Can I have my friend's tax refund sent to my bank account?
So I'm helping my sister-in-law file her taxes this year since I've been doing it for years and she's completely lost when it comes to tax forms. We were discussing where to send her refund, and I was wondering if there would be any issues having it deposited into my checking account instead of hers? She doesn't have direct deposit set up with her bank yet, and I could just transfer the money to her afterward. From what I've been reading online, it sounds like the IRS might flag this and just mail her a paper check instead. Anyone have experience with this? Would the IRS reject the direct deposit since the account name doesn't match the tax return? I guess we could just use her account to avoid complications, but was curious if this was possible.
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Natalie Adams
This is definitely not recommended. The IRS specifically states that tax refunds should only be deposited into accounts that are in the taxpayer's name. When the names don't match, it often triggers a verification process that can delay the refund. What typically happens is the bank will reject the deposit when they notice the name mismatch, and then the IRS will mail a paper check to the address on the tax return. This process can add weeks or even months to the refund timeline. Your sister-in-law would be much better off either using her own account or just opting for a paper check from the start. If she doesn't have direct deposit set up yet, this might actually be a good motivation for her to do so for future convenience.
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Elijah O'Reilly
•What if she doesn't have a bank account at all? My cousin is in that situation - no bank account but needs his refund. Would prepaid cards work for direct deposit of tax refunds?
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Natalie Adams
•The IRS does offer several options for people without traditional bank accounts. Many prepaid debit cards can accept direct deposits of tax refunds, but you need to verify with the specific card provider first to make sure they allow government deposits and to get the correct routing and account numbers. Another option is to consider opening an online bank account which often has no minimum balance requirements or monthly fees. Many of these can be set up quickly and would allow for direct deposit of the refund.
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Amara Torres
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Olivia Van-Cleve
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Mason Kaczka
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Mason Kaczka
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Sophia Russo
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Evelyn Xu
•How does this actually work? Do they just call the IRS for you or what? I'm confused how a service can get through when I've been hanging on hold for literal hours.
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Dominic Green
•Yeah right. Nothing gets through to the IRS these days. I spent 4 hours on hold last month and got disconnected THREE TIMES. If this actually works I'll eat my hat. Sounds like a scam to me.
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Sophia Russo
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Dominic Green
I have to eat my words about Claimyr. After posting that skeptical comment, I was so frustrated with my missing refund situation that I tried it anyway. Got through to an actual IRS agent in about 35 minutes instead of the 3+ hours I was spending before. They helped me sort out why my refund was delayed (turns out there was a name mismatch issue, ironically similar to what OP was asking about). Saved me tons of time and got my refund processed properly. Not something I'd need often but definitely worth it when you actually need to talk to the IRS.
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Hannah Flores
I work at a tax prep office (not a professional, just admin staff) and see this question ALL THE TIME. Here's what our preparers always tell clients: only use an account with the taxpayer's name on it. Period. We've seen so many delays and problems when people try to use accounts that aren't theirs. Even married couples sometimes have issues if the account is only in one name.
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Kayla Jacobson
•What about joint accounts? My husband and I file jointly but the checking account is technically in both our names. Would that cause any problems?
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Hannah Flores
•Joint accounts are totally fine for joint returns! As long as both names on the tax return match the account holders, you should have no issues. That's actually the ideal situation for married filing jointly. The problems usually come when the name on the account doesn't match ANY name on the tax return, which is what would happen in OP's situation if they tried to deposit their sister-in-law's refund into their account.
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William Rivera
Just have her get a paper check if she doesn't want to use her account. Much simpler than dealing with the headache of mismatched accounts. Takes a bit longer but way fewer potential problems.
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Grace Lee
•Paper checks can get lost in the mail though. Happened to my neighbor last year and it was a nightmare to resolve. Direct deposit is definitely safer when possible.
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Carmen Ortiz
I'm a newcomer here but wanted to share what happened to me last year in a very similar situation. I tried to help my brother by having his refund deposited into my account, and it was a complete disaster. The bank rejected it immediately when they saw the name mismatch, then the IRS had to reprocess it as a paper check, which took an additional 8 weeks to arrive. My brother was counting on that money for rent and it really put him in a tough spot. What we should have done from the start was just help him open a basic checking account. Most banks have free options now, and it would have saved us months of headaches. Even a simple online bank account takes just a few minutes to set up and would have gotten his refund much faster than the mess we created. Learn from my mistake - always use the taxpayer's own account!
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