How to reduce tax burden when withdrawing from investment account for family distribution
My mother-in-law has an investment account worth around $270k. Part of this money is intended for her kids, and the required holding period just ended. She's planning to take the money out and distribute it among her children, including my wife. From what I understand, when she withdraws the money, she'll need to report that as income on her 2024 tax return. I'm wondering if gifting $17,000 to each of her children would reduce the taxable amount she needs to report as income? Sorry if this is a stupid question - I'm trying to help her minimize the tax hit while doing right by her kids. Any advice on the smartest way to handle this withdrawal and distribution?
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StarSurfer
The gift exclusion doesn't work the way you're thinking. When your mother-in-law withdraws from her investment account, she'll owe taxes on any gains (the difference between what she invested and what it's worth now). Gifting money after withdrawal doesn't reduce this tax burden. What type of investment account is it? That's crucial information. If it's a traditional IRA or 401(k), withdrawals count as ordinary income. If it's a Roth account held long enough, withdrawals might be tax-free. If it's a regular brokerage account, she'll only pay capital gains taxes on the growth portion. The $17,000 annual gift tax exclusion simply means she can give that amount to each person yearly without filing a gift tax return. It doesn't reduce her income tax liability from the withdrawal.
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Carmen Reyes
•Would it make any difference if she transfers stocks directly to her kids instead of cashing out and then gifting the money? I've heard something about a "step-up in basis" but I'm not sure if that applies here or only when someone dies.
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StarSurfer
•Direct transfer of stocks (in-kind transfers) can sometimes be advantageous, but it doesn't avoid the tax situation entirely. A "step-up in basis" only applies when assets are inherited after someone's death - it doesn't apply to gifts made during someone's lifetime. With in-kind transfers, the recipient takes on the original owner's cost basis and holding period. So if your mother-in-law bought stocks at $50k that are now worth $100k and transfers them directly, the kids would inherit her $50k basis. When they eventually sell, they'd pay taxes on gains above that $50k basis. But the mother-in-law wouldn't pay taxes at the time of transfer.
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Andre Moreau
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Zoe Christodoulou
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Jamal Thompson
•Does it actually tell you what specific strategy to use or just gives general info? Like for OP's situation, would it tell them which accounts to withdraw from first or how to time distributions to minimize taxes?
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Amara Adeyemi
Important question everyone's missing - what KIND of investment account is this? Is it a: - Traditional IRA (taxed as ordinary income) - Roth IRA (potentially tax free) - 401k (taxed as ordinary income) - Regular brokerage account (capital gains only on profits) - Trust fund (completely different rules) - UTMA/UGMA (yet another set of rules) Without knowing the account type, nobody can give accurate advice. The tax implications are COMPLETELY different for each!
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Yuki Nakamura
•It's a standard brokerage account, not retirement or anything special. She's owned it for about 12 years. The original investment was around $165k and it's grown to about $270k now. No special conditions other than she had to keep it for 10 years minimum per some agreement with the investment company.
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Amara Adeyemi
•Thanks for clarifying - that makes a huge difference! Since it's a standard brokerage account, she'll only pay capital gains tax on the growth portion (about $105k based on your numbers), not the entire $270k. If she's held it over 1 year (which she has at 12 years), she'll pay long-term capital gains rates, which are much lower than ordinary income tax rates - likely 15% for most people. Instead of withdrawing everything and then gifting cash, she could consider transferring shares directly to her children (in-kind transfer). This passes the tax obligation to the kids, who might be in lower tax brackets. They'd inherit her cost basis but could sell according to their own tax situations.
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Giovanni Gallo
Your MIL should talk to an actual financial advisor or CPA before doing anything. Reddit advice could cost her thousands in unnecessary taxes. One strategy nobody's mentioned: if she's charitably inclined, she could donate appreciated securities directly to charity and avoid capital gains entirely on that portion. Then use cash for family gifts. Also consider her age - if she's over 59.5 that affects certain accounts, over 72 there may be RMDs to consider.
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Fatima Al-Mazrouei
•Good point. I ended up using both an advisor AND some tax software to model different scenarios when distributing my dad's investment account last year. The advisor cost me $400 but saved us about $8k in taxes by structuring the withdrawals properly.
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