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Felix Grigori

Can I claim widow benefits at 57 with health issues or must I go through SSDI process?

I lost my husband 5 years ago and I'm now 57 with 30+ years in the workforce. My original plan was to claim widow's benefits at 60, but my health is rapidly deteriorating. I suffer from debilitating spinal stenosis with a bulging disc that causes excruciating pain daily, and I also have complications from my pacemaker that was implanted last year. Some days I can barely get out of bed, let alone make it through an 8-hour shift. I honestly don't know if I can physically continue working for 3 more years until I reach 60. My question is - if I need to stop working before 60 due to these health issues, would I have to go through the entire Social Security Disability process to claim widow's benefits early? Or is there a different process for disabled widow(er)s? I've heard the disability approval process can take years, and I'm not sure my savings will last that long if I have to stop working.

Felicity Bud

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You're asking about Disabled Widow(er) Benefits (DWB), which is different from regular SSDI. Yes, you would still need to go through the disability determination process, but there are some important differences: 1. For DWB, you can qualify as early as age 50 (which you've passed) 2. You must be able to establish disability within 7 years of your husband's death or within 7 years of when you were last entitled to mother's/father's benefits 3. The disability standard is the same as regular SSDI - you must be unable to perform substantial gainful activity due to medical conditions expected to last at least 12 months or result in death The good news is that for DWB, you don't need the same work credits that regular SSDI requires - you're qualifying based on your deceased spouse's work record. I'd recommend applying as soon as possible if you can't continue working.

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Felix Grigori

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Thank you for this information! I had no idea there was something called Disabled Widow Benefits. Do you know if the benefit amount would be reduced since I'm applying before 60? And would this affect any retirement benefits based on my own work record when I reach retirement age?

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Max Reyes

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my sister went thru this. she lost her husban at 52 and couldnt work anymore becuase of her lungs. she had to do the whole disability thing with all the doctors and paperwork but they finally approved her like 8 months later. bascially same thing as reglar disability but you get ur husbands benefit insted of yours. good luck!

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Felix Grigori

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Thank you for sharing your sister's experience. 8 months is a long wait, but much better than years. Do you know if she had to hire a lawyer to help with her case?

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I went through something similar with my back problems (herniated discs, not stenosis). Have you tried getting epidural injections for the pain? My doctor did a series of 3 injections that gave me enough relief to keep working at least part-time. Just wondering if you've exhausted all medical options before taking the disability route - SS is VERY strict about approving disability claims and they'll want to see that you've tried everything possible first.

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Felix Grigori

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I've had two rounds of epidural injections in the past year. The first round helped for about 2 months, but the second barely gave me any relief. My doctor is suggesting surgery, but with my pacemaker complications, they're concerned about anesthesia risks. I'm working with a pain management specialist now but so far nothing has provided substantial relief.

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Adrian Connor

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To directly answer your question - yes, you would need to go through the disability determination process, even for widow's benefits. The SSA doesn't waive the medical review just because you're a widow. However, there's an important strategy to consider in your case. If you apply for Disabled Widow Benefits, you could potentially preserve your own retirement benefit to let it grow until your Full Retirement Age (FRA) or even age 70. This is because taking disabled widow benefits doesn't force you to take your own reduced retirement benefit early. Given your 30+ years of work history, your own benefit might actually be higher than your widow benefit when you reach full retirement age. A successful DWB claim could give you income now while allowing your own benefit to grow.

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Felix Grigori

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That's really helpful information about preserving my own retirement benefit! I didn't realize I could potentially switch later. My husband's earnings were higher than mine for most of our marriage, but I've had some good earning years since his passing. Is there a way to estimate what each benefit would be so I can compare them?

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Aisha Jackson

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Your asking for TROUBLE! My neighbor tried this and SS investigators actually followed her around taking pictures trying to prove she wasn't disabled!! They're VERY strict about disability claims and I heard they deny like 80% of everyone the first time. Just wait till 60 if you can. Not worth the stress.

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Felix Grigori

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Oh wow, that's concerning. I definitely don't want to get caught in some kind of investigation. But I'm genuinely struggling with my health, not trying to game the system. At this point, I'm not sure if I can physically make it to 60 without some kind of assistance.

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Felicity Bud

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This is a bit misleading. The SSA does conduct Continuing Disability Reviews and occasionally investigates fraud, but they don't routinely surveil applicants. The high denial rate is true, but it's mostly due to incomplete applications or lack of sufficient medical evidence, not because they're looking to catch people. OP has legitimate medical conditions with documentation, which is what matters.

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Lilly Curtis

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APPLY FOR BOTH!!! Regular disability AND widow disability at the same time! That's what my financial advisor told me to do. Cover all your bases. Worst they can say is no.

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Adrian Connor

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This is actually good advice. You can apply for both SSDI (based on your own work record) and DWB (based on your husband's record) simultaneously. SSA will determine which benefit is higher if you're approved for both. Just be clear in your application that you're applying for both types of benefits.

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Wait I'm confused...if you get approved for disability now, would that mean you get a different amount than if you waited until 60 for regular widow benefits? And does taking disability widow benefits now affect what you can get for retirement later? The whole Social Security system is so complicated!

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Felicity Bud

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Yes, there can be differences in payment amounts. Disabled Widow(er) Benefits are reduced if taken before Full Retirement Age, but not as severely as taking them at 60. And as I mentioned above, taking DWB doesn't affect the ability to switch to your own retirement benefit later if it's higher. It's definitely complex, which is why it's often beneficial to speak with an SSA representative directly about your specific situation.

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Felix Grigori

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Thank you all for the helpful responses! I've made an appointment with my doctor to get updated medical records and I'm going to start gathering all my documentation. I think I'll apply for both regular SSDI and the Disabled Widow Benefits as suggested. I'm still nervous about the whole process, but at least now I have a better understanding of my options. I'll definitely use that Claimyr service to speak with SSA directly about my specific situation. Will update when I have news about my application.

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Felicity Bud

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That sounds like a good plan. One more tip: keep a detailed journal of your daily pain levels and limitations. This kind of documentation can be very helpful in supporting your claim, especially for conditions like spinal stenosis where the pain can be difficult to objectively measure. Best of luck with your application!

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I'm so sorry you're dealing with these health challenges. As a newcomer to this community, I've been reading through similar situations and wanted to share what I've learned. The information about Disabled Widow(er) Benefits is really eye-opening - I had no idea this was even an option until reading these responses. One thing I'd suggest is also reaching out to your local Area Agency on Aging. They often have benefits counselors who can help navigate the Social Security system for free, and they might be able to review your situation before you apply to make sure you're taking the best approach. They're familiar with both the disability process and widow benefits, so they could give you personalized guidance. Also, given your pacemaker complications, have you considered whether that might qualify you for a Compassionate Allowance? Some cardiac conditions with devices can qualify for expedited processing. It might be worth asking about when you speak with SSA. Wishing you the best with this difficult situation. You're not alone in this process!

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