Can my dad qualify for Surviving Spouse filing status if I'm an adult stepchild?

Your dad likely doesn't qualify for Qualifying Widower (Surviving Spouse) status because of your situation. For this filing status, the taxpayer needs a "qualifying dependent" who is their child, stepchild, or adopted child. The key issue is that for a stepchild to help qualify the parent for this status, they must be a qualifying dependent. Since you're over 18, not a student, and earned more than $4,400, you don't meet the requirements to be his qualifying dependent. The age and income limits are critical here - a qualifying child generally must be under 19 or under 24 if a full-time student. Your dad would likely need to file as Single or possibly Head of Household (if he has another qualifying dependent). The Surviving Spouse status is quite specific and is designed to give a temporary benefit to widowed taxpayers who are still financially supporting dependent children.

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Just to add a different perspective - I work as a volunteer tax preparer, and filing status questions are some of the most common issues we see. For Surviving Spouse status (sometimes called Qualifying Widow/er), the rules are very specific: 1. Your spouse must have died in one of the two prior tax years 2. You must have a child, stepchild, or adopted child who qualifies as your dependent 3. This child must live in your home 4. You must pay more than half the cost of keeping up the home The dependent requirements are key. A qualifying dependent child generally needs to be under 19, or under 24 if they're a full-time student, AND they can't provide more than half of their own support. I recommend using the Interactive Tax Assistant on the IRS website. It walks you through all the requirements step by step.

Don't forget that if your dad doesn't qualify for Surviving Spouse status, Head of Household might still be better than Single! Even if you don't qualify as his dependent, does he support anyone else who might qualify? The tax rate differences between Single and Head of Household can be significant. Also check whether he qualifies for the Credit for Other Dependents ($500) for supporting you, even if you don't meet all the tests to be a qualifying child or qualifying relative. The income limits for this are different from the dependency requirements!