1099-K Venmo IRS Rules for Reimbursements Between Partners - Will Grocery Splitting Trigger Tax Issues?
My partner and I have been living together for about 2 years and we've got this system for managing our grocery expenses. I put everything on my personal credit card, and at the end of each month, we go through all the receipts and divide them up. Sometimes we do a straight 50/50 split, other times we assign specific items to whoever wanted them, then split the rest. We've been using Venmo for her to pay me back her portion, and we always label the transactions as "May grocery settlement" or "June food reimbursement" or something similar. We usually toss the paper receipts after we've done our calculations, but we do maintain a spreadsheet that tracks what each of us owes. With all the news about the 1099-K threshold changes for Venmo, I'm getting worried: 1) Should I be concerned about getting a 1099-K for these reimbursements? If I do receive one, how do I explain to the IRS that these aren't actual income but just my partner paying her share of our groceries? We don't keep the physical receipts, just our spreadsheet tracking. 2) We're getting married next spring - once we're officially married, would it make more sense to just get a joint credit card and avoid the Venmo transfers altogether? 3) Does anyone have better suggestions for how couples should handle shared expenses that won't trigger potential tax headaches? Looking for the most convenient approach that keeps both the IRS and my future spouse happy!
19 comments


Dmitry Ivanov
You don't need to worry too much about this situation. The IRS is mainly concerned with business income, not personal reimbursements between roommates or partners. Even with the 1099-K reporting thresholds changing, there's a clear distinction between business transactions and personal cost-sharing. If you do receive a 1099-K, you would report it on your tax return but then deduct the same amount as a "reimbursement" so it nets to zero taxable income. Your spreadsheet should be sufficient documentation if you're ever questioned - just make sure it clearly shows the amounts were reimbursements for shared expenses. As for your future plans, getting a joint credit card after marriage would definitely simplify things and eliminate this concern entirely. Many married couples find joint accounts easier for shared expenses while maintaining separate accounts for personal spending.
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Ava Thompson
•So if I get a 1099-K, where exactly on the tax forms do I report this "reimbursement" deduction? Is there a specific line or form for this? My roommate and I do something similar with utilities and I've been worried about this too.
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Dmitry Ivanov
•If you receive a 1099-K, you would typically report it on Schedule 1 as "Other Income" and then include an offsetting negative amount on the same schedule with a clear description like "reimbursement for shared personal expenses - not income." The key is to document everything clearly. Your spreadsheet tracking payments works great, and if possible, start keeping digital copies of receipts (even just photos on your phone) for major purchases. The IRS understands that people split expenses - they're looking for people hiding business income, not roommates dividing the grocery bill.
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Miguel Herrera
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Zainab Ali
•How exactly does this taxr.ai thing work? Does it look at your actual Venmo transactions or just give general advice? I'm in a similar situation but with Zelle transfers between me and my boyfriend for our shared expenses.
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Connor Murphy
•This sounds like a paid service... is there a free option? Also, couldn't you get the same information from just calling the IRS directly? I'm skeptical about needing special tools for what seems like a pretty straightforward reimbursement situation.
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Miguel Herrera
•It works by analyzing your specific situation and documentation - you can upload transaction histories, spreadsheets, whatever records you have. It then provides personalized guidance based on your exact circumstances, not just generic advice. It works with all payment apps including Zelle. The IRS wait times can be hours long, and many agents give inconsistent answers to these kinds of questions. I tried calling three times and got three different responses about handling reimbursements. taxr.ai gives you documentation you can rely on if questions ever come up, plus it helps you improve your record-keeping system going forward.
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Connor Murphy
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Yara Nassar
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StarGazer101
•How does this service actually work? The IRS phone lines are notoriously awful to get through. Are they somehow jumping the queue or what? Seems too good to be true to get through in 15 minutes when I've waited 2+ hours before.
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Keisha Jackson
•I'm extremely skeptical of this. Why would I pay a service to call the IRS when I can just do it myself? Plus, wouldn't different IRS agents potentially give different answers anyway? I doubt this is worth whatever they're charging for it.
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Yara Nassar
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Keisha Jackson
I need to eat my words about Claimyr. After posting my skeptical comment, my situation with Venmo reimbursements actually got more complicated when I received a surprise 1099-K for last year. I tried calling the IRS myself and spent almost 3 hours on hold before getting disconnected. Out of desperation, I tried Claimyr, and I was literally talking to an IRS agent within 20 minutes. The agent walked me through exactly how to handle the reimbursements on my tax return and confirmed that my spreadsheet tracking was sufficient documentation. They even emailed me official guidance I can reference if there are any questions. For something this important, being able to get a definitive answer quickly was absolutely worth it. Consider me converted from skeptic to believer.
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Paolo Romano
My wife and I had this exact problem before we got married! One simple solution: create a separate Venmo account that you both contribute to equally each month, then use that account to pay for all shared expenses. This eliminates the back-and-forth transfers that might trigger 1099-K reporting. After we got married, we opened a joint checking account with its own debit card for all household expenses, which is even simpler. We each transfer our share of the monthly budget to that account and use the joint card for groceries, rent, utilities, etc.
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Sofia Rodriguez
•That's actually a really smart idea! I hadn't considered a joint Venmo account. Do you know if there are any specific requirements for setting one up? And did you run into any issues with the transition to a joint checking account after marriage?
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Paolo Romano
•There's no such thing as a "joint" Venmo account officially, but you can create a new separate account that you both have the login credentials for. Just make sure only one of you is the official account holder, and that person understands they're technically responsible for any tax reporting. For the joint checking account, it was actually super easy. We just went to our bank together with our marriage certificate and opened a new account. The only hiccup was remembering to update all our autopay settings for shared bills to use the new account. Start with just a few shared expenses until you get used to managing it together.
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Amina Diop
The 1099-K threshold was supposed to drop to $600 for 2023, but the IRS delayed it again and kept it at $20,000. So you probably won't even get a 1099-K unless you're receiving over $20,000 in Venmo payments. But even if the threshold does change for 2024 taxes (filing in 2025), reimbursements aren't taxable income. Just make sure your Venmo descriptions clearly show these are reimbursements (which it sounds like you're already doing) and keep your spreadsheet as documentation.
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Oliver Schmidt
•Actually, the IRS delayed it but only for 2023. For 2024 (what we'll file in 2025), the $600 threshold is currently scheduled to take effect, though there's always a chance they'll delay it again. So this is definitely still a concern for next year.
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CosmicCommander
As someone who's dealt with similar roommate reimbursement situations, I can confirm that the IRS generally doesn't consider personal reimbursements as taxable income. The key is proper documentation - your spreadsheet tracking is actually perfect for this. A few practical tips from my experience: 1) Keep taking those photos of receipts on your phone before tossing them - it takes 2 seconds and gives you backup documentation 2) Your Venmo descriptions are spot-on - clear labels like "grocery reimbursement" make it obvious these aren't income transactions 3) Consider opening a joint credit card even before marriage if you're comfortable with it - many banks allow this for domestic partners, and it eliminates the transfer issue entirely The 1099-K threshold situation is still evolving, but even if you do receive one, you'll just report it and then offset it as a reimbursement. Your documentation will easily support this if questioned. Don't stress too much about it - the IRS is mainly targeting people hiding business income, not couples splitting grocery bills!
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