Can my friend claim reduced survivor benefits at 62 from ex-husband who died after divorce?
My neighbor's situation has me confused about survivor benefits. Her ex-husband passed away in February at age 75. They were married for 29 years before divorcing in 2020. He had been receiving SSDI for about 12 years due to a construction accident. She turns 62 in August and hasn't remarried. I think she qualifies for survivor benefits as a divorced spouse, but I'm not sure if taking them at 62 instead of waiting until her full retirement age will permanently reduce the amount? She has an appointment with SSA next week and a phone interview scheduled for March 18. Just gathering information to help her prepare since she's pretty overwhelmed with everything. Anyone know how the age reduction works for divorced spouse survivor benefits?
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Isabella Oliveira
Yes, she can definitely claim divorced spouse survivor benefits since they were married over 10 years. But taking them at 62 instead of her full retirement age (probably 67 for her) WILL permanently reduce the benefit amount. I think it's about a 28-30% reduction if she takes them at 62 instead of waiting. She should ask the SSA rep about the exact reduction percentage in her case. Also, she should ask about her options for switching to her own retirement benefit later if that would be higher.
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Malik Thomas
•Thanks for confirming! Do you know if they calculate the survivor benefit based on what he was actually receiving for SSDI or on some other amount? And does the fact that he died after they divorced affect anything?
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Ravi Kapoor
my aunt did this exact thing last year!!! she started gettin survivors benefits from her ex at 62 and yes it was reduced but she said it was still worth it becuz she needed the money now not later. tell your friend to bring the divorce papers and his death certificate to the appointment for sure!!!!!
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Malik Thomas
•That's really helpful to know someone who went through it! I'll definitely tell her about the documents. Did your aunt mention how long it took for the benefits to start once approved?
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Freya Larsen
Based on my experience as a former SSA employee, here's what your friend should know: 1. Yes, she qualifies for divorced spouse survivor benefits since they were married over 10 years and she hasn't remarried. 2. Taking benefits at 62 instead of her Full Retirement Age (FRA) will result in a permanent reduction - approximately 28.5% less than if she waited until FRA. 3. The benefit amount will be based on 100% of what her ex-husband was entitled to receive (if taken at her FRA) - not necessarily what he was actually receiving. 4. The fact that he died after they divorced does not affect her eligibility as long as they were married 10+ years. 5. She should also ask about the possibility of restricting her application to survivor benefits only, which might allow her own retirement benefit to grow until age 70 if that would result in a higher amount.
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Malik Thomas
•Wow, this is incredibly detailed and helpful! I'll make sure she knows to ask about restricting the application to just survivor benefits. She worked on and off over the years so her own benefit might not be very high, but definitely worth checking.
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GalacticGladiator
I went through something similar but SSA kept giving me the runaround for MONTHS!!! Every time I called, I'd wait for 2+ hours only to get disconnected or told different information. So frustrating! Make sure your friend documents EVERYTHING from every conversation.
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Omar Zaki
•I had the same problem trying to get through to SSA about my widow benefits. Finally used a service called Claimyr (claimyr.com) that got me connected to an agent in under 10 minutes instead of waiting on hold for hours. They have a video showing how it works: https://youtu.be/Z-BRbJw3puU. Completely worth it since I was able to get my questions answered in one call instead of getting disconnected multiple times.
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Chloe Taylor
wut if she's working? doesn't SS have some kinda earnings limit if ur under FRA? my brother got in trouble for that last year
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Freya Larsen
•Good point! Yes, there is an earnings limit for 2025 if she's under FRA and still working. If she earns over $22,750 (approximate 2025 limit), SSA will withhold $1 in benefits for every $2 she earns above that limit. Once she reaches FRA, there's no earnings limit. This is definitely something she should discuss at her appointment.
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Diego Flores
Just a heads up...the SSA appointment and phone interview might not be enough. My sister had THREE different appointments before her survivor benefits were processed correctly. The rules for divorced spouse survivor benefits can be complicated and some SSA reps don't deal with them often enough to know all the details. Tell your friend to be persistent!!!
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Malik Thomas
•That's concerning but good to know. I'll let her know she might need to follow up multiple times. She's pretty anxious about the whole process to begin with.
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Chloe Taylor
does anyone know if she can get the LUMP SUM DEATH BENEFIT too? isn't that like $255 or something
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Isabella Oliveira
•No, divorced spouses aren't eligible for the lump sum death payment of $255. That only goes to a current spouse living with the deceased or to eligible children.
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Ravi Kapoor
my cousin said something about a 60 day window after applying where u can withdraw ur application if u change ur mind about taking early benefits. might be worth asking about that too in case she decides to wait for full amount later
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Malik Thomas
•That's interesting and could be really helpful information. I'll add it to the list of things for her to ask about. Thanks!
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Isabella Oliveira
Another thing she should consider is that survivor benefits taken early are reduced differently than regular retirement benefits. The reduction for survivor benefits at age 62 is about 28.5%, while regular retirement at 62 would be reduced by about 30%. The exact percentage depends on her specific FRA. The SSA representative should be able to calculate the exact amount during her appointment.
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Malik Thomas
•I didn't realize there was a difference in how they calculate the reductions. Thanks for pointing that out!
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