Can SSA force previous representative payee to repay SSI overpayment when recipient hid income?
I'm in a mess with Social Security and hoping someone can help. I agreed to be a representative payee (RP) for my brother-in-law in 2022, but he refused to give me access to his bank accounts. He kept everything private despite me asking multiple times to be added to monitor his finances. In 2023, I discovered he had been working full-time at a warehouse since August and immediately started collecting his pay stubs and reporting to SSA. Fast forward to March 2025, I got slapped with a notice that he has a $14,750 overpayment from unreported income, and SSA is holding ME responsible as his former RP! I resigned as his payee last month when I found out about this, but yesterday I received a letter stating they plan to withhold money from MY Social Security benefits to recover his overpayment. How can I dispute this? Shouldn't the overpayment be his responsibility since he deliberately hid his income? I have text messages proving I asked for account access multiple times and he refused. I also have proof I reported his income as soon as I discovered it. We're planning to visit the local office next week, but I want to be prepared. Is there a specific form I need to file? What documentation should I bring? Has anyone successfully gotten out of a situation like this?
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Rajiv Kumar
You need to file SSA-561 (Request for Reconsideration) immediately. As the former RP, you're technically liable under SSA rules, but you have strong grounds for appeal based on what you've described. Bring these documents to your local office: 1. Any texts/emails showing you requested account access 2. Documentation showing when you first learned about his work 3. Copies of all wage reports you submitted once you found out 4. Your resignation letter as RP 5. A written timeline of events At the office, explain that you fulfilled your reporting obligations as soon as you became aware of his employment. Request that the overpayment be transferred to his record with his new payee. This is called "individual liability determination" and is your best bet.
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Isabella Russo
•Thank you so much for this detailed response! I've never heard of the SSA-561 form but will download it right away. I do have the text messages saved and copies of every wage report I submitted after finding out. Do you know if there's a time limit on filing the reconsideration? The letter I received is dated April 3rd.
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Aria Washington
I work as a benefits counselor, and unfortunately, your situation is more common than you might think. The SSA-561 reconsideration request must be filed within 60 days of receiving the notice. Make sure to check the box for "personal conference" if possible - this gives you the opportunity to present your case verbally. Under SSA POMS GN 02205.001, Representative Payees can be held liable for overpayments, but there are exceptions for situations where the RP exercised proper care but was prevented from fulfilling their duties. Your case falls into this category. When you go to the office, also request a "waiver of recovery" using form SSA-632. This requires proving two things: 1) the overpayment wasn't your fault, and 2) recovery would cause financial hardship or be unfair for some reason.
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Isabella Russo
•This is incredibly helpful information! I had no idea about the "personal conference" option or the waiver form. I'll download both forms today and start preparing my documentation. Should I bring the original documents or will copies be sufficient? I'm concerned about leaving original text messages with them.
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Liam O'Reilly
been there done that my cousin got stuck paying back like $9000 for her deadbeat boyfriends ssi overpayment!!! they WILL take it from ur check no matter what u say. The rep payee agreement u signed makes YOU responsible period end of story. sorry but thats just how it is with these people
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Isabella Russo
•Oh no, that's terrifying to hear! Did your cousin try filing an appeal or getting a waiver? I can't afford to have money taken from my benefits for the next several years for something that wasn't my fault!
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Chloe Delgado
WOW this is exactly why i refused to be a rep payee for my uncle last year!! the SSA system is SO BROKEN! they expect you to monitor accounts you dont have access to??? how does that make ANY sense?? and then they punish YOU when the recipient hides things? thats insane! Good luck at the office but prepare to be there ALL DAY and probably get nowhere. thats been my experience.
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Isabella Russo
•I know, it feels like a no-win situation! I was just trying to help a family member, and now I'm being punished for it. I'm definitely preparing for a long day at the office. I'll bring water and snacks!
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Ava Harris
I've helped several clients with this exact issue. When you visit the SSA office, ask specifically to speak with a Technical Expert or Claims Specialist, not just the first available representative. They have more authority to resolve complex payee situations. Bring printed copies of everything (keep the originals safe), especially any evidence showing: 1. You requested account access and were denied 2. The exact date you discovered the work activity 3. Your prompt reporting after discovery The key to winning your case is proving you acted in good faith and fulfilled your responsibilities as soon as you had the necessary information. If the local office is unhelpful, request to speak with the Office Manager. You can also contact your Congressional Representative's office - they often have liaisons who can intervene with SSA on constituent issues.
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Isabella Russo
•Thank you for this advice! I wouldn't have known to ask for a Technical Expert or Claims Specialist. I'll definitely prepare all those documents and bring copies. The Congressional Representative tip is brilliant - I never would have thought of that as an option if the local office doesn't help.
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Jacob Lee
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Isabella Russo
•Thank you for this suggestion! I've been trying to call for days to get clarification before my appointment and just keep getting the busy signal or disconnected. I'll check out that service - it would be so helpful to talk to someone before I go in.
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Emily Thompson
I HAD THIS EXACT PROBLEM IN 2023!!! SSA tried to make me pay back $7,500 for my son's overpayment when I was his payee. He had a job he never told me about and cashed his paychecks instead of depositing them so I couldn't see the income. It took 3 months of fighting but I WON MY CASE! Here's what worked: 1) I brought bank statements showing I never had access to his account 2) I had witnesses who confirmed he concealed his job from me 3) I showed proof I reported it AS SOON as I found out 4) I refused to leave the SSA office until they transferred the debt to him DON'T GIVE UP!!! The system is designed to make you give up and just pay. STAND YOUR GROUND!!!
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Isabella Russo
•This gives me so much hope! Thank you for sharing your success story. It sounds like your situation was almost identical to mine. I'm definitely going to bring bank statements showing I wasn't on the account. Did you have to go to the office multiple times before they finally transferred the debt?
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Liam O'Reilly
hey not to be rude but this is literally WHY ur supposed to manage the money as a rep payee thats the whole point. u signed legal papers saying u would do it. i get that he didn't cooperate but u should have resigned years ago then not waited till theres a problem. just saying
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Chloe Delgado
•That's not fair at all! How can someone manage money they can't access?? The SSI recipient REFUSED to give account access. Should OP have physically forced them to hand over their bank card?? Sometimes family situations are complicated and you can't just "resign" without causing major problems. Let's show some compassion here!
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Rajiv Kumar
One critical thing no one has mentioned: make sure to request a "Without Fault" determination under SSA POMS GN 02250.061. This specifically addresses situations where the Representative Payee was prevented from performing their duties through no fault of their own. Also, when you visit the office, bring a signed statement explaining exactly what happened - having it in writing helps ensure nothing gets missed during your conversation. Be sure to emphasize that you began reporting wages immediately upon discovering the employment. The fact that you proactively reported once you found out will significantly strengthen your case.
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Isabella Russo
•Thank you for mentioning this specific policy! I'll look up SSA POMS GN 02250.061 and make sure to request the "Without Fault" determination. I'm already drafting my written statement to bring with me. Would it be helpful to have it notarized, or is a simple signed statement sufficient?
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Aria Washington
To answer your follow-up questions: 1. For your office visit, bring copies rather than originals. Have the originals with you in case they need to see them, but they'll typically just make copies for their files. 2. The reconsideration deadline is 60 days from the date on the notice. If you're close to that deadline, you can file a basic reconsideration form immediately and then supplement with additional evidence later. 3. A simple signed statement is sufficient - no need for notarization. One more important tip: If the SSA representative at your local office isn't helpful, don't argue with them. Instead, politely ask to speak with a supervisor or office manager. Sometimes the front-line staff aren't familiar with the nuances of representative payee liability, especially in cases like yours where you were denied access to financial information. Keep us updated on how your appointment goes!
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Isabella Russo
•Thank you for answering my questions! I'll bring both copies and originals just in case. My appointment is next Tuesday, so I have time to prepare everything properly. I'll definitely come back and update after the meeting - hopefully with good news! I appreciate everyone's help so much.
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