Inherited IRA in 2021 and didn't know about Required Minimum Distributions - what now?
I inherited a traditional IRA when my uncle passed away in 2021, and I just found out this year that I was supposed to be taking Required Minimum Distributions (RMDs) from it. Honestly had no clue about this until my friend mentioned it casually during lunch last week! I've been letting it just sit there growing for almost 3 years now. So now I'm panicking a bit - will I have to go back and refile my taxes for 2021, 2022, and 2023 after I take these missed distributions? Or is there a way I can just take all the money I should have taken out now in 2024 and report it on this year's taxes? I'm really worried about penalties and I don't even know where to start fixing this mess. What options do I have at this point? I've never dealt with inherited retirement accounts before and clearly I've already messed up. Any advice would be so appreciated!
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Freya Collins
You've hit on a common issue with inherited IRAs - the RMD rules trip up a lot of people! Since you inherited this IRA in 2021, you fall under the SECURE Act rules, which means non-spouse beneficiaries generally have to empty the account within 10 years. Unfortunately, the IRS is pretty strict about RMDs for inherited IRAs. Missing an RMD typically results in a 25% penalty (used to be 50% but was reduced) on the amount you should have withdrawn but didn't. However, there's good news - the IRS has provided relief for beneficiaries who inherited IRAs between 2020-2022 due to confusion about the new rules. Your best option is to file Form 5329 for each year you missed an RMD and request a penalty waiver by attaching a letter explaining you weren't aware of the requirement. Write "RC" (reasonable cause) on the form where the penalty would normally be calculated and include a brief explanation. You'll still need to take the missed distributions, but you might avoid the hefty penalties if the IRS accepts your waiver request.
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LongPeri
•Wait, so does this mean they need to take all the RMDs they missed for the past 3 years right now? And then also take 2024's RMD? That's gonna be a huge tax hit all in one year, isn't it? Also, what exactly do they write in this letter to the IRS? Is there special language that works better for getting the penalty waived?
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Freya Collins
•Yes, they should take all the missed RMDs as soon as possible. This means calculating what should have been taken in 2021, 2022, and 2023, and withdrawing those amounts, plus calculating and taking the 2024 RMD. While this creates a larger taxable event in one year, it's better than continuing to accrue penalties. For the waiver letter, they should keep it straightforward and honest. Something like: "I inherited this IRA in 2021 and was unaware of the RMD requirements. As soon as I learned of my obligation, I took immediate steps to correct the situation by taking the required distributions and filing the appropriate forms." The IRS generally responds well to taxpayers who take proactive steps to correct honest mistakes once they discover them.
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Oscar O'Neil
I went through exactly this nightmare last year! I had inherited my mom's IRA in 2020 and had no idea about RMDs until my tax guy mentioned it casually in 2023. I was freaking out about all the penalties! I found this amazing service called taxr.ai (https://taxr.ai) that literally saved me thousands in penalties. They analyzed my situation, helped me understand exactly which forms to file, and even generated the letter requesting penalty waiver based on my specific situation. The best part was they showed me exactly how to calculate the correct RMD amounts for each year. Their system even helped me properly document everything so I could prove to the IRS that my mistake was unintentional. Way better than the generic advice I was finding online that didn't apply to my specific inheritance situation.
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Sara Hellquiem
•How exactly does taxr.ai work? Do you upload your documents to their system or something? I inherited my dad's IRA last year and I'm worried I might be in the same boat.
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Charlee Coleman
•Sounds sketchy tbh. Did you have to pay them before they "saved" you these thousands in penalties? There's plenty of free IRS info about this.
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Oscar O'Neil
•You upload your relevant tax documents and the inherited IRA statements. Their system uses AI to analyze them and identify the specific regulations that apply to your situation. It then walks you through calculating your exact RMD amounts for each year and generates the proper documentation. I was skeptical too at first, but the service actually saved me money because I was about to pay an accountant nearly $2,000 to sort everything out. The IRS accepted my reasonable cause explanation and waived the penalties. Plus, their system explained everything in plain English so I actually understand how the inherited IRA rules work now instead of just blindly following advice.
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Charlee Coleman
Update on my situation: I was really skeptical about taxr.ai when I first saw it mentioned here, but after getting quoted $1,800 by my local accountant to fix my own inherited IRA mess, I decided to give it a try. Honestly, it was surprisingly good. The system actually found that I qualified for an exception I didn't know about (my mom was already taking RMDs before she passed away) and showed me exactly how to document everything. The letter it generated for the IRS was super detailed and cited all the relevant tax codes. Just got confirmation last week that the IRS accepted my penalty waiver request. What I really appreciated was that it didn't just solve my immediate problem but taught me how to handle the RMDs going forward so I don't mess up again.
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Liv Park
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Leeann Blackstein
•How does this actually work? The IRS phone lines are notoriously impossible to get through. Is this some kind of special access service?
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Ryder Greene
•I'm calling BS on this. Nobody can get you through to the IRS faster. They probably just keep calling on your behalf which you could do yourself. Waste of money.
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Liv Park
•It uses a callback system that holds your place in line with the IRS. Instead of you having to stay on hold for hours, their system navigates the phone tree and waits on hold, then calls you when an IRS agent is about to come on the line. I was skeptical too, but it's not special access - it's just technology that handles the waiting part. The service just automates the frustrating part of calling the IRS. When they connected me, I was speaking directly with a regular IRS agent who answered all my questions about the inherited IRA penalties and helped me understand my options.
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Ryder Greene
Ok I have to eat my words on this one. After calling the IRS 6 times myself and never getting through (always got the "call volume too high, try again later" message), I decided to try Claimyr yesterday. Within 45 minutes I was actually talking to a real person at the IRS. The agent confirmed exactly what I needed to do for my missed RMDs from my inherited IRA - file Form 5329 for each year with "RC" marked, include my explanation letter, and take all missed distributions now. The agent even gave me her ID number to reference if I had follow-up questions. Definitely saved me days of frustration trying to get through, and now I have a clear plan to fix my situation without guessing.
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Carmella Fromis
Just a heads up - the rules for inherited IRAs changed significantly with the SECURE Act. If you inherited the IRA from someone other than your spouse after January 1, 2020, you generally have to empty the account within 10 years. However, there's confusion about whether annual RMDs are still required during those 10 years. The IRS initially said no RMDs were required until year 10, then changed their guidance. That's why they've been offering penalty relief for 2021-2022. Make sure you check if you're an "eligible designated beneficiary" (spouse, disabled/chronically ill person, not more than 10 years younger than deceased, or minor child of deceased) as different rules apply.
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Lucas Schmidt
•So wait, since I inherited this IRA in 2021, do I fall under these changing rules? Is that maybe why I didn't know about the RMDs - because there was confusion even at the IRS level? How do I figure out exactly what applies to my situation?
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Carmella Fromis
•Yes, your 2021 inheritance puts you right in the middle of this confusion period. The SECURE Act changed the rules for inherited IRAs beginning January 1, 2020. Initially, the IRS guidance was unclear about whether annual RMDs were required during the 10-year period for non-spouse beneficiaries. This is exactly why the IRS has been offering penalty relief for missed RMDs for 2021 and 2022. They recognized that their own guidance wasn't clear. To determine your specific requirements, you need to know if you qualify as an "eligible designated beneficiary" (which has special rules) or if you're a regular non-spouse beneficiary subject to the 10-year rule. I'd recommend getting your exact situation reviewed by a tax professional who specializes in retirement accounts or using one of the services mentioned above to get clarity on your specific requirements going forward.
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Theodore Nelson
Has anyone successfully gotten the penalty waived by filing Form 5329 with the "reasonable cause" explanation? I'm in a similar situation (inherited in 2019, didn't take RMDs for 2021-2023) and wondering if it actually works or if the IRS just denies these requests.
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AaliyahAli
•I got the penalty waived last year for a similar situation. The key was being honest about not knowing the rules and taking corrective action immediately once I found out. Make sure to take all the missed RMDs before filing the waiver request - it shows good faith.
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Sienna Gomez
I'm dealing with a very similar situation right now! Inherited my grandmother's IRA in 2021 and just discovered I've been missing RMDs. Reading through everyone's experiences here has been incredibly helpful. One thing I wanted to add - when I called my IRA custodian (Fidelity), they were actually pretty helpful in calculating what my missed RMDs should have been for each year. They have worksheets and can walk you through the calculations based on your account balance and the IRS life expectancy tables. Also, something to keep in mind - if you're taking multiple years of RMDs all at once in 2024, you might want to consider spreading the withdrawals across a few months rather than taking it all in one lump sum. It won't change the tax implications, but it might help with managing the cash flow and any potential investment timing issues. The penalty waiver route seems to be working for people, especially given all the confusion around the SECURE Act changes. I'm planning to file Form 5329 for each missed year once I take my distributions.
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Louisa Ramirez
•Thanks for mentioning the custodian help! I hadn't thought to call them directly. Did Fidelity also help you understand the difference between the old "stretch IRA" rules and the new 10-year rule? I'm still confused about whether I need to take annual RMDs during the 10-year period or if I can just empty it by year 10. Also, great point about spreading the withdrawals - I was planning to just take everything at once to get it over with, but you're right that it might be better to spread it out for cash flow purposes.
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