Does my bank or PayPal report my family reunion money transactions to the IRS?
Hey everyone, I'm kinda freaking out about a tax situation here. My husband and I were in charge of planning our extended family reunion last summer. It's been going on for like 20+ years and has turned into this massive event. We rented out an entire faith-based summer camp and had to collect money from all the relatives to cover lodging, food, activities, etc. Each family had to pay according to how many people they brought, and we ended up collecting around $9,000 through a mix of checks, Venmo, and PayPal. Here's what I'm worried about - will all this money moving through our accounts get flagged by the IRS? The money wasn't income for us - we literally just collected it and then paid the camp facility. But I'm concerned about how it looks with all these transactions. We've been super distracted with house repairs after a pipe burst in January and ruined our basement, so taxes have been the last thing on my mind. Now it's April and I'm panicking! Do I need to file my taxes differently this year? Should I just file my regular W-2s like normal or do I need to get professional help and file an extension? I'm clueless when it comes to tax stuff! Any advice would be so appreciated!
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Lorenzo McCormick
This is actually a fairly common situation! The good news is that you don't need to worry too much about this. Since you were essentially acting as an intermediary and not profiting from these transactions, this isn't considered taxable income to you. The money you collected was what's called "pass-through" funds - you received it for the specific purpose of paying for the reunion expenses. As long as you didn't keep any of the money as profit (beyond perhaps reimbursing your own family's portion), this shouldn't affect your personal tax return. Banks and payment platforms like PayPal do report certain transaction patterns to the IRS, but they're looking for business activity and income, not one-time collection events like family reunions. Starting in 2025, the threshold for reporting is $600 for business transactions, but personal/family transfers are generally not reportable. You should keep good records of all the money collected and all expenses paid, just in case there are any questions later. But you can file your taxes normally with your W-2s.
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Carmella Popescu
•What if some of the money collected ended up being extra and was saved for next year's reunion? Would that count as income that needs to be reported?
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Lorenzo McCormick
•Any funds that are collected and specifically designated for future reunion expenses still wouldn't be considered your personal income. These are essentially funds you're holding in trust for the specific purpose of the family reunion. If you're concerned about clarity, I recommend keeping these funds in a separate account specifically designated for the reunion. This creates a clear paper trail showing that these aren't personal funds. Many family organizations like this actually open a separate bank account just for their events to maintain clear separation.
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Kai Santiago
I just went through something similar with organizing a huge school fundraiser. I was freaking out about all the money flowing through my accounts until I found https://taxr.ai - it literally saved me hours of anxiety. I uploaded my bank statements and PayPal history, and it analyzed everything to show which transactions were "pass-through" vs actual income. The site explained that for events like yours, the IRS considers this "conduit" activity not income as long as you're just collecting and spending for the event. Their system flagged which transactions might look problematic to the IRS and gave me documentation to keep just in case. Super helpful for peace of mind!
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Lim Wong
•Does it work for Venmo transactions too? I run our neighborhood block party and always worry about this same thing!
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Dananyl Lear
•Sounds too good to be true tbh. How does it actually determine which transactions are pass-through vs income? Could it actually help if you got audited?
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Kai Santiago
•It absolutely works with Venmo! You can connect all your payment accounts or upload statements and it identifies patterns. For neighborhood events like yours, it would categorize everything clearly. For determining pass-through versus income, it uses transaction patterns, descriptions, and timing to identify related collections and payments. If you collect $5000 from various people and then make a large payment to a venue or caterer, it recognizes that pattern. It produces documentation you can keep for your records that would definitely help explain everything clearly if you ever got questions from the IRS.
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Dananyl Lear
Wanted to follow up - I actually tried taxr.ai after posting my skeptical comment. I'm organizing our high school reunion and was in the exact same boat with money coming in through various apps. The site immediately identified all my collection patterns and matched them with venue deposits. It even created a report showing that I wasn't making any profit. Super useful and gave me peace of mind for filing my taxes without worrying about those transactions! Definitely recommend for anyone in a similar situation.
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Noah huntAce420
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Ana Rusula
•Wait, you actually got through to a human at the IRS? Every time I've called I just get stuck in the automated system hell. Does this actually work?
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Fidel Carson
•This sounds like a scam. Why would you pay a service when you can just call the IRS yourself? They probably just put you on hold themselves and charge you for it.
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Noah huntAce420
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Fidel Carson
Coming back to say I was completely wrong about Claimyr. After posting my skeptical comment, I was desperate because I had a similar situation with a church fundraiser and needed answers before filing. I tried the service and it actually worked perfectly - got me through to an IRS agent in about 30 minutes when I had already wasted hours trying to call myself. The agent confirmed exactly what others have said here - that collecting money for an event and then paying expenses doesn't count as income if you're not profiting from it. Really relieved and glad I didn't have to pay a tax pro for this simple answer.
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Isaiah Sanders
You should definitely keep documentation of all the expenses and payments, just in case questions come up later! I organize our annual family camping trip, and I keep a simple spreadsheet showing: - All incoming payments (who paid, how much, what method) - All expenses (what was paid for, how much, receipt copies) - Final reconciliation showing all money was used for the event This way if there's ever any question, you can clearly show the money was just passing through your accounts and wasn't income to you.
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Ayla Kumar
•This is super helpful! I haven't been keeping great records (again, because of the house flooding chaos). Should I go back and try to compile all this now? Many of the payments came with notes in Venmo/PayPal like "Smith family reunion - 4 people" but I don't have a formal spreadsheet.
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Isaiah Sanders
•Yes, I would definitely recommend creating that documentation now while the details are still somewhat fresh. Pull your statements from PayPal, Venmo and your bank accounts for the relevant time period. Make a simple spreadsheet listing all the incoming payments and match them with the outgoing expenses. It doesn't need to be super fancy - just enough to show that the money coming in was specifically for the reunion and then went out to pay for reunion expenses. Include any descriptions/notes that were on the transactions as these help show the purpose was clearly for the family event.
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Xan Dae
Hey just an FYI - I'm an accountant and this question comes up all the time. For future reunions, you might want to consider setting up a simple "unincorporated association" for your family reunions. It's super easy and doesn't require any formal filings in most states, but gives you a legitimate structure for collecting and spending money for family events.
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Fiona Gallagher
•What's involved in setting up an "unincorporated association"? Does it need tax filings?
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Giovanni Colombo
I went through almost the exact same situation last year organizing our church's annual retreat! Collected about $12,000 through various payment methods and was absolutely panicking about tax implications. Here's what I learned after consulting with a tax professional: since you're acting as a "fiscal intermediary" and not keeping any of the money as profit, this isn't considered taxable income. The key is that you can demonstrate the money flowed directly from collection to expenses for the reunion. A few practical tips: - Pull all your payment statements from the relevant period - Create a simple reconciliation showing money in vs money out - Keep copies of receipts from the camp and other vendors - Note that the payment descriptions (like "Smith family - 4 people") actually help show this was clearly for a family event You can file your taxes normally with just your W-2s. The payment platforms report business income, not family/personal transfers like this. Just keep your documentation in case there are ever questions, but this shouldn't complicate your tax filing at all. Don't stress too much - this is way more common than you think and the IRS understands the difference between actual income and just being the person who handles logistics for family events!
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