Tax implications for wife starting as self-employed realtor - what should we expect?
My wife is jumping into real estate in a couple weeks as a realtor. Looking ahead at taxes for next year and trying to figure out what we're in for, especially since the market is pretty slow and she might not make much profit initially. I'm wondering how it works if she has mostly expenses in the first year (driving costs, MLS fees, broker fees, marketing materials, etc.) but doesn't actually sell anything. Can those expenses be deducted from our combined income? I've got a regular W-2 job with salary, and we typically file jointly. Also curious about the home office deduction if she sets up a dedicated space in our house. What documentation would we need for that? The self employment taxes are another mystery to me. Do those only apply to whatever she earns, or does my income get factored in somehow? From what I understand: - She needs to show she's legitimately working as a realtor (not just a hobby) to deduct expenses - Self employment taxes only apply to her income - Whatever profit she makes gets added to our joint income for regular tax purposes Am I on the right track? Any tips from people who've been in similar situations with one W-2 earner and one self-employed spouse would be appreciated!
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Diego Mendoza
You're definitely on the right track with your understanding! When your wife starts as a self-employed realtor, she'll need to report her business on Schedule C. The good news is that even if she doesn't make a profit initially, legitimate business expenses are deductible against her business income, and any net loss can typically offset other income on your joint return (including your W-2 earnings). For her to qualify as a legitimate business rather than a hobby, she should keep excellent records demonstrating her genuine effort to make a profit - tracking hours worked, marketing efforts, client meetings, etc. Having a separate business bank account and keeping organized expense records will be crucial. Regarding the home office, she can claim the deduction if the space is used exclusively and regularly for her real estate business. Take measurements and photos of the dedicated space, and keep records of all related expenses. Self-employment taxes (Medicare and Social Security) will only apply to her net profit from the business, not your W-2 income. You're already paying those taxes through your employer withholdings.
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Chloe Harris
•Thanks for the detailed response! One follow-up question - are there any specific apps or systems you'd recommend for tracking mileage and expenses that would hold up well in case of an audit? Also, is there a minimum amount of income she needs to earn before we need to start paying estimated quarterly taxes for her business?
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Diego Mendoza
•For mileage and expense tracking, I recommend apps like MileIQ, Everlance, or QuickBooks Self-Employed. These automatically track your trips and allow you to categorize them as business or personal, plus store receipt photos. They generate reports that are definitely audit-friendly. Regarding estimated taxes, you're required to make quarterly payments if you expect to owe $1,000 or more in taxes for the year from self-employment. However, if your W-2 withholding covers at least 90% of your total tax liability or 100% of last year's tax (110% if your AGI was over $150,000), you can avoid the quarterly payments. Many couples increase the withholding from the W-2 spouse's paycheck to cover the additional tax from self-employment income.
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Anastasia Popova
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Sean Flanagan
•Does it actually work with specifically real estate agent tax situations? My wife just got her license too and I've been looking at different tax software options. Do you use it alongside TurboTax or is it a standalone thing?
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Zara Shah
•I'm a bit skeptical about AI tax tools. How does it compare to just hiring a CPA who specializes in real estate? I'm worried about missing something important and getting audited. Did you feel confident that all the deductions it recommended were legit?
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Anastasia Popova
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Zara Shah
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NebulaNomad
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•How does this actually work? Do they have some special connection to the IRS or something? Seems weird that they can get through faster than regular people can.
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Nia Wilson
•This sounds like a scam honestly. No way they're getting through to the IRS any faster than I could myself. And why would you trust giving your tax info to some random service? Hard pass.
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Nia Wilson
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Mateo Martinez
One thing nobody mentioned yet - make sure your wife keeps track of ALL her miles from day one. My husband is a realtor and we missed out on thousands in deductions his first year because he wasn't properly tracking mileage to property showings, networking events, open houses, meetings with clients, supply runs, everything! The standard mileage deduction adds up FAST. Also, consider having her pay for an E&O insurance policy if her broker doesn't provide one. It's not cheap but it's deductible and protects you guys from lawsuits if something goes wrong with a transaction.
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Chloe Harris
•That's great advice about the mileage tracking! Do you have a recommendation for when to start tracking - like from the moment she gets her license, or only once she officially signs with a brokerage?
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Mateo Martinez
•Start tracking from the moment she begins any business-related activities, even before she's officially with a brokerage. This includes driving to real estate classes, broker interviews, or researching properties. Many new agents miss out on these early deductions! Remember, the IRS allows business mileage deductions for any business-related travel that isn't commuting to a regular office. Since most realtors work from various locations (home, properties, client meetings), almost all their driving can qualify. Just make sure she logs the date, starting/ending mileage, destination, and business purpose for each trip. There are great apps that automate this process with GPS tracking.
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Aisha Hussain
My wife just finished her first year as a realtor and we learned some hard lessons on taxes. If your wife plans to work from home, you NEED to have a dedicated space used ONLY for work to claim the home office deduction. We tried claiming our guest bedroom that she sometimes used for work and got flagged for audit. Also, quarterly estimated taxes caught us by surprise. If she starts making decent money, you'll likely need to start making those payments to avoid underpayment penalties. We ended up owing an extra $850 in penalties because we didn't know this.
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Ethan Clark
•Did you end up actually having to pay back the home office deduction or did you manage to prove it was legitimate? I'm in a similar situation - small house with a corner of our bedroom set up as my wife's office, not sure if that would qualify.
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Axel Far
One crucial thing to add - make sure your wife understands the difference between business expenses and startup costs. The IRS treats them differently for tax purposes. True business expenses (like MLS fees, gas for showings, marketing materials) can be deducted in full the year they're incurred. But startup costs (like getting licensed, initial training, setting up the business) have to be amortized over 15 years, though you can deduct up to $5,000 in startup costs the first year if total startup costs are under $50,000. Also, since real estate is heavily relationship-based, keep receipts for any client entertainment or meals - you can deduct 50% of legitimate business meals. This includes taking clients to lunch, coffee meetings with other agents, or meals during real estate events. The key is documentation for everything. The IRS loves to audit Schedule C filers, especially in the first few years when there are losses. Keep a detailed business diary showing your wife's activities, time spent, and business purpose for every expense.
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Josef Tearle
•This is incredibly helpful - I had no idea about the startup costs vs business expenses distinction! My wife just got her license last month and we've been tracking everything the same way. So things like her pre-licensing courses and exam fees would be startup costs, but once she starts actually working as an agent, the MLS fees and marketing materials become regular business expenses? Also, great point about the business diary. We've been good about keeping receipts but haven't been documenting the business purpose for each expense. That could definitely bite us if we get audited. Do you recommend any specific format for the diary, or just a simple notebook with date, activity, and business purpose? The meal deduction tip is gold too - my wife has been networking a lot with other agents over coffee and lunch meetings. We had no idea we could deduct 50% of those costs!
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