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Unmarried couple - who should claim Head of Household when we split kids 50/50?

Living with my partner (not married), we split everything down the middle including taking care of our 2 kids. Both our names are on the lease and we share all bills. They make about 40k more than me annually. We want to each claim one kid, but not sure who should file as head of household since we both technically qualify. Anyone dealt with this?

Jason Brewer

Tax pro here. Neither of you can claim HOH if you share the same residence. HOH requires you to maintain a household separate from the other parent. One of you needs to file single, the other HOH. Usually makes most sense for lower income parent to claim HOH for better tax benefits.

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Nina Fitzgerald

wait fr? even if were both on the lease and paying equal? thats crazy 😤

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Jason Brewer

Yep, IRS rules are pretty strict on this. They consider shared residence as one household, cant have 2 HOH claims for same address.

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Kiara Fisherman

learned this the hard way last year smh cost me like 2k in credits 🤦‍♀️

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Liam Cortez

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Savannah Vin

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Mason Stone

idk why the irs makes everything so complicated fr fr

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Makayla Shoemaker

my ex and i alternate who claims HOH each year, keeps it fair

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Christian Bierman

careful with that, IRS might flag it if they notice the pattern 👀

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Emma Olsen

yall need to get married fr problem solved 💅

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Nina Fitzgerald

lmaoo not helpful but thanks 😂

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