When does imputed income change for health benefits after going from Domestic Partner to Spouse?

Tax professional here. The correct answer is #2 - the premium payments should no longer be considered imputed income starting from your legal marriage date. The reason is that imputed income for domestic partner benefits is based on your legal relationship status at the time each payment is made. Unlike tax filing status which applies to the entire year, employee benefits and their tax treatment can change mid-year based on qualifying life events (like marriage). Your employer should stop reporting imputed income for any premium payments made after your marriage date. If they continued to show imputed income on paychecks after your marriage, they should correct those payroll records. Make sure you've properly notified your benefits department with documentation of your marriage. This is different from your tax filing status, which is determined by your marital status on December 31st of the tax year.

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Just wanted to update everyone - I took the advice about using taxr.ai and it was incredibly helpful! I was skeptical at first but decided to give it a try since I was getting nowhere with our HR department. They analyzed my situation and not only confirmed that the imputed income should stop on the date of marriage, but they also calculated exactly how much I had been overtaxed (almost $1,300!). They provided a custom letter I could send to HR that cited the relevant tax codes and regulations. Two weeks later, my paycheck now correctly shows no imputed income for my spouse's health benefits, and HR is processing an adjustment for the incorrect withholding since our marriage date. What a relief to have this sorted before tax filing season!

I had this exact same issue last year and it took FOREVER to resolve because I couldn't get anyone at the IRS on the phone to confirm the right answer. After being on hold for hours multiple times, I finally found Claimyr (https://claimyr.com) - they got me connected to an actual IRS representative in under 15 minutes who confirmed that option #2 is correct. The IRS agent explained that marriage is considered a qualifying life event that changes your benefit taxation status immediately, not at year-end. You can see their service demo at https://youtu.be/_kiP6q8DX5c if you're curious how it works. This saved me so much time and frustration compared to the days I wasted on hold before. Once I had official confirmation from the IRS, my HR department finally fixed the issue and refunded the excess tax withholding.

I have to admit I was completely wrong about Claimyr! After posting my skeptical comment, I decided to try it myself since I was getting nowhere with my own situation (similar to the OP's but with dependent coverage questions). It actually worked exactly as described - I got a call back in about 25 minutes, and was connected directly to an IRS representative. The agent confirmed that health benefit taxation changes on the date of marriage, not at year-end. He even emailed me some documentation I could show my employer. Saved me hours of frustration and hold music! Sometimes I'm too quick to assume things are too good to be true.

Something nobody's mentioned yet - make sure your HR department has processed a formal "qualifying life event" change in your benefits system. Many companies require you to update your status within 30 days of marriage, or you might have to wait until open enrollment. If you didn't formally update your status through the proper channels, HR might technically be correct that they can't make the change retroactive to your marriage date. Check your company's benefits handbook!

Can I ask a slightly related question? Does anyone know if this same principle applies to FSA/HSA contribution limits? My wife and I got married in September and I'm wondering if we can contribute the full family amount to my HSA for 2023 or if it's prorated based on our marriage date?

HR manager here - I see this issue come up frequently and wanted to add some practical advice. The tax professional who answered earlier is absolutely correct about option #2 being right, but here's what I recommend for actually getting it resolved: 1. Request a meeting with both your benefits administrator AND someone from payroll - they often work in separate systems that don't communicate well 2. Bring documentation: your marriage certificate, the date you submitted your qualifying life event paperwork, and print-outs showing your spouse is now listed as "spouse" rather than "domestic partner" in your benefits system 3. Ask them to show you exactly where in their payroll system the imputed income calculation is still being applied - sometimes it's a manual override that someone forgot to remove 4. If they push back, ask them to cite the specific regulation they're using for their "option #3" - most of the time they can't because they're just following outdated internal procedures I've seen this resolved dozens of times, and it's usually a simple system configuration issue rather than a complex tax law interpretation. The key is getting the right people in the room who actually understand how both systems work together.

This is such a common issue and I'm glad to see so many helpful responses! I went through this exact same situation when I got married in 2022, and it was incredibly frustrating dealing with our corporate HR department. What finally worked for me was documenting everything in writing. I sent an email to both HR and payroll with: - Copy of our marriage certificate - Screenshots of my benefits portal showing spouse status - Paycheck stubs showing continued imputed income after marriage date - A clear request for correction with specific dollar amounts I also referenced IRS Publication 15-B and included the exact language about how marriage changes the tax treatment of health benefits immediately, not at year-end. Having everything in one email thread made it much harder for them to ignore or claim they didn't understand the issue. The key was being persistent but professional - I followed up every week until it was resolved. It took about 6 weeks total, but they eventually corrected all the payroll records and issued a refund for the excess withholding. Don't let HR brush you off on this - you're absolutely right that the imputed income should stop on your marriage date, and you deserve to have the overpayment corrected!