

Just wanted to add that you should also be careful about any state-specific financial aid forms your kids might need to fill out. Some states have their own grant programs with separate applications that could ask for different address information than the FAFSA. I'd recommend checking your state's higher education website to see what forms they require and whether they have similar privacy protections. Also, if your kids qualify for any need-based aid, make sure the school sends all correspondence to the address you want (not automatically to the student's listed address). Most schools will let you specify a preferred mailing address for financial aid documents if you call their office directly.

Just wanted to chime in as someone who works at a college financial aid office - you've gotten excellent advice here! One additional tip: when you're both creating your FSA IDs, make sure to do it from separate devices or at least separate browser sessions if using the same computer. I've seen cases where the system gets confused if multiple FSA IDs are created from the same browser session. Also, keep your confirmation emails from the FSA ID creation process - they contain important reference information you might need later. The nursing program sounds exciting - best of luck with your FAFSA and your studies!

Just wanted to add my experience as someone who recently went through this with my spouse! We created our separate FSA IDs about a week apart (I created mine first as the student, then my husband created his), and everything worked smoothly. One thing that really helped us was setting up a shared password manager entry where we both saved our FSA ID login information - that way we could both access the details if needed during the FAFSA process, but we still maintained separate accounts as required. Also, don't stress too much about the process - once you get past the initial FSA ID creation, the actual FAFSA completion is pretty straightforward, especially compared to the old paper forms! The nursing field needs more dedicated people like you, so it's great that you're pursuing this path!

Just wanted to follow up - were you able to make any progress? Did you try contacting FSA directly using the service I mentioned or visiting your local SSA office? Sometimes bringing your marriage certificate and explaining the situation in person can expedite the process.

That's such great news that you finally got through to someone at FSA! Having a note on your account should definitely help smooth things over when you submit. And going to SSA in person is smart - they're usually more helpful face-to-face than over the phone. Make sure to bring copies of everything (marriage certificate, ID, any correspondence about the name change) just in case. Fingers crossed the SSA visit goes well and you can get this all sorted out soon!

man i wish i knew this last year i spent weeks trying to get my dads tax info and he was so difficult about it for nothing apparently 🙄

Just wanted to chime in as someone who works in financial aid at a state university - you're getting great advice here! The key thing to remember is that FAFSA follows a very specific definition of "parent" that's based on who you lived with, not biological relationships or financial support. Since your parents were never married and you live with your mom, she's your only "parent" for FAFSA purposes. One small tip: when you get to the parent demographics section, make sure to select "Single" as your mom's marital status rather than leaving it blank. This helps the system understand your family structure. And don't worry about verification - single-parent households with income around $38K are actually pretty common and shouldn't raise any red flags. Good luck with your application!