If I inherited money before getting married, are capital gains from that inheritance considered communal property?
I inherited around $950k through a family trust and some other inheritance assets a few years ago. I've kept this money completely separate from my regular finances since receiving it, with its own dedicated investment account that only has my name on it. Now that I'm married (just celebrated our 1 year anniversary!), I'm wondering about the legal status of the capital gains that have accumulated since we got married. The original inheritance happened about 2 years before I met my spouse. I've been very transparent with them about this money, but we've agreed it should remain separate from our joint finances since it came from my family. However, I'm getting confused about whether the growth/interest/capital gains that have accumulated during our marriage would be considered communal property if we ever divorced (hopefully never happens, but I want to be informed). For example, the account has grown by about $85k since we got married. Is that growth considered mine alone since it came from my separate property, or would it be considered partly my spouse's since it happened during our marriage? I'm in California if that matters for state laws. I know I should probably talk to a financial advisor or lawyer, but wanted to get some initial guidance here.
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LongPeri
This is actually a pretty complex question that depends heavily on your state laws. In California (which you mentioned), the general rule is that property acquired before marriage remains separate property, including any appreciation or income derived from that separate property - BUT only if you've maintained it properly as separate. The key here is whether you've kept that inheritance completely segregated from marital funds. If you've mixed any marital money into that account (called "commingling"), it can complicate things. Also, if you've used marital efforts to manage or increase the value of the investments, your spouse could potentially claim some portion of the growth. For an inheritance specifically, courts generally try to preserve it as separate property, including its growth, but you need to be careful about how you manage it. Documentation is crucial - keep records showing the inheritance was yours alone and that no marital funds were added to the account.
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Oscar O'Neil
•This is really interesting. What if OP has been actively managing the investments? Like if they spend a few hours each week researching stocks and making trades - would that count as "marital effort" that could give the spouse a claim to some of the growth?
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LongPeri
•That's actually a great question. Active management could potentially be considered "marital effort" in some circumstances. If the OP is spending significant time managing the investments during the marriage rather than just letting them grow passively in index funds, the spouse could potentially argue that some of the growth is attributable to those efforts rather than just the natural appreciation of the separate property. Courts look at whether the growth is due to market forces (which would keep it separate) versus personal effort during the marriage (which could make that portion marital). That's why people with significant separate assets often use professional money managers or put the money in passive investments - it helps maintain the separate character of both the principal and the growth.
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Sara Hellquiem
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Charlee Coleman
•How long did the analysis take? I'm in Washington state with a somewhat similar situation (inherited about $560k from my grandparents before marriage) and I've been managing it myself but now I'm worried about whether I've been doing things correctly.
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Liv Park
•Does it work for situations where the inheritance was received during the marriage? My wife inherited some money last year and we're trying to figure out how to keep it properly separated.
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Sara Hellquiem
•The analysis took less than 24 hours - I submitted my documents in the evening and had a full report the next afternoon. It was surprisingly fast considering how detailed the information was. For inheritance received during marriage, yes it absolutely works for that too. The key difference is that inheritances are considered separate property even if received during marriage (in most states), as long as they're specifically given to just one spouse. The tool will help you set up the right documentation to maintain that separation and prevent accidental commingling.
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Charlee Coleman
Just wanted to update on my situation - I tried taxr.ai after seeing it recommended here, and it was incredibly helpful. I discovered I had made a few mistakes in how I was handling my inheritance that could have caused problems down the road. The analysis showed that I had accidentally commingled some funds when I transferred money between accounts, which could have converted some of my separate property to marital property. They provided specific steps to correct this and documentation templates to clearly establish what portion of my assets should remain separate. They even flagged some state-specific rules about appreciation that my general financial advisor had never mentioned. Definitely worth checking out if you're in a similar situation!
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Leeann Blackstein
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Ryder Greene
•How does this actually work? Do they just sit on hold for you? Seems like it would be against some kind of rules for the IRS.
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Carmella Fromis
•This sounds too good to be true. I spent 3+ hours on hold with the IRS last month trying to sort out an inherited IRA issue and never got through. You're saying this service actually works? I'm skeptical because I thought the IRS was purposely understaffed to make reaching them nearly impossible.
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Leeann Blackstein
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Carmella Fromis
I need to eat my words from my skeptical comment above. After the frustration of multiple failed attempts to reach the IRS about my inherited IRA, I reluctantly tried Claimyr. Within 90 minutes I was talking to an actual IRS representative who helped clarify the exact tax treatment for the RMDs from my inherited account. The agent explained that in my specific situation, I had options for how to handle the appreciation that occurred after inheriting but before taking distributions. This was exactly the information I needed for properly recording everything on my tax forms and understanding which portions might be subject to capital gains tax. Given how important proper tax documentation is for keeping inherited assets separate (as others have mentioned in this thread), getting this clarification directly from the IRS was incredibly valuable.
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Theodore Nelson
As someone who works in family law (not a lawyer, just a paralegal), I wanted to add that you might want to consider a post-nuptial agreement to clearly document that both the original inheritance and its growth remain your separate property. While the law generally protects this in theory, having a clear agreement signed by both spouses can prevent a lot of headaches if things ever go south. Many states have different interpretations of how to handle appreciation on separate property, and judges have significant discretion. A post-nup removes that ambiguity and makes your intentions clear. Just make sure both you and your spouse have separate legal counsel review it to ensure it's fair and properly executed.
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Freya Collins
•Thanks for this advice! I've actually been thinking about suggesting a post-nup but was worried it would seem like I don't trust my spouse. Is there a way to frame this conversation that doesn't come across as planning for divorce? We have a great relationship and I want to keep it that way.
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Theodore Nelson
•Many people have this concern, but I've found that framing it as financial planning rather than divorce planning helps. Explain that you want clarity and peace of mind for both of you, and that documenting your shared understanding protects everyone. Most financial advisors recommend these agreements for significant inherited assets - it's just good financial hygiene, like having a will or insurance. I've seen many couples actually strengthen their relationship by having these open financial discussions. Consider including some provisions that benefit your spouse as well so it feels balanced. And timing matters too - bring it up during a broader financial planning discussion rather than out of the blue.
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AaliyahAli
Has anyone else noticed that different states have WILDLY different rules about this? I moved from Texas (community property) to Maine (equitable distribution) and the advice I got completely changed. If you might ever move to a different state, that's another thing to consider.
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Ellie Simpson
•Absolutely! I moved from Arizona to Colorado and had to completely rethink how my premarital assets were structured. In community property states, the rules about separate property are more codified, while equitable distribution states give judges more leeway. One thing I learned - keep VERY good records if you have separate property you want to protect. Document the source of every penny that goes into those accounts.
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AaliyahAli
•Thanks for confirming I'm not the only one dealing with this! It's so confusing. My financial advisor actually recommended keeping a monthly statement trail showing that no commingling has occurred. I've been keeping a separate folder with all the statements since the inheritance and documenting any transactions with notes about the source of funds. It seems excessive but apparently it can make a huge difference if things ever get disputed.
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Arjun Kurti
Important note: If any portion of that inheritance is in retirement accounts, the rules can be totally different! I learned this the hard way when I inherited an IRA from my mom and then got divorced three years later. Even though the inheritance itself was separate property, the court considered the fact that I'd made investment decisions during the marriage in determining how to classify the growth. Make sure you get advice specific to the type of assets you're holding.
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Logan Chiang
This is such a timely question for me! I'm in a similar situation but with a smaller inheritance ($180k) that I received about 6 months before getting married. What's really helpful about this thread is seeing how important the documentation aspect is - I've been pretty casual about record keeping and now I'm realizing I need to be much more systematic. One thing I'm curious about - has anyone dealt with inheritance that includes both liquid investments AND real estate? I inherited a rental property along with some cash, and I'm wondering if the rental income during marriage gets treated differently than investment gains. The property has appreciated quite a bit since I got married, plus there's been rental income that I've been reinvesting into property improvements. I'm starting to think this might be more complex than just keeping separate bank accounts! Also really appreciate the practical service recommendations in this thread. I had no idea there were specialized tools for analyzing inheritance situations or services to help with IRS calls. Definitely going to look into both of those.
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