Social Security implications after selling house to son for mother-in-law suite conversion
I'm 67 and already receiving Social Security retirement benefits (about $2,100/month). My son wants to buy my house from me and convert part of it into a mother-in-law suite where I would live. After paying off my remaining mortgage, I'll have approximately $100,000 from the sale. I'm concerned about how this might affect my SS benefits. Will this cash from the sale count as income? Will moving in with my son (even in a separate suite) change my benefit amount? I've heard something about SSI having asset limits, but I'm on regular retirement benefits, not SSI. Anyone dealt with a similar situation? I don't want to accidentally lose benefits or create tax problems.
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Amina Toure
If ur getting regular retirement benefits (not SSI) then having $100k won't affect ur SS at all. SSI has asset limits but retirement doesn't. The sale might be income for tax purposes but it doesn't reduce ur SS payments.
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Paolo Esposito
•Thank you, that's a relief! Do you know if my living arrangement (moving in with my son) would affect my benefits at all? I've heard something about reduced benefits if someone provides you housing.
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Oliver Weber
As someone who went through something similar with my mother last year, I can provide some clarification: 1. Regular Social Security retirement benefits (SSDI, Retirement, Survivors) are NOT affected by assets or living arrangements. You could have $1 million in the bank and live in a mansion - your regular SS benefits continue unchanged. 2. SSI (Supplemental Security Income) DOES have strict asset limits ($2,000 for individuals) and can be reduced if someone provides housing to you for free. 3. The $100,000 from your house sale is not counted as income for Social Security purposes, but you may have capital gains tax implications depending on how long you've owned the home and profit amount - though there are exemptions for primary residences. 4. Moving in with your son will not affect your regular Social Security retirement benefits at all. The only potential impact would be if you're receiving Medicare and the money pushes your annual income high enough to trigger IRMAA (Income-Related Monthly Adjustment Amount) which increases Medicare Part B/D premiums for higher-income beneficiaries. But that's a separate issue from your SS benefit amount.
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FireflyDreams
•This is exactly what happened to my aunt! She sold her house and moved in with my cousin but her SS benefits didn't change at all. But the next year her Medicare premiums went up because of the IRMAA thing you mentioned.
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Paolo Esposito
•Thank you so much for this detailed explanation! I'm definitely on regular retirement benefits, not SSI, so that's a huge relief. I didn't even think about Medicare premiums potentially increasing. Do you know what income threshold triggers the IRMAA increases? Is the $100,000 from selling my house going to push me into that category?
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Natasha Kuznetsova
For 2025, IRMAA kicks in when your Modified Adjusted Gross Income (MAGI) from your tax return 2 years prior exceeds $103,000 for individuals filing single. The home sale could potentially impact this. However, there's good news regarding capital gains on your home sale. If you've owned and lived in your home for at least 2 of the 5 years before selling, you qualify for an exclusion of up to $250,000 of capital gain (for single filers). This means that amount wouldn't count toward your income for tax or IRMAA purposes. Also important - if you experience a life-changing event (like selling your primary residence), you can file Form SSA-44 to request an adjustment to your IRMAA if your income will be significantly lower going forward than it was two years ago. I suggest consulting with a tax professional who understands Social Security and Medicare to get personalized advice for your specific situation.
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Paolo Esposito
•This is extremely helpful information! I've owned this home for 19 years, so it sounds like I qualify for that capital gains exclusion. I'll still talk to a tax professional, but it's good to know about Form SSA-44 too. Thank you!
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Javier Morales
DON'T DO IT!!!! I did something similar and SSA CUT OFF my benefits for 6 months while they "investigated"!!! They thought I was hiding assets!!! It was a NIGHTMARE trying to get them to understand I was just downsizing and moving in with family!!! Had to submit endless paperwork and PROVE everything with bank statements and house sale documents!!! They eventually restored my benefits with backpay but I almost lost my mind dealing with those people!!!
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Oliver Weber
•That's unusual for someone on retirement benefits. Were you perhaps receiving SSI (Supplemental Security Income) rather than standard Social Security retirement? SSI has strict asset limits while regular Social Security retirement does not. The investigation you experienced would be standard procedure for SSI but shouldn't happen with regular retirement benefits.
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Javier Morales
•You're right! I just checked my old paperwork and I WAS on SSI not regular SS!!! Sorry for the confusion!!! Ignore my panic!!!
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Emma Anderson
I just went through this exact situation with my elderly father last year. Trying to reach Social Security to get clear answers was impossible - 2+ hour wait times, disconnections, conflicting information from different representatives. I finally used a service called Claimyr (claimyr.com) that got us connected to an actual SSA agent in less than 10 minutes. They have a video showing how it works: https://youtu.be/Z-BRbJw3puU The SSA agent confirmed everything others have said here - regular retirement benefits are NOT affected by assets or living arrangements. The house sale proceeds won't impact your monthly benefit amount. We were able to get written confirmation which gave my dad peace of mind before proceeding with his move.
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Malik Thompson
•did that claimyr thing actually work? i've been trying to get through to ssa for weeks!
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Emma Anderson
•Yes, it worked exactly as advertised. My father was initially skeptical but we were connected to an SSA agent in about 7 minutes. Saved us countless hours of frustration. The agent we spoke with was knowledgeable and addressed all our questions about the home sale situation.
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FireflyDreams
My neighbor went thru something similar last year and everything was fine with her SS checks. But she told me the tricky part was figuring out if the mother-in-law suite counted as a separate residence for property tax purposes. Might want to check with your local tax assessor about that part.
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Paolo Esposito
•That's a great point I hadn't considered! I'll definitely check with the local tax assessor. Thank you!
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Amina Toure
Wait i thought the $250,000 exclusion was only on profits not the whole sale price??? If the house was bought for $150k and sold for $350k then only $100k is profit and thats under the limit. But if it was bought for $50k and sold for $350k then thats $300k profit and would go over the exemption and some would be taxable. I think?????
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Natasha Kuznetsova
•You're absolutely correct. The $250,000 capital gains exclusion only applies to the profit (difference between purchase price and selling price, minus qualifying improvements and selling costs), not the entire sale amount. In the OP's case, they mentioned having $100,000 left after paying off the mortgage. This doesn't tell us the actual capital gain amount, which would depend on their original purchase price and any qualifying improvements made over the years. For example, if they purchased the home for $200,000 and are selling for $300,000 (with $200,000 remaining on the mortgage), their capital gain would only be $100,000, well under the $250,000 exclusion threshold.
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Malik Thompson
just wondering... is your son going to charge you rent for the mother in law suite? because if he does that could complicate things with how the money is handled.
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Paolo Esposito
•We haven't fully worked out the arrangements yet, but he did mention a small monthly contribution from me for utilities and maintenance rather than formal rent. I'll discuss that aspect with the tax professional too. Thanks for bringing this up!
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