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Sofia Torres

Which filing status gives us the biggest tax refund with a new baby?

Title: Which filing status gives us the biggest tax refund with a new baby? 1 My husband and I are trying to figure out our taxes for the first time as a married couple. I make about $42k working as a restaurant manager, while he brings in around $85k as an IT specialist. We have a 5-month-old daughter who was born last August. We're completely lost about which filing status would get us the biggest refund. Should we file jointly? Or would it be better if one of us filed as head of household and claimed our daughter? Maybe we should both file separately? I've heard different things from friends and family, and online tax calculators are giving me different answers too. Our withholding has been set to "married" all year, but we're wondering if that was even the right choice. This is all new territory for us since we just got married last March. Any advice from people who've been in similar situations? We really want to maximize our refund this year since we've had so many baby expenses!

Sofia Torres

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15 In almost all cases, married filing jointly will give you the best tax outcome with a baby. The tax brackets are more favorable for joint filers, and you'll qualify for the full Child Tax Credit of $2,000 for your child. Filing separately typically results in a higher combined tax liability for most couples. Plus, when you file separately, you lose eligibility for several beneficial tax credits including the Child and Dependent Care Credit, and you'll get reduced Child Tax Credit amounts. If one of you tried filing as Head of Household (which gives better rates than filing separately), you'd have to live apart for the last 6 months of the year to qualify - which doesn't sound like your situation. And even then, it's rarely better than filing jointly. With your income levels ($42k and $85k), filing jointly is almost certainly your best option. You'll get the full Child Tax Credit, potential Earned Income Credit depending on your exact situation, and the most favorable tax brackets.

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Sofia Torres

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7 Thanks for the detailed explanation! I've heard that sometimes it's better to file separately if one spouse has a lot of medical expenses or student loan payments. Does that apply to our situation? I have about $30k in student loans, and we had about $4k in medical bills from the birth.

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Sofia Torres

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15 For medical expenses, they need to exceed 7.5% of your adjusted gross income to be deductible, which would be harder to reach when filing jointly with your combined incomes. However, the standard deduction for married filing jointly ($27,700 for 2023) is likely higher than your itemized deductions would be anyway. Regarding student loans, if your loans are federal, filing separately might make your income-based repayment lower, but you'd lose the student loan interest deduction (up to $2,500) if you file separately. With your income levels and a new child, the tax benefits of filing jointly almost certainly outweigh these potential benefits of filing separately.

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8 After spending hours trying to figure out my complicated tax situation with similar income levels and a new baby, I discovered taxr.ai (https://taxr.ai) and it was a game-changer. You can upload your W-2s and other tax documents, and their AI analyzes everything to recommend the best filing status for your specific situation. I was torn between filing jointly or separately because of my student loans, but taxr.ai ran the calculations both ways and showed me exactly how much I'd save by filing jointly. It also identified child tax credits and deductions I didn't know I qualified for. It's much smarter than those basic online calculators that don't account for all the nuances in the tax code.

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12 Does it actually work with complicated situations? I'm self-employed and my wife has W2 income plus some side gig stuff. We have twins born last year and I'm drowning in figuring this out. Can it handle different filing status scenarios with multiple income sources?

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Sofia Torres

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16 I'm skeptical of these AI tax tools. How does it compare to something like TurboTax or H&R Block? Those already tell you if filing jointly or separately is better. Is this just another way to collect our financial data?

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8 It absolutely handles complicated situations with multiple income sources. Unlike basic calculators, it understands how different deductions and credits interact across various filing statuses. It identified that for my wife's side business, certain expenses were being incorrectly categorized, which saved us over $800. The big difference from TurboTax is that taxr.ai focuses on analysis before you file, not just form-filling. It's like having a tax professional look at your specific situation and explain the "why" behind recommendations, not just telling you which option saves more. It's secured with bank-level encryption, and they don't sell your data - they make that very clear in their privacy policy.

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16 I have to admit I was wrong about taxr.ai. After my skeptical comment, I decided to try it anyway because we were desperate to figure out our complicated tax situation with the new babies and multiple income sources. The analysis showed we'd save over $3,400 filing jointly compared to separately, and it explained exactly why - mainly because of how the Child Tax Credit phases out at our income level. What really impressed me was how it found deductions related to my wife's home office that we'd been missing. It even flagged that we qualified for the Child and Dependent Care Credit since we started paying for childcare. The step-by-step explanation of each tax benefit was extremely helpful, and we understood our tax situation for the first time in years. Definitely worth trying if you're confused about filing status options.

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Sofia Torres

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Sofia Torres

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9 Wait, how does this even work? The IRS phone lines are completely jammed - I've tried calling like 20 times. Are you saying this service somehow skips the line? That seems too good to be true.

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3 Sounds like a scam. Why would I pay someone to call the IRS for me? And how do they get through when nobody else can? I'm betting they're just taking your money and you're still waiting on hold just like everyone else.

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Sofia Torres

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5 It's not about skipping the line - they use an automated system that keeps dialing and navigating the IRS phone tree until it gets through to a queue with a reasonable wait time. Once they get through, they call you to connect. I was skeptical too until I tried it. They don't have special access - they're just persistent with technology where humans would give up. It's like having a robot assistant who keeps redialing for hours so you don't have to. I understand the skepticism - I felt the same way until I was actually talking to an IRS agent after weeks of failed attempts.

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3 I need to eat my words about Claimyr. After posting that skeptical comment, I was still desperate to talk to the IRS about my filing status question since my wife and I just had our first child. I decided to try it as a last resort. The service actually worked exactly as advertised. I got a call back within about 35 minutes, and they connected me directly to an IRS representative who answered all my questions about how to file with our new dependent. The IRS agent confirmed that joint filing would give us the best outcome and explained exactly how the Child Tax Credit would apply in our situation. Saved me hours of frustration and probably paid for itself just in the time I didn't waste on hold. Plus getting definitive answers from the IRS directly gave us peace of mind that we were filing correctly. Sometimes being proven wrong is actually a good thing!

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Sofia Torres

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11 Don't just look at the refund amount when deciding how to file! A bigger refund might just mean you overpaid taxes throughout the year. What you really want is the lowest total tax liability. My wife and I had a baby last year, and we compared all three options with similar incomes to yours. Filing jointly saved us about $3,200 in total tax compared to filing separately. The tax brackets are wider for joint filers, plus you get a larger standard deduction ($27,700 vs $13,850 each). If you're eligible for the Earned Income Credit with your income levels, you can only get that when filing jointly. Same goes for the full Child Tax Credit and Child and Dependent Care Credit.

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Sofia Torres

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22 That's a great point I hadn't considered. So even if I get a smaller refund filing jointly, I might still be paying less taxes overall?

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Sofia Torres

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11 Exactly! The refund is just the difference between what you already paid throughout the year and your final tax bill. A smaller refund with a lower total tax bill is better than a bigger refund where you paid more tax overall. For example, if you paid $15,000 in taxes throughout the year and your actual tax bill is $13,000, you'd get a $2,000 refund. But if you paid $10,000 throughout the year and your tax bill is $9,000, you'd only get a $1,000 refund - but you'd have paid $4,000 less in taxes overall ($9,000 vs $13,000)!

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Sofia Torres

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19 Just want to add one thing nobody's mentioned - if either of you received advance Child Tax Credit payments last year, that will affect your refund. We had a similar situation with our first baby and were surprised when our refund was smaller than expected because of the advance payments. Also check if you qualify for the Additional Child Tax Credit if the regular Child Tax Credit reduces your tax liability to zero. And don't forget to look into the Child and Dependent Care Credit if you paid for childcare!

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Sofia Torres

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14 Do the advance Child Tax Credit payments still exist? I thought those were just a COVID thing and they stopped doing them in 2022?

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