Does the IRS consider both parent and child total wages for the dependent rule?
Hey tax people! I'm trying to figure out the rules for claiming a dependent. My mom makes about $25,000 a year, and I'm 19, a full-time college student making around $9,500 working part-time. Mom wants to claim me as a dependent on her taxes, but we're confused about how the IRS determines the "providing more than 50% support" rule. Does the IRS look at both our incomes combined when figuring out if she provided most of my support? Or is it just about what she actually paid toward my expenses vs what I paid myself? Really appreciate any help sorting this out!
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Fiona Gallagher
The 50% support test looks at who actually paid for the dependent's expenses, not just comparing incomes. Your mom needs to have contributed more than 50% of your total support costs for the year to claim you. Support includes housing, food, clothing, education, medical expenses, transportation, and other necessities. The key is tracking who actually paid for these expenses, not just who earned what. For example, if your total support cost was $20,000 for the year, your mom would need to have provided over $10,000 of that. As a 19-year-old full-time student, you meet the age requirement for being a qualifying child dependent (under 24 for students). The income test only applies to qualifying relatives, not qualifying children, so your $9,500 income doesn't disqualify you automatically.
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Xan Dae
•Thanks for explaining! So even though I made $9,500, if my mom paid more than half of my actual living expenses, she can still claim me? What counts as proof if we get audited? We share an apartment and she pays most bills but I buy my own clothes and some food.
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Fiona Gallagher
•You've got it right - it's about who paid the actual expenses, not just income amounts. If your mom paid more than half your total support, she can claim you regardless of your income. For proof during an audit, keep records of major expenses like rent payments, tuition, insurance, utility bills, and estimates of food costs. Calculate the total value of the housing (fair rental value of your space plus utilities) and determine what percentage your mom covers. Bank statements, receipts, and canceled checks are helpful documentation. For shared expenses, you'll need to reasonably allocate what portion was for your support.
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Thais Soares
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Nalani Liu
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Axel Bourke
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Thais Soares
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Axel Bourke
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Aidan Percy
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Kendrick Webb
One thing nobody's mentioned is that your mom should calculate the actual dollar value of all support. List every expense related to your support (housing, food, utilities, tuition, books, clothing, medical, etc.) and figure out the total amount. Then determine how much she paid vs how much you paid from your own money. If you're using student loans for education expenses, those count as support YOU provided, not your mother - that trips up a lot of people. Same with scholarships (those are considered support provided by a third party, not by either of you).
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Hattie Carson
•Wait, student loans count as support provided by the student?? I had no idea. What about if the parent is a cosigner on the loan? And do parent PLUS loans count as support from the parent?
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Kendrick Webb
•Student loans are indeed considered support provided by the student even if a parent cosigns, because the student is ultimately responsible for repaying the loan. This is a common misunderstanding that causes problems during audits. For Parent PLUS loans, those DO count as support provided by the parent because the parent is legally responsible for repaying them, not the student. This distinction is important when calculating the total support. Another thing people often miss is that qualified tuition paid directly by the parent to the educational institution always counts as support from the parent.
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Destiny Bryant
My situation was very similar but I was confused about whether to include my son's tuition when calculating support. He had a scholarship that covered 75% of it. When you calculate total support, do you include the full tuition amount?
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Fiona Gallagher
•Yes, you should include the full tuition amount in the total support calculation. The scholarship portion counts as support provided by a third party (not by either you or your son). So when determining if you provided more than 50% of support, the formula would be: (Amount you paid) ÷ (Total support including full tuition) > 50% The "total support" denominator includes everything: full tuition (including scholarship portion), housing, food, medical, etc. from ALL sources.
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