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Important thing to know - if you're expecting refunds, you only have 3 years from the original filing deadline to claim them. So for example, 2020 refunds can still be claimed until April 2024, but anything before that is gone forever if you were owed money. BUT if you owe the IRS money, there's no time limit on when they can come after you. So definitely better to address this proactively like you're doing now!
I went through something very similar about 3 years ago - hadn't filed for 6 years due to a combination of job changes, a messy divorce, and just pure avoidance anxiety. The longer I waited, the more terrifying it seemed. Here's what worked for me: Start by getting your Account Transcript from the IRS online (irs.gov). This will show you if they've already filed substitute returns for you (which they sometimes do if you have W-2 income). If they have, you'll see exactly what they think you owe. Don't try to tackle all years at once - it's overwhelming. I started with the most recent year and worked backwards. Focus on getting accurate numbers rather than rushing through everything. One thing that really helped my anxiety was realizing that the IRS actually wants to work with you once you make contact. They have payment plans, penalty abatement options, and they're generally reasonable if you're making a good faith effort to comply. The relief of finally addressing it is incredible. Yes, there will be some penalties and interest, but it's probably not as catastrophic as your anxiety is telling you it will be. You've got this!
Thanks for sharing this - it's really reassuring to hear from someone who actually went through the same thing. The anxiety part really hits home for me. I keep imagining worst-case scenarios where I owe like $50k or something ridiculous. Did you end up finding any surprises when you got your Account Transcript? Like, were there years where the IRS had already calculated what you owed, or did you discover you were actually owed refunds for some years? I'm trying to mentally prepare myself for whatever I might find when I finally log into the IRS website.
22 Has anyone used TurboTax to handle reporting this kind of situation? I'm in a similar situation with medical crowdfunding and wondering if the basic version handles this or if I need to upgrade.
10 Since gifts aren't reported on your tax return at all, any version of TurboTax would work fine - even the free version. The only part that might require a paid version is if you're itemizing deductions to claim the medical expenses you paid out of pocket (not covered by insurance or GoFundMe).
I went through something very similar after my car accident last year. My family set up a GoFundMe that raised about $28,000 for my medical expenses, and I was terrified about the tax implications. After consulting with a tax professional, I learned that medical crowdfunding donations are indeed treated as gifts and aren't taxable income to you as the recipient. The key is that people donated without expecting anything in return - they were helping with your medical crisis out of generosity. A few important points from my experience: - Keep detailed records of the GoFundMe campaign, including the total raised and donor information - Save all your medical bills and receipts showing how the money was used - If you itemize deductions, you can only deduct medical expenses you paid out of your own pocket (not the portion covered by GoFundMe) - The donors are responsible for any gift tax reporting if they gave over the annual exclusion limit I kept a simple spreadsheet tracking donations received vs. medical expenses paid, which gave me peace of mind. You're not required to report the gifts as income, but having good documentation is always smart. Hope this helps ease your worry!
Thank you so much for sharing your experience! This is exactly what I needed to hear from someone who actually went through this. The spreadsheet idea is brilliant - I'm definitely going to create one tracking the donations vs my medical expenses. Did your tax professional give you any specific advice about what documentation would be most important to keep? I have all the GoFundMe records and medical bills, but I'm wondering if there's anything else I should be organizing now rather than scrambling later if questions ever come up. Also, when you say you consulted a tax professional, was that worth the cost? I'm trying to decide if I should pay for a consultation or if the information here is sufficient for my situation.
Friendly reminder to everyone dealing w this: don't try calling IRS about it. File the proper forms and wait. Calling just wastes ur time fr
Been through this exact situation myself. The IRS will definitely go after your ex - they don't mess around with fraudulent dependent claims. Beyond the penalties Anna mentioned, your ex might also have to pay interest on any unpaid taxes. The good news is that since you have a court order, you have solid documentation on your side. Just make sure to file your return claiming the child even if it gets rejected electronically - mail it in with copies of the court order attached. The IRS will sort it out and your ex will have to deal with the consequences.
Hey Chloe! I went through something similar a few years ago after a slip and fall accident. You're absolutely right to be cautious about the tax implications - it's smart to get this figured out before you spend any of the money. From my experience and what I learned, personal injury settlements for physical injuries are generally NOT taxable at the federal level. Since you mentioned this was from being hit by a car while walking (clearly a physical injury situation), the portion of your settlement compensating you for medical bills, pain and suffering, and physical injuries should be tax-free. However, keep an eye out for any parts of your settlement that might be taxable: - Any interest earned on the settlement amount - Compensation specifically for lost wages/income - Punitive damages (if any) - If you previously deducted medical expenses related to this accident on past tax returns and are now being reimbursed My advice would be to get a detailed breakdown of your settlement from your attorney showing how the money is allocated across different categories. This will make it much easier to determine what (if anything) needs to be reported as taxable income. Also don't forget about potential health insurance subrogation - if your health insurance paid for any of your medical treatment, they might have a claim against your settlement. It won't affect the tax treatment, but it could reduce what you actually keep. Hope this helps and congrats on getting through what I'm sure was a stressful situation!
This is really helpful advice! I'm new to this whole situation and hadn't even thought about the health insurance subrogation thing. My insurance did cover my ER visit and follow-up appointments, so I should probably check on that. Also wondering - when you say get a breakdown from the attorney, is that something they usually provide automatically or do you have to specifically ask for it? I want to make sure I have all the documentation I need before tax season rolls around. Thanks for sharing your experience - it's reassuring to hear from someone who's actually been through this process!
You definitely need to ask for the breakdown specifically - most attorneys don't provide it automatically unless they know you need it for tax purposes. When I requested mine, my lawyer was able to provide a detailed letter within a few days that broke down the settlement into categories like "medical expenses," "pain and suffering," "lost wages," etc. Regarding the health insurance subrogation, definitely check on that ASAP. In my case, my insurance company actually reached out to me directly once they found out about the settlement, but some people get surprised by it later. You can usually call the member services number on your insurance card and ask if they have any subrogation claims related to your accident. One more tip - keep copies of all your medical bills and records from the accident. Even though most of your settlement will likely be non-taxable, having that documentation can be helpful if you ever get questioned by the IRS about why you didn't report the settlement as income. Good luck with everything!
I'm really glad you're being proactive about this! As someone who's dealt with settlement taxation issues before, I can confirm that most personal injury settlements are indeed non-taxable at the federal level, especially when they're compensating for physical injuries like yours. Since you were physically hit by a car, the portions of your settlement covering medical expenses, pain and suffering, and compensation for your physical injuries should be tax-free under IRC Section 104(a)(2). However, I'd recommend getting a detailed breakdown from your attorney showing exactly how your settlement is allocated - this will be crucial for tax purposes. A few things to watch out for that WOULD be taxable: - Any interest on the settlement amount - Specific compensation for lost wages or income - Punitive damages (less common in car accident cases but possible) Also, if you deducted any medical expenses from this accident on previous tax returns and your settlement reimburses those same expenses, that portion could be taxable under the "tax benefit rule." Don't forget to check if your health insurance has any subrogation rights - they might claim reimbursement for medical bills they paid related to your accident. If you need specific guidance on your settlement documents, you might want to consult with a tax professional or even contact the IRS directly for clarification on your particular situation. Better to be safe than sorry when it comes to tax compliance!
This is exactly the kind of thorough breakdown I was hoping to find! I'm definitely going to ask my attorney for that detailed allocation breakdown you mentioned. Quick question about the "tax benefit rule" - how do I figure out if my medical expenses actually gave me a tax benefit last year? I did itemize my deductions, but I'm not sure if my medical expenses were high enough to actually reduce my taxes. Is there a specific threshold or calculation I should look at? Also, has anyone here actually had to deal with reporting settlement income that turned out to be taxable? I'm curious what forms you had to use and how complicated the process was. Thanks for all the helpful advice everyone - this community is amazing for getting real-world guidance on confusing tax situations!
Jamal Harris
Random question from an accountant's wife: has anyone here calculated if it's actually cheaper to pay a Canadian accountant and a US accountant separately, or find one of those specialized cross-border accountants that do both returns?
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GalaxyGlider
ā¢In my experience, a specialized cross-border accountant ends up being cheaper and WAY less stressful. I tried the "two separate accountants" approach first year and ended up playing messenger between them, explaining things back and forth. The specialized accountant knew exactly how to optimize between both systems.
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Gemma Andrews
As someone who's been navigating dual US-Canadian taxation for about 3 years now, I can confirm that while it's complex, it's definitely manageable once you understand the basics. A few key points that might help: 1. You'll almost certainly end up paying less in total taxes than you think. Canadian taxes are generally higher, so the foreign tax credits usually eliminate most US federal tax liability. 2. Don't forget about provincial taxes in Canada - they vary significantly by province and aren't covered under the treaty the same way federal taxes are. 3. If your employer offers stock options or RSUs, get professional advice ASAP. The timing of taxation between the two countries can create some really tricky situations. 4. Consider opening your Canadian accounts before you actually move - some banks are more willing to work with US persons if you establish the relationship while still in the US. The first year is definitely the hardest as you figure everything out, but it gets much more routine after that. Just budget for good professional help at least for the first filing to make sure you're set up correctly!
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Malik Davis
ā¢This is really reassuring to hear from someone who's actually been through it! I'm particularly worried about the stock options situation you mentioned - my US employer does offer RSUs as part of the compensation package. Could you elaborate a bit more on what makes the timing tricky between the two countries? Is it something about when the shares vest versus when they're taxed? I want to make sure I understand this before I make the move so I don't get hit with any surprises later.
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