How to issue a 1099 form for my father's in-home caregiver?

You're actually going to need to issue a Form W-2, not a 1099. In-home caregivers are typically considered household employees (often called "nannies" for tax purposes, even though they're caring for an adult), not independent contractors. This means you're responsible for withholding Social Security and Medicare taxes. You should have been withholding these taxes throughout the year, as well as potentially federal and state income taxes. You'll need to get an Employer Identification Number (EIN) from the IRS if you don't already have one, and file Schedule H with your personal tax return. You'll also need to provide your caregiver with a W-2 by January 31st. This is commonly referred to as the "nanny tax" situation, even though it applies to all household employees including caregivers for adults.

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Quick tip from someone who's been through this - make sure you get your caregiver's correct SSN and address for the W-2. I messed this up last year and it caused headaches for everyone involved. Also, if you're going the W-2 route, you'll need to register with your state's employment department too, not just the IRS. Each state has different requirements.

Has anyone used any specific tax software that handles household employee situations well? I tried using [popular tax software] last year for my mother's caregiver and it was a nightmare trying to figure out the Schedule H and W-2 generation.

I went through this exact same situation with my grandmother's caregiver two years ago and learned some hard lessons. First, the IRS classification really does depend on the degree of control you have over the work, not just whether they work for other families. If you're directing what tasks need to be done, when they need to be at your home, and how the care should be provided, you're likely an employer regardless of their other clients. One thing I wish someone had told me earlier: even if you determine she should get a 1099-NEC as an independent contractor, you still need her Social Security Number or Individual Taxpayer Identification Number (ITIN), her full legal name, and address before you can file anything. The deadline for giving her the form is January 31st, and you need to file it with the IRS by the end of February (or March 31st if filing electronically). But honestly, given that you're paying her $26,000+ annually for regular ongoing care work in your home, this sounds like a textbook household employee situation to me. I'd strongly recommend getting professional help to sort this out properly - the penalties for misclassification can be significant, especially when you're dealing with this much money.