Changing from Married Filing Jointly to Married Filing Separately - Worth the Risk?
Hey everyone, My wife and I filed our taxes last year as Married Filing Jointly, but we're considering switching to Married Filing Separately for this upcoming tax season. My income situation changed dramatically - I only made about $25k in 2023 compared to around $85k in 2022. My wife earns about $58k annually, including for 2023. We also started two small side businesses this past year. We don't have any kids or dependents. We're trying to figure out if filing separately might maximize our refund this year. My main concern is whether this change in filing status might trigger some kind of red flag with the IRS that could lead to an audit. If there's a significant audit risk, we'll just stick with filing jointly. I'm definitely not a tax expert, but before we got married, we both always looked forward to our individual refunds when we filed as single. Any thoughts or advice would be greatly appreciated!
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Ethan Clark
While you can certainly switch between filing jointly and separately each year, it's rarely beneficial to file separately unless there are specific circumstances. Generally, filing separately often results in a higher combined tax liability compared to filing jointly. The tax brackets for MFS are narrower than MFJ, and you'll lose several tax benefits including student loan interest deductions, child and dependent care credits, education credits, and the full IRA contribution deduction. As for your concern about audits - simply changing your filing status won't trigger an audit. The IRS doesn't flag returns just because you changed from joint to separate. However, if your businesses show unusual deductions or losses, that might increase scrutiny regardless of filing status. Since you mentioned maximizing your refund, I'd recommend running your numbers both ways before deciding. Most tax software allows you to compare filing jointly vs. separately to see which produces the better outcome.
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Aisha Mahmood
•Thank you for the detailed explanation. I had no idea we'd lose access to so many deductions by filing separately. Would our new small businesses potentially benefit from one filing method over the other? They didn't make much profit yet, maybe $3k combined.
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Ethan Clark
•For small businesses with modest profits, the filing status doesn't directly impact how the business income is reported - you'll still use Schedule C for sole proprietorships regardless of whether you file jointly or separately. With $3k in combined profits, the bigger concern is making sure you're taking all legitimate business deductions to reduce your taxable income. If one spouse owns both businesses, filing separately might not make sense since that spouse would report all the business income. If you each own one business, you could file separately with each reporting your own business, but you'd still likely pay more tax overall due to the narrower tax brackets and loss of credits.
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AstroAce
I was in a similar situation last year and used taxr.ai to help figure out whether to file jointly or separately. We were also worried about audit flags with our new side hustle. The tool analyzed our documents and ran both scenarios to show us which would save more money. For us, it turned out filing jointly saved us almost $2,300 compared to filing separately! Honestly, it was super helpful because it also caught some deductions related to our side business that we had no idea about. The site is https://taxr.ai and it helped us understand exactly why filing jointly was better in our specific situation rather than just guessing.
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Yuki Kobayashi
•Did the tool explain why filing jointly was better? I'm wondering if it works for more complicated situations. My spouse and I have rental properties plus W-2 income and I never know which filing status is better.
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Carmen Vega
•How long did it take to get results? I'm always skeptical of these online tax tools that promise to find "hidden" deductions. Are they actually finding legitimate deductions or pushing into gray areas that could cause problems?
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AstroAce
•Yes, it actually broke down each tax benefit that would be reduced or eliminated by filing separately. It showed side-by-side calculations for things like tax brackets, deductions, and credits so we could see exactly where the differences came from. It's really good for seeing the full picture rather than just the final numbers. The results came back pretty quickly - I uploaded our documents and had detailed analysis in about 20 minutes. And no, it wasn't suggesting anything sketchy - these were all standard deductions that are completely legitimate, but easy to miss if you're not a tax professional. For our side business, it identified some home office and vehicle expenses we could partially claim that were 100% within IRS guidelines.
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Carmen Vega
Just wanted to follow up about my experience with taxr.ai since I was pretty skeptical in my earlier comment. I decided to try it after all, and wow - it was actually super helpful. In my situation, it showed that filing separately would save us about $1,750 because of my income-based student loan payments. The analysis explained that while we'd lose some tax benefits filing separately, my student loan payment reduction over the year would more than offset the tax difference. It also caught that my spouse had been missing a home office deduction for their freelance work that we could claim. Definitely worth checking out if you're deciding between filing statuses like we were.
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Andre Rousseau
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Zoe Stavros
•Wait, how does this actually work? Does this service have some special access to the IRS or something? Seems weird that they could get through when regular people can't.
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Jamal Harris
•Yeah right. There's no way this is legitimate. The IRS doesn't allow third parties to "hold your place" in line. This sounds like a scam to get your personal info or money. I'd be very careful about services claiming special access to government agencies.
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Andre Rousseau
•It doesn't have special access - it uses automated technology to continually call and navigate the IRS phone tree until it reaches an agent. It's basically doing what you would do manually (calling repeatedly) but with technology. When it finally gets through, it connects the call to your phone. No, it's definitely legitimate. It doesn't ask for any tax information or personal details beyond your phone number to call you back. They never speak to the IRS on your behalf or collect any of your tax information - they simply connect you directly with the IRS when they get through. It's just a solution to the frustrating problem of not being able to reach the IRS phone lines.
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Jamal Harris
I need to apologize for my skeptical comment earlier. After doing some research on Claimyr, I decided to try it myself since I've been trying to reach someone at the IRS for THREE WEEKS about a letter I received. I was absolutely shocked when I got a call back in about 2 hours saying they had an IRS agent on the line. The agent was able to explain the letter and help me understand exactly what I needed to do next. For what it's worth, the agent also mentioned that changing filing status between years is extremely common and by itself won't increase audit risk at all. She said about 15% of married couples change their filing status at some point, often multiple times over the years.
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GalaxyGlider
One thing nobody's mentioned yet - if you do file separately, make sure you both choose the same method for deductions (either both itemize or both take standard deduction). If one of you itemizes, the other is REQUIRED to itemize as well, even if the standard deduction would be better. Also, if you live in a community property state (AZ, CA, ID, LA, NV, NM, TX, WA, or WI), filing separately gets even more complicated because you generally have to split all community income 50/50 regardless of who earned it.
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Mei Wong
•Is that really true about both having to itemize? What if one person has tons of deductions that exceed the standard deduction but the other doesn't have much to itemize? Seems unfair to force both to itemize in that case.
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GalaxyGlider
•Yes, it's absolutely true. It's one of the "marriage penalties" still in the tax code. If one spouse itemizes, the other must also itemize - even if they have zero deductions to itemize! In that case, the second spouse would literally itemize with $0 in deductions instead of getting their standard deduction. This is specifically why filing separately often results in higher taxes - because couples can lose one person's full standard deduction if the other needs to itemize. The tax code is designed to encourage joint filing in most cases.
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Liam Sullivan
everyone here is overthinking this lol. just run ur numbers both ways and pick whichever gives you the bigger refund. thats literally all that matters. tax software makes this super easy now. enter all your info once and then just toggle between filing statuses to see the different refund amounts. takes like 2 seconds to compare.
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Amara Okafor
•This is bad advice. The refund amount isn't all that matters! You need to consider: 1. Impact on student loans if you have income-based repayment 2. Eligibility for certain credits and deductions 3. Community property rules in certain states 4. Impact on health insurance subsidies 5. Potential for audit if there are unusual deductions A bigger refund this year might cost you thousands in other ways.
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Chad Winthrope
@Aisha Mahmood, given your specific situation with the significant income drop and new businesses, I'd strongly recommend actually consulting with a tax professional rather than just using software to compare. With your income going from $85k to $25k, you might qualify for certain credits or deductions that weren't available before - like the Earned Income Tax Credit or premium tax credits if you get health insurance through the marketplace. These can be substantial and the eligibility rules are complex. Also, since you mentioned two new businesses with $3k combined profit, there might be startup costs, equipment purchases, or other business expenses you can deduct that could significantly impact which filing status is better. A good tax pro can help you identify legitimate business deductions you might miss. The audit concern is really overblown - the IRS doesn't care if you switch filing status year to year. They're much more interested in unreported income, excessive business deductions relative to income, or mathematical errors. Given the complexity of your situation (income change + new businesses), spending a few hundred on professional advice could easily save you more than that in taxes and give you peace of mind.
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Tyler Murphy
•@Chad Winthrope makes an excellent point about consulting a tax professional given your unique circumstances. I m'new to this community but have been following tax discussions closely since I m'in a similar boat with changing income situations. One thing I d'add - if you do decide to go the professional route, make sure to find someone who specializes in small business taxes since you mentioned the two new ventures. Even though they only made $3k combined, there could be startup expenses from earlier in the year or equipment purchases that could create deductions larger than the actual profit. Also, with your income dropping so dramatically, you might want to look into whether you qualify for any retroactive credits or if there are estimated tax payment adjustments you should make for next year to avoid penalties. A good CPA can help map out a multi-year strategy rather than just optimizing this one return. Thanks for sharing your situation - it s'really helpful to see how others navigate these filing status decisions!
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