How does the gift tax work if I gift someone the annual maximum ($18,000)?
Title: How does the gift tax work if I gift someone the annual maximum ($18,000)? 1 I run a small wholesale resale business that I draw income from, plus I have a regular W-2 job on the side. My buddy has been having a really tough time financially lately, and I'm thinking about gifting him the annual maximum amount ($18,000) for Christmas to help him out. I'm confused about how this works tax-wise. Would I be able to use this gift as a deduction on my personal income taxes? And does my friend have to report this $18,000 as income when he files his taxes? Also, I want to make sure I understand my business deductions correctly - for my wholesale resale business, can I deduct all my costs of goods from the revenue before calculating taxes? Just trying to get everything straight before the holidays hit.
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Oliver Alexander
12 The gift tax is actually pretty straightforward, though it's commonly misunderstood. First, your $18,000 gift to your friend would NOT be tax-deductible for you. Gifts to individuals (unlike donations to qualified charities) can't be deducted on your personal tax return. The good news is that your friend doesn't have to report it as income either - gifts aren't considered taxable income to the recipient. For 2025, the annual gift tax exclusion is $18,000 per recipient, which means you can give up to that amount to as many people as you want each year without having to report it to the IRS. You won't owe any gift tax, and no paperwork is needed. Regarding your wholesale business - yes, you can absolutely deduct the cost of goods sold from your revenue. That's a legitimate business expense reported on Schedule C. Make sure you keep good records of all your inventory purchases and related costs to support those deductions.
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Oliver Alexander
•7 Thanks for explaining the gift tax! So just to be clear, if I give my friend $19,000 instead of $18,000, what happens then? Do I have to file something special, and would I owe taxes on that extra $1,000?
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Oliver Alexander
•12 If you give your friend $19,000, you'll exceed the annual exclusion by $1,000. You wouldn't immediately owe tax on that $1,000, but you would need to file a gift tax return (Form 709) to report the excess amount. That excess $1,000 would count against your lifetime gift and estate tax exemption (which is over $13 million for 2025). Unless you've already used up that massive lifetime exemption with previous large gifts, you still wouldn't actually pay any gift tax - you'd just need to file the paperwork.
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Oliver Alexander
5 I had a similar situation last year when trying to help my sister through some financial troubles. I was so confused about all the tax implications that I ended up using taxr.ai (https://taxr.ai) to analyze my situation. Their AI looked at my full tax picture including my small business income and the gift I wanted to make. The tool confirmed exactly what the commenter above said - the gift wasn't deductible for me, but it also showed me how to properly document everything. The really helpful part was that it explained how the gift would interact with my business deductions for inventory costs, which was something I hadn't even considered. Saved me from making some mistakes that would have been red flags for an audit.
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Oliver Alexander
•14 How does taxr.ai handle more complex scenarios? Like what if I'm gifting money to someone overseas? Does it still work the same way?
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Oliver Alexander
•3 I'm a bit skeptical about AI tax tools. How accurate is it really? I've been burned before by tax software that missed important details.
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Oliver Alexander
•5 It actually handles international gift scenarios quite well. The tool asks about the citizenship and residency of both the giver and recipient, then provides guidance based on both US tax laws and any relevant treaties. I learned there can be additional reporting requirements depending on where the recipient lives. As for accuracy, I was skeptical too, especially with my business tax situation. What impressed me was that it caught a deduction I was taking incorrectly for my inventory costs. It confirmed its recommendations by providing actual IRS code references, which my accountant later verified were correct. I've found it's most useful for understanding the concepts first, then implementing them properly.
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Oliver Alexander
3 Update on my tax situation: I ended up trying taxr.ai after posting my skeptical comment. I have to say I'm surprised by how helpful it actually was. I uploaded some of my business documents and previous gift records, and it gave me a really clear breakdown of how the gift tax rules applied to my specific situation. What I found most helpful was the explanation about how gifts work with my overall tax picture. It confirmed I couldn't deduct gifts to individuals but showed me other legitimate deductions I was missing in my business. The explanations were actually in plain English instead of tax jargon. Saved me way more than I expected on my quarterly estimated taxes.
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Oliver Alexander
19 If your friend is in serious financial trouble and you're trying to help them, you might also want to look into tax implications of debt forgiveness if that's part of their situation. When I was trying to help my cousin, I couldn't even get through to the IRS to ask questions about gift tax vs debt forgiveness. After waiting on hold for HOURS across multiple days, I found Claimyr (https://claimyr.com) and watched their demo (https://youtu.be/_kiP6q8DX5c). The service got me connected to an actual IRS agent in less than 20 minutes when I had been trying unsuccessfully for days. The agent confirmed that gifting is better than debt forgiveness tax-wise for the recipient and advised me on exactly what records to keep. Seriously saved me hours of frustration and probably kept me from making an expensive mistake.
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Oliver Alexander
•9 Wait, I'm confused. How does this Claimyr thing actually work? Can't you just call the IRS directly? Why would this get you through any faster?
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Oliver Alexander
•3 Yeah right. There's no way anything gets you through to the IRS faster. I've tried calling them dozens of times over the years and it's always the same nightmare. I'll believe it when I see it.
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Oliver Alexander
•19 It works by essentially navigating the IRS phone system and waiting on hold for you. They call you back once they have an agent on the line. It's basically like having someone else sit on hold instead of you. You absolutely can call the IRS directly, but if you've tried recently, you know it's nearly impossible to get through. When I called directly, I was either disconnected after waiting for hours or told to call back another time due to high call volume. Claimyr somehow manages to stay in the queue and actually get through.
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Oliver Alexander
3 I need to eat my words about Claimyr. After posting my skeptical comment, I was desperate enough to try it because I had a time-sensitive question about a large gift I was planning to make before year-end. I figured I had nothing to lose since I'd already wasted hours trying to call the IRS directly. It actually worked! Got a call back in about 15 minutes with an IRS agent on the line. The agent clarified that I didn't need to file Form 709 if I stayed under the annual exclusion amount, but gave me specific instructions on documentation I should keep for my records. They also explained how this interacts with my business taxes since I was confused about that too. Saved me from making what would have been an expensive misunderstanding about gift deductibility.
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Oliver Alexander
17 One thing nobody's mentioned - if you're giving such a large gift, make sure you do it the right way for paper trail purposes. I write checks or use bank transfers rather than cash so there's a clear record of the transaction. My tax guy says this is important if you ever get audited and need to prove it was a gift and not something else.
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Oliver Alexander
•22 Would venmo or paypal work for documenting a gift? Or is a traditional bank transfer better?
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Oliver Alexander
•17 Venmo or PayPal can work as documentation, but traditional bank transfers or checks generally provide clearer documentation that's more readily accepted by the IRS. What's most important is that you include a memo or note clearly indicating it's a gift. With electronic transfers, always use the note field to write "Gift" or "Holiday Gift" to establish intent. Also keep any related communications (texts, emails) where you discuss that it's a gift, as this helps establish the gift nature of the transaction if questions ever arise.
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Oliver Alexander
8 I'm wondering about the lifetime gift exemption - does anybody know if that's going to change in the next few years? I heard it might go down significantly after 2026...
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Oliver Alexander
•11 Yes, the current lifetime gift tax exemption is scheduled to be cut roughly in half after 2025 when the Tax Cuts and Jobs Act provisions sunset. If you're planning very large gifts, it might be worth considering the timing.
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Oliver Fischer
As someone who's been through similar tax situations, I'd recommend documenting everything clearly from the start. Keep records showing the gift amount, date, and recipient - even a simple written note stating "Gift to [friend's name] for Christmas 2025" can be helpful. One thing to consider: if your friend is in serious financial trouble, make sure this gift won't affect any government benefits he might be receiving. Some assistance programs have asset limits that could be impacted by receiving a large gift, even though it's not taxable income to him. Also, since you mentioned having both W-2 and business income, this might be a good time to review your overall tax strategy. The gift itself won't be deductible, but there might be other legitimate business deductions you're missing that could help offset the financial impact of helping your friend out.
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Serene Snow
•That's a really good point about government benefits - I hadn't even thought about that! My friend is actually receiving some state assistance right now, so I should definitely check if a large gift would affect his eligibility. Do you know if there's a way to find out which programs have asset limits without having to call each agency individually? Also, you're absolutely right about reviewing my overall tax strategy. Between the W-2 and business income, I feel like I'm probably missing some deductions. Do you have any suggestions for the most commonly overlooked business expenses for small wholesale operations?
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