Is it illegal to skip filing taxes if I can't afford what I owe?
So my husband and I are in a bit of a tax pickle and I'm honestly stressing out about it. His work somehow messed up his withholding and now he owes around $1,350 in federal taxes that we weren't expecting at all. When he told a couple people at his job about it, they straight up told him to just not file taxes this year! Like... is that even legal?? I always thought filing taxes was mandatory every single year, regardless of whether you owe or get a refund. But these people were acting like it's no big deal to just skip a year when you owe money. We definitely don't have $1,350 just sitting around right now. We were planning to use my tax refund to cover his tax bill, but we also desperately need to replace our car that's on its last legs. I'm really torn on what we should prioritize here. What's the actual rule about skipping filing taxes? And what's the smartest way to handle this situation if we can't pay the full amount right away? Any advice would be super appreciated!
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Amina Diop
Definitely don't skip filing taxes! That's terrible advice from his coworkers. Not filing when you're required to can lead to failure-to-file penalties that are much worse than what you'll face if you file but can't pay immediately. The good news is that you have options when you can't pay in full. The IRS offers payment plans that are pretty reasonable. You can set up a short-term payment plan (paying within 180 days) online without any setup fee. Or you can do a long-term payment plan with a small setup fee. When you file, you'll pay what you can at that time, then set up the plan for the rest. The interest and penalties are way less than what you'd face by not filing at all. Plus, not filing when required can potentially lead to more serious consequences down the road including potential criminal charges in extreme cases. Bottom line: Always file your taxes on time even if you can't pay the full amount owed. The IRS is actually pretty reasonable about working with people who are upfront about their situation.
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Oliver Weber
•What kind of penalties are we talking about for not filing vs. filing but not paying? And how much is the setup fee for those payment plans? I'm in a similar boat this year unfortunately :
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Amina Diop
•The failure-to-file penalty is usually 5% of the unpaid tax amount for each month or part of a month your return is late, up to 25%. The failure-to-pay penalty is much less severe at 0.5% per month. So filing but not paying in full immediately will save you a lot of money compared to not filing at all. For payment plans, a short-term plan (180 days or less) has no setup fee if you apply online. For long-term plans, the setup fee is $31 if you apply online and agree to direct debit payments, or $130 if you apply online without direct debit. The fees are higher if you apply by phone, mail, or in person. You'll still pay interest (currently federal short-term rate plus 3%), but it's much more affordable than the penalties for not filing.
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Natasha Romanova
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NebulaNinja
•Does it work for self-employment stuff too? I've been freelancing and I'm completely lost on estimated taxes.
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Javier Gomez
•How much does it cost? These tax services always seem helpful but then hit you with some crazy fee at the end.
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Natasha Romanova
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NebulaNinja
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Emma Wilson
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Malik Thomas
•Wait, how does this even work? The IRS phone system is notorious for hanging up on people. How does this service get you through when the regular number doesn't?
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Isabella Oliveira
•Sounds like a scam tbh. Nobody can magically get through to the IRS. They probably just connect you to some fake "agent" who steals your information.
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Emma Wilson
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Isabella Oliveira
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Ravi Kapoor
Former tax preparer here. Just to reinforce what others have said - skipping filing is NEVER a good idea if you're required to file. The penalties are severe and compound quickly. Here's what you should know: if you make above certain thresholds, you must file regardless of whether you owe money or not. For 2024 (filing in 2025), a married couple filing jointly must file if their gross income is $27,700 or more. Different thresholds apply to different filing statuses. The IRS would much rather have you file and set up a payment plan than not file at all. They're actually pretty reasonable to work with if you're proactive and honest.
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Paolo Moretti
•Thank you so much for this info! Do you know if there's any way to get the penalties reduced if it really was due to an employer error with the withholding? My husband asked HR to withhold additional money from each check and they apparently never set it up correctly.
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Ravi Kapoor
•You might be able to request penalty abatement, especially if this is your first time having an issue with taxes. The IRS has what's called "First Time Penalty Abatement" which can waive penalties if you haven't had any significant penalties in the past three tax years and have filed all required returns and paid (or arranged to pay) any tax due. For the employer error specifically, that's unfortunately common and usually doesn't qualify for special treatment on its own since ultimately it's the taxpayer's responsibility to verify proper withholding. However, you could request a letter from HR acknowledging their mistake, which might help support your case for penalty abatement. I'd recommend filing on time, setting up a payment plan, and then separately requesting the penalty abatement afterward.
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Freya Larsen
I'm confused about something - can't you just file an extension if you need more time to come up with the money?
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Amina Diop
•An extension gives you more time to file your tax return (until October 15th), but it doesn't give you more time to pay what you owe. The payment is still due by the original tax deadline (usually April 15th). If you file an extension but don't pay by the original deadline, you'll still face failure-to-pay penalties and interest on the unpaid amount. However, you'll avoid the much larger failure-to-file penalties, so it's still better than not filing at all.
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Freya Larsen
•Oh that makes sense! I thought it gave you extra time for both. Thanks for explaining that - definitely good to know!
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