ESD benefits after quitting job due to relocation - eligible?
I had to resign from my job last month because my partner got a really great job opportunity in Spokane (we were in Seattle). I didn't want to quit, but we couldn't afford to maintain two households and the commute would've been impossible. My boss was understanding but said it counts as voluntarily quitting. When I applied for unemployment, I explained the situation in detail, but my claim is showing as 'pending adjudication review' for almost 3 weeks now. Has anyone successfully received unemployment benefits after relocating? I've worked steady for 6+ years and paid into the system the whole time. This feels unfair since I didn't exactly have a choice here...
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Nia Wilson
I was in a similar situation last year. Unfortunately ESD denied my claim because they considered my move to be a 'personal choice' even though my husband's job transfer was mandatory. Did you try calling ESD to explain your specific circumstances? The adjudicator might consider your case differently depending on the details.
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Luca Ferrari
•I've been trying to call ESD for the past 2 weeks and can't get through! Either busy signals or disconnected after waiting forever. Did you eventually get approved or what happened with your claim?
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Mateo Martinez
It depends on the specific circumstances. According to ESD rules, voluntarily quitting to relocate with a spouse/domestic partner CAN qualify for benefits, but only if the relocation was due to the spouse's: 1. Employment that is outside the existing labor market area 2. An accepted, bona fide job offer 3. Military transfer You'll need to provide documentation of your partner's job offer and proof of your relationship. The adjudicator will evaluate if staying in your job would have imposed an 'unreasonable hardship' on your family unit. Make sure all this documentation is clearly explained and submitted.
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Luca Ferrari
•Thank you! That's really helpful information. I have the job offer letter but I didn't submit it with my original application. Do you know how I can get that to them now? I can't reach anyone on the phone.
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Aisha Hussain
i quit my job wen we moved for my wifes job 2 yrs ago and got benefits no problem!!! u just need make sure u explain it right. they denied me at first but i appealed and won.
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Luca Ferrari
•That gives me hope! Did you have to go through a whole appeal hearing or did they fix it during adjudication?
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Ethan Clark
Have you tried updating your application through eServices to add the documentation about your partner's job offer? You can upload documents directly through the portal. Just log in, go to your claim, and look for the document upload section. Also, check if there are any questionnaires waiting for you to complete - sometimes they hide in there and delay your claim if not completed.
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Luca Ferrari
•I just checked and don't see anywhere to upload documents except for job search activities. Maybe I'm looking in the wrong place? There aren't any pending questionnaires either.
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StarStrider
ESD is the WORST!!! They denied me for the exact same reason and when I appealed they said I should have 'exhausted all reasonable alternatives before quitting' whatever that means!?! Their whole system is designed to deny valid claims. Good luck actually getting a human on the phone - I tried for literally TWO MONTHS straight.
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Yuki Sato
•I had the same frustration trying to reach ESD until I used Claimyr (claimyr.com). It basically calls ESD for you and holds your place in line, then calls you back when an agent is about to answer. Saved me from spending hours on hold. They have a video showing how it works: https://youtu.be/7DieNd3C7zQ?si=26TzE_zGms-DODN3. Totally worth it when you're dealing with adjudication issues that can only be resolved by talking to an actual person.
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Carmen Ruiz
My sister went through this exact situation in 2025 when she followed her husband to Tacoma for his job. The key thing that got her approved was proving that staying at her old job would cause 'undue hardship' on their family. She had to provide: - Husband's job offer letter - Proof they were married - Letter explaining the financial impact of maintaining two residences - Cost breakdown showing the hardship Don't give up! If adjudication denies you, appeal right away.
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Luca Ferrari
•Thank you! I should definitely put together a letter explaining the financial hardship. We're not married but have been domestic partners for 5 years - do you know if that's treated the same way for ESD?
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Andre Lefebvre
anyone else notice how esd ALWAYS puts claims in adjudication for things that should be straightforward?? its like they want to make us wait and hope we give up. so annoying.
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Aisha Hussain
•yup!!!! makes no sense! my friend who got fired for NO REASON got approved in 2 days. Meanwhile people with legit reasons for quitting get stuck in adjudication hell for months!!
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Mateo Martinez
To answer your question about domestic partnerships - yes, Washington State ESD recognizes registered domestic partnerships the same as marriages for unemployment purposes. Make sure you have your domestic partnership registration documentation ready. Regarding adding documents to your claim, you'll need to call ESD to get specific instructions for your case. You might also try sending the documents through the secure message system in eServices, but calling is more reliable for time-sensitive adjudication issues.
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Luca Ferrari
•After trying for days, I finally got through to ESD using that Claimyr service someone mentioned. They confirmed I can send documents through secure messaging in eServices. The agent said my claim shows as 'voluntary quit - needs supporting documentation' so I'm going to send everything tonight. Thank you all for the guidance!
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Nia Wilson
Let us know how it goes! I wish I'd known about the domestic partnership rules when I was dealing with my claim. I actually gave up after my denial because the appeal process seemed so daunting. Fingers crossed your adjudication comes through quickly!
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Luca Ferrari
•Will do! I'm much more optimistic now. Going to upload all my documents tonight and follow up again next week if I don't hear anything.
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Zainab Ibrahim
Good luck with your claim! I went through something similar when my spouse got transferred for work. One thing that really helped was creating a timeline document showing the sequence of events - when your partner got the job offer, when you gave notice, when you moved, etc. It helps the adjudicator see that this was a necessary decision, not just a voluntary choice. Also, if your former employer is willing, get a letter from them confirming that remote work or transfer wasn't an option. ESD sometimes looks more favorably on claims when they can see you explored alternatives first. The whole process is frustrating but don't give up - your situation sounds like it should qualify under the spouse/partner relocation rules.
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GalaxyGuardian
•That's excellent advice about creating a timeline! I wish I had thought of that earlier. I did ask my former boss about remote work options, but our role required being on-site for client meetings and lab work. I'll definitely include that information along with the timeline when I submit everything. It really helps to hear from people who've been through this successfully - gives me hope that the system does work sometimes, even if it takes forever!
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