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Anastasia Smirnova

Significant other hasn't filed taxes in over 3 years as a 1099 contractor. What could happen?

I've been with my boyfriend for about 2 years now, and he works in the roofing industry as a subcontractor. He receives 1099 forms from the various companies he does jobs for. Recently we've been talking more seriously about our future and possibly purchasing our first home together next spring. Last night during dinner when I brought up getting pre-approved for a mortgage, he got really quiet and finally admitted he hasn't filed his taxes in over 3 years. He's been receiving 1099s but just never filed returns for 2021, 2022, or 2023. He said he always meant to get caught up but just kept putting it off, and now he's worried about what might happen. I'm completely shocked since I've always been diligent about filing my W-2 taxes on time. What kind of consequences could he be facing? Will this completely destroy our chances of getting approved for a mortgage? Could he face criminal charges? What's the process for getting him caught up on all these missing years? He makes around $65,000-70,000 annually according to his 1099s. I'm trying not to panic but also need to understand what we're dealing with here.

This is definitely fixable, so try not to panic! The IRS is generally more interested in getting people compliant than punishing them, especially when they voluntarily come forward before being contacted. Your boyfriend will need to file his past returns as soon as possible. Since he's been receiving 1099s, those income reports have been going to the IRS, so they're aware he should be filing. He'll likely owe back taxes plus penalties and interest, which include: 1. Failure-to-file penalty: Usually 5% of unpaid taxes for each month late, up to 25% 2. Failure-to-pay penalty: Usually 0.5% per month, up to 25% 3. Interest on the unpaid amount (rates vary) As a contractor, he also should have been making quarterly estimated tax payments, so there might be penalties for missing those too. For your home buying plans - yes, this will impact your mortgage application. Lenders typically require 2 years of tax returns and will verify with the IRS that they were filed. He'll need to get caught up before applying. The good news: this happens more often than you'd think, and there are resolution paths. He should consider hiring a tax professional who specializes in back taxes to help navigate this situation.

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Will the IRS come after him if they see he's trying to file now after all this time? Will they garnish his wages or something? I had a cousin who had something similar happen and the IRS took money directly from his bank account.

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The IRS generally appreciates when taxpayers voluntarily come into compliance without being prompted by an IRS enforcement action. While they can pursue various collection activities, they typically don't jump straight to wage garnishment or bank levies unless someone has ignored multiple notices or refused to set up a payment plan. If your boyfriend files his past returns and either pays what he owes or sets up a payment arrangement, the IRS is usually willing to work with him. The IRS offers installment agreements that can make the payments more manageable. In some cases, they might even accept an Offer in Compromise if he truly cannot pay the full amount owed.

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Did it actually work with the IRS? Like did they accept all the deductions you claimed? I'm in a similar situation to OP's boyfriend but worried about claiming too many deductions and triggering an audit.

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How does this actually work? Do you just upload photos of receipts or something? My wife has a side business and we've been terrible about organizing her expenses.

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Your bf needs to be upfront with you about everything before you buy a house together. Not filing for 3+ years as a 1099 contractor means he probably owes a LOT in back taxes, penalties, and interest. Plus he's missed years of Social Security contributions which affects retirement. My ex was in construction too and hid his tax problems until after we were married. Ended up with a $47k tax bill and a lien on our house. Don't make my mistake.

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Thank you for the warning. I'm definitely concerned about what else might be lurking that I don't know about. Do you think we should postpone house hunting until this is completely resolved? How long did it take your ex to get everything cleared up?

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Absolutely postpone house hunting until this is 100% resolved. You don't want your dream home connected to his tax issues in any way. It took my ex almost 18 months to get everything sorted out and set up on a payment plan, and that was with hiring a tax resolution firm. Besides the immediate tax issues, consider this a pretty big red flag about financial responsibility and communication. Not filing taxes for multiple years doesn't happen by accident - it's a series of deliberate choices. Before joining finances in any way (including a mortgage), make sure you're comfortable with his approach to money and obligations.

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Don't panic! I'm in construction too and got 4 years behind on taxes. What saved me was all my legitimate business deductions: - Mileage to/from jobsites - Tools and equipment - Work clothes/boots/safety gear - Cell phone (% used for work) - Supplies and materials - Insurance - Continuing education/certifications Get him to collect ALL receipts and bank statements. If he paid for anything related to work, it might be deductible. This brought my tax bill down by like 40%!

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This is good advice but some of those deductions might not be allowed. Like the IRS doesn't consider regular commuting as deductible mileage, only travel between job sites. And clothes have to be specialized for the job, not just stuff you could wear elsewhere.

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