Understanding gift tax implications - can I deduct a gift of $18,000 to a friend at Christmas?
Title: Understanding gift tax implications - can I deduct a gift of $18,000 to a friend at Christmas? 1 I run a small wholesale resale business and also work a W-2 job. I've been thinking about helping out a friend who's really struggling financially by giving them a $16,000 gift for Christmas this year. I know there's an annual gift exclusion amount, which I think is around $18,000 for 2025. What I'm confused about is whether I can use this gift as a deduction on my personal income taxes? And does my friend need to report this as income on their tax return? Also, somewhat related but for my business - can I deduct the cost of goods from my wholesale revenue? Just trying to understand all my potential deductions as I'm planning ahead for next year's taxes.
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Keisha Jackson
7 You've got a few different questions here, so let me try to help clarify: First, regarding the gift tax - the annual exclusion is indeed $18,000 per recipient for 2025. This means you can give up to $18,000 to any individual without having to file a gift tax return. However, gifts are never deductible on your personal income tax return. They come from after-tax dollars, and you can't claim them as a deduction. The good news is that your friend won't need to report this as income on their tax return. Gifts received are not considered taxable income to the recipient. For your wholesale resale business question - yes, you absolutely can deduct the cost of goods sold from your revenue. This is a basic business expense deduction and is reported on Schedule C if you're a sole proprietor. Your business profit is calculated as revenue minus legitimate business expenses (including cost of goods sold).
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•15 Thanks for the info! So just to be sure I understand - I can give my friend the money without either of us paying taxes on it, but I just can't use it to lower my own taxable income? And does it matter whether I give the gift from my personal account vs. from my business account?
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•7 That's exactly right - you can give the gift without either of you paying taxes on it (as long as it's under the annual exclusion amount), but you can't use it to reduce your taxable income. Where the money comes from does matter significantly. If you give the gift from your personal account, it's simply a personal gift with the tax treatment I described. However, if you give money from your business account, it's no longer considered a gift - it would either be a business expense (which must have a legitimate business purpose) or a distribution to yourself followed by a personal gift. You can't make personal gifts directly from a business and claim them as business expenses.
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4 Regarding your wholesale business question - make sure you're tracking inventory properly. Cost of goods sold is definitely deductible, but the IRS has specific rules about inventory accounting for wholesale businesses. You need to be consistent in how you value inventory from year to year. I learned this the hard way when I got audited for my small retail business.
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•1 Thanks for this info. I'm actually not sure I'm doing this correctly. Do you use specific inventory tracking software or do you have another system? My business is fairly small but growing, and I've mostly been tracking things in spreadsheets so far.
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•4 I started with spreadsheets too, but as my business grew, I invested in QuickBooks Online with their inventory add-on. It was a game-changer for tracking cost of goods sold properly. The key thing the IRS looks for is consistency in your inventory methods - whether you're using FIFO (first in, first out) or another approved method. For a smaller business, good spreadsheets can work fine as long as you're methodical. Just make sure you're tracking: 1) Beginning inventory value 2) Purchases made throughout the year 3) Ending inventory value. The formula is: Beginning inventory + Purchases - Ending inventory = Cost of Goods Sold for the year.
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11 One thing nobody mentioned - if you're giving money to help your friend with specific expenses like medical bills or tuition, you could potentially pay those directly instead of giving cash. Direct payments to educational institutions or medical providers on someone's behalf aren't subject to gift tax limits at all! Might be worth considering if your friend has those specific needs.
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•19 Is this really true? So I could pay someone's entire college tuition directly to the school and it wouldn't count against the gift tax limit at all?
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