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Paolo Esposito

Social Security implications after selling house to son for mother-in-law suite conversion

I'm 67 and already receiving Social Security retirement benefits (about $2,100/month). My son wants to buy my house from me and convert part of it into a mother-in-law suite where I would live. After paying off my remaining mortgage, I'll have approximately $100,000 from the sale. I'm concerned about how this might affect my SS benefits. Will this cash from the sale count as income? Will moving in with my son (even in a separate suite) change my benefit amount? I've heard something about SSI having asset limits, but I'm on regular retirement benefits, not SSI. Anyone dealt with a similar situation? I don't want to accidentally lose benefits or create tax problems.

Amina Toure

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If ur getting regular retirement benefits (not SSI) then having $100k won't affect ur SS at all. SSI has asset limits but retirement doesn't. The sale might be income for tax purposes but it doesn't reduce ur SS payments.

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Thank you, that's a relief! Do you know if my living arrangement (moving in with my son) would affect my benefits at all? I've heard something about reduced benefits if someone provides you housing.

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Oliver Weber

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As someone who went through something similar with my mother last year, I can provide some clarification: 1. Regular Social Security retirement benefits (SSDI, Retirement, Survivors) are NOT affected by assets or living arrangements. You could have $1 million in the bank and live in a mansion - your regular SS benefits continue unchanged. 2. SSI (Supplemental Security Income) DOES have strict asset limits ($2,000 for individuals) and can be reduced if someone provides housing to you for free. 3. The $100,000 from your house sale is not counted as income for Social Security purposes, but you may have capital gains tax implications depending on how long you've owned the home and profit amount - though there are exemptions for primary residences. 4. Moving in with your son will not affect your regular Social Security retirement benefits at all. The only potential impact would be if you're receiving Medicare and the money pushes your annual income high enough to trigger IRMAA (Income-Related Monthly Adjustment Amount) which increases Medicare Part B/D premiums for higher-income beneficiaries. But that's a separate issue from your SS benefit amount.

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FireflyDreams

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This is exactly what happened to my aunt! She sold her house and moved in with my cousin but her SS benefits didn't change at all. But the next year her Medicare premiums went up because of the IRMAA thing you mentioned.

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Thank you so much for this detailed explanation! I'm definitely on regular retirement benefits, not SSI, so that's a huge relief. I didn't even think about Medicare premiums potentially increasing. Do you know what income threshold triggers the IRMAA increases? Is the $100,000 from selling my house going to push me into that category?

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For 2025, IRMAA kicks in when your Modified Adjusted Gross Income (MAGI) from your tax return 2 years prior exceeds $103,000 for individuals filing single. The home sale could potentially impact this. However, there's good news regarding capital gains on your home sale. If you've owned and lived in your home for at least 2 of the 5 years before selling, you qualify for an exclusion of up to $250,000 of capital gain (for single filers). This means that amount wouldn't count toward your income for tax or IRMAA purposes. Also important - if you experience a life-changing event (like selling your primary residence), you can file Form SSA-44 to request an adjustment to your IRMAA if your income will be significantly lower going forward than it was two years ago. I suggest consulting with a tax professional who understands Social Security and Medicare to get personalized advice for your specific situation.

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This is extremely helpful information! I've owned this home for 19 years, so it sounds like I qualify for that capital gains exclusion. I'll still talk to a tax professional, but it's good to know about Form SSA-44 too. Thank you!

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DON'T DO IT!!!! I did something similar and SSA CUT OFF my benefits for 6 months while they "investigated"!!! They thought I was hiding assets!!! It was a NIGHTMARE trying to get them to understand I was just downsizing and moving in with family!!! Had to submit endless paperwork and PROVE everything with bank statements and house sale documents!!! They eventually restored my benefits with backpay but I almost lost my mind dealing with those people!!!

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Oliver Weber

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That's unusual for someone on retirement benefits. Were you perhaps receiving SSI (Supplemental Security Income) rather than standard Social Security retirement? SSI has strict asset limits while regular Social Security retirement does not. The investigation you experienced would be standard procedure for SSI but shouldn't happen with regular retirement benefits.

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You're right! I just checked my old paperwork and I WAS on SSI not regular SS!!! Sorry for the confusion!!! Ignore my panic!!!

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Emma Anderson

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Emma Anderson

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FireflyDreams

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My neighbor went thru something similar last year and everything was fine with her SS checks. But she told me the tricky part was figuring out if the mother-in-law suite counted as a separate residence for property tax purposes. Might want to check with your local tax assessor about that part.

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That's a great point I hadn't considered! I'll definitely check with the local tax assessor. Thank you!

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Amina Toure

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Wait i thought the $250,000 exclusion was only on profits not the whole sale price??? If the house was bought for $150k and sold for $350k then only $100k is profit and thats under the limit. But if it was bought for $50k and sold for $350k then thats $300k profit and would go over the exemption and some would be taxable. I think?????

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You're absolutely correct. The $250,000 capital gains exclusion only applies to the profit (difference between purchase price and selling price, minus qualifying improvements and selling costs), not the entire sale amount. In the OP's case, they mentioned having $100,000 left after paying off the mortgage. This doesn't tell us the actual capital gain amount, which would depend on their original purchase price and any qualifying improvements made over the years. For example, if they purchased the home for $200,000 and are selling for $300,000 (with $200,000 remaining on the mortgage), their capital gain would only be $100,000, well under the $250,000 exclusion threshold.

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just wondering... is your son going to charge you rent for the mother in law suite? because if he does that could complicate things with how the money is handled.

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We haven't fully worked out the arrangements yet, but he did mention a small monthly contribution from me for utilities and maintenance rather than formal rent. I'll discuss that aspect with the tax professional too. Thanks for bringing this up!

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I'm in a similar situation planning ahead - my daughter wants to buy our family home next year when I turn 65. Reading through all these responses has been incredibly helpful! A few additional thoughts from my research: 1. Make sure to keep detailed records of the entire transaction - purchase agreement, closing documents, proof of mortgage payoff, etc. Even though regular SS retirement benefits aren't affected by assets, having everything documented gives peace of mind. 2. Consider timing if you're close to any income thresholds. Since IRMAA looks at tax returns from 2 years prior, the timing of when you realize any capital gains could matter for future Medicare premiums. 3. If your son is planning major renovations for the mother-in-law suite, you might want to clarify upfront how much of the sale proceeds (if any) you'll contribute to those improvements, as this could affect your tax situation. 4. One thing I learned from my research - if you do end up paying your son some monthly amount for utilities/maintenance, make sure it's documented properly. The IRS likes clear paper trails for family financial arrangements. Thanks to everyone who shared their experiences - this thread has been a goldmine of practical information!

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Laura Lopez

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This is such valuable advice, especially about the documentation and timing aspects! I hadn't thought about how the timing of capital gains realization could affect future Medicare premiums. Your point about keeping detailed records resonates with me - even though my regular SS benefits won't be affected, having everything properly documented will definitely help me sleep better at night. The suggestion about clarifying upfront how much I might contribute to renovations is really smart too. I was thinking about helping with some of the mother-in-law suite improvements, so I'll make sure we document that properly. Thanks for sharing your research - it's so helpful to hear from someone planning a similar transition!

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As a newcomer to this community, I want to thank everyone for sharing such detailed and helpful information! I'm not in this exact situation yet, but my aging parents have been talking about potentially selling their home and moving in with one of us kids in the next few years. Reading through this thread has been incredibly educational - I had no idea about the distinction between regular Social Security retirement benefits and SSI, or about the IRMAA Medicare premium adjustments. The point about keeping detailed documentation and the capital gains exclusion for primary residences is especially valuable. One question that comes to mind after reading all these responses: For those who have gone through similar family arrangements, how did you handle the emotional/family dynamics aspect? Obviously the financial and legal considerations are crucial, but I imagine there might be some adjustment challenges when parents move in with adult children, even with separate living spaces. Any advice on making that transition smoother for everyone involved? Thanks again to @Paolo Esposito for asking such a relevant question, and to everyone who shared their experiences and expertise!

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NeonNebula

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Welcome to the community @Sofia Rodriguez! You've asked such an important question about the emotional/family dynamics aspect. As someone who's been lurking here for a while but just starting to participate, I've seen a few posts touch on this. From what I've observed in other threads, setting clear boundaries and expectations upfront seems crucial - things like privacy, household responsibilities, financial contributions, and decision-making roles. Some families have found success with a "trial period" arrangement before making permanent changes. I think having separate entrances (like the mother-in-law suite @Paolo Esposito mentioned can) really help maintain independence and dignity for everyone. Also, regular family meetings to address any issues before they become bigger problems. The financial planning you re'all discussing is definitely the foundation, but you re'absolutely right that the relationship dynamics can make or break these arrangements. I d'love to hear from others who have navigated this successfully!

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