As a widower, what tax implications should I consider when selling our primary residence after my spouse's death?

I'm really sorry for your loss. You're right - there is a special provision that might help in your situation. When a spouse passes away, the surviving spouse can still use the full $500,000 capital gains exclusion (instead of the $250,000 single person exclusion) if the home is sold within 2 years of the spouse's death AND if you haven't remarried. This is assuming the home was your primary residence and you both lived there for at least 2 of the 5 years before the sale. If your cost basis (what you paid plus improvements) is significantly less than the selling price, this exclusion can be huge. For example, if you bought the house for $600,000 and sell for $1.1 million, your gain would be $500,000. With the widower provision, you could potentially exclude all of that gain from taxes if you sell within the 2-year window.

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Something else to consider - if you've been in the house a very long time and your gain exceeds the $500k exclusion, look into whether any of the gain might be offset by selling expenses. Real estate commissions, title insurance, legal fees, and other costs of selling can be subtracted from your realized gain. Also check if you made any energy-efficient improvements to the home over the years - some of those might have additional tax benefits. This is especially important if you're close to exceeding the exclusion amount.

Don't forget to consider state taxes too! The federal exclusion is great, but some states have different rules for capital gains on home sales. Where are you located? Some states follow the federal guidelines, but others have their own quirky rules.

I'm so sorry for your loss, Justin. Dealing with tax implications while grieving is incredibly difficult. One additional thing to keep in mind as you navigate this process - make sure you have all the necessary documentation organized before you sell. Beyond what others have mentioned about cost basis and improvements, you'll want to have your wife's death certificate readily available, proof that the home was your primary residence for at least 2 of the last 5 years, and documentation of any major improvements you've made. Since you're in Colorado and within the 2-year window, it sounds like you're in a good position to take advantage of the full $500K exclusion. Given the complexity of your situation and the significant amount of money involved, I'd strongly recommend consulting with a tax professional who has experience with widower exclusions before you finalize the sale. They can help ensure you're maximizing all available benefits and properly documenting everything for when you file. Take care of yourself during this difficult time.