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Whatever you do, DOCUMENT EVERYTHING. Every call, email, form you submit. Trust me, it'll save you headaches later if there are any disputes.
I'm going through the same thing right now! Just wanted to add that you should also check if your state has any additional protections beyond what your employer offers. California's PFL program through EDD sometimes has different rules than company policies. I called the EDD directly and they were actually pretty helpful in explaining what I was entitled to vs. what my HR department was telling me. Don't just rely on your company's interpretation - double check with the state agency too!
This is such good advice! I didn't even think about checking with EDD directly. I've been assuming my HR department knew everything, but you're right - they might not have the full picture. Did you find any differences between what your company was saying vs what EDD told you?
Yes! There were actually some key differences. My HR told me I could only extend for 2 additional weeks max, but when I called EDD they said the state program allows up to 8 weeks total for bonding leave. Turns out my company policy was more restrictive than the actual state law. EDD also walked me through the proper forms to use - apparently there are different forms for extending vs. applying for additional time under a new claim. Definitely worth the phone call even if it takes forever to get through!
Great question about the timing! PFL bonding leave must be taken within the first 12 months after your baby's birth (or placement for adoption). So your husband could technically wait up to a year, but practically speaking most people take it within the first few months. There's no requirement that both parents take their leave consecutively or even close together. When I took my PFL about 6 months after my wife's leave ended, EDD didn't give me any trouble at all. Just had to provide the birth certificate and fill out the DE2508 form like normal. The key is that each parent's 8-week clock is independent - so even if there are gaps between when you each take leave, you're still entitled to your full 8 weeks as long as it's within that first year. One tip: if you're planning to space out the leaves, keep copies of all your documentation handy since you might need to reference dates and details months later when the second parent files their claim!
This is incredibly helpful information! I had no idea about the 12-month window - that gives us so much more flexibility than I thought. The idea of my husband saving some of his weeks for when I go back to work or for specific challenges like sleep regression is brilliant. It would really help ease the transition. Thank you for the tip about keeping documentation handy too - I can already imagine how overwhelming it might be to dig up all those forms again months later with twin newborns! @Kaitlyn Jenkins @Dyllan Nantx
One thing to keep in mind with twins - while California doesn't give you extra PFL weeks for multiples, you might want to consider the practical aspects of caring for two newborns when planning your leave schedule. I have twin boys (now 18 months) and honestly, those first few months were intense! My husband and I initially planned to take our PFL back-to-back, but we ended up overlapping for about 2 weeks because managing twins alone was really challenging, especially with feeding schedules and sleep deprivation. If your budget allows for some unpaid time or if you have vacation days, you might want to build in a little buffer. Also, stock up on all your paperwork ahead of time - with twins, you'll have even less time to deal with EDD forms and calls. Good luck with your March arrivals!
This is such valuable real-world advice, thank you! I'm definitely feeling a bit overwhelmed thinking about managing twins on my own, so the idea of overlapping our PFL time for a couple weeks makes total sense. Did you find that the 2-week overlap was enough, or do you wish you had planned for more? I'm trying to balance maximizing our time with the babies against the financial reality of unpaid leave. Also, any specific tips for organizing all the paperwork when you're sleep-deprived? I'm already worried about missing deadlines or messing up forms with everything else going on!
Plot twist: what if we all showed up at the EDD office dressed as clowns? Maybe then they'd take us seriously 🤡
Hey Connor! I just went through this exact same situation a few months ago. The blank benefit amount online is super common when transitioning from DI to PFL - it's like their system gets confused. Since you already got the notice of computation in the mail, that's actually a good sign! It means they've calculated your benefits. The online portal just takes forever to update sometimes. I'd definitely try calling first thing in the morning like Keisha suggested, but also keep checking your mail for any follow-up requests. In my case, it took about 3-4 weeks total but once it went through, I got all the backpay. Hang in there! 🤞
Thanks so much for sharing your experience, Jasmine! It's really reassuring to hear from someone who went through the exact same thing. The 3-4 weeks timeline helps me set realistic expectations, and knowing about the backpay makes me feel better about the wait. I'll definitely keep an eye on my mailbox and try the early morning calling strategy. Really appreciate the encouragement! 🙏
This entire thread is so validating - I thought I was going crazy dealing with EDD's complete lack of communication! I'm currently at week 5 of "Pending Processing" for my maternity bonding leave and reading everyone's experiences has been both helpful and terrifying. A few things I've learned from my own research that might help others: 1. The EDD Disability Insurance (DI) phone line (1-800-480-3287) sometimes has shorter wait times than the main PFL number, and they can still look up your claim status and escalate if needed. 2. If you're on social media, try reaching out to @CA_EDD on Twitter with your situation. They have a team that monitors social media complaints and sometimes respond faster than traditional channels. 3. Keep detailed records of every interaction - date, time, who you spoke with, what they said. I started doing this after my third week and wish I'd done it from day one. The Assembly member route seems to be getting the best results based on this thread. I'm contacting mine tomorrow morning. It's absolutely insane that we have to escalate to elected officials just to get basic government services, but here we are. Thank you to everyone sharing their experiences and tips. This community support means everything when you're feeling helpless in the face of government bureaucracy!
@Amina Diop Thank you so much for those additional tips! I hadn t'thought about trying the DI phone line - that s'really smart since they re'all part of the same system. Definitely going to try that tomorrow along with reaching out on Twitter. The record-keeping advice is spot on too. I ve'been taking some screenshots but not documenting phone calls systematically. Starting a detailed log today with times, names, and exactly what was said. It s'both comforting and infuriating to see so many people in the exact same boat. Comforting because at least we know it s'not something we did wrong, but infuriating because this is clearly a systemic failure affecting thousands of new parents. The fact that we all have to become amateur investigators and advocates just to access benefits we ve'paid into is absolutely unacceptable. Really hoping the Assembly member route works for both of us! Please keep us updated on your progress. This thread has become such a valuable resource for people dealing with EDD delays.
I'm so sorry you're dealing with this nightmare! I'm currently going through something very similar - my PFL claim has been stuck in "Pending Processing" for 9 weeks now for bonding with my newborn twin girls. The stress of not knowing when (or if) the money will come while trying to care for newborns is absolutely devastating. Reading through all these responses has been incredibly helpful and validating. I had no idea so many parents were dealing with the exact same delays. A few additional things that have helped me: 1. I started calling the PFL line using an auto-dialer app on my phone so I don't have to sit there manually redialing dozens of times. It just keeps trying in the background while I can do other things. 2. I've been documenting everything in a spreadsheet - not just calls but also portal screenshots, dates I certified, everything. My husband thinks I'm obsessive but I have a feeling we'll need this documentation eventually. 3. Someone in my new mom's group mentioned filing a complaint with the California Department of Consumer Affairs if EDD doesn't resolve the issue within a reasonable timeframe. Apparently they have authority to investigate government agency failures. The Assembly member route definitely seems like the most promising option based on everyone's experiences here. I'm contacting mine first thing Monday morning. It's absolutely criminal that new parents have to jump through all these hoops while caring for newborns, but we have to do whatever works. Hang in there - you're definitely not alone in this mess! Please keep us updated on your progress, especially with the Assembly member's office.
@Camila Castillo Thank you for sharing your experience - 9 weeks with newborn twins must be incredibly stressful! I can t'imagine dealing with EDD delays while caring for two babies. Your organizational approach is really smart, especially the auto-dialer app idea. I ve'been wasting so much time manually redialing. The spreadsheet documentation is brilliant too. Even if it seems obsessive, having that level of detail could be crucial if we need to escalate further or file appeals later. I m'definitely going to start tracking everything systematically like you suggested. I hadn t'heard about the Department of Consumer Affairs option - that s'another avenue to explore if the Assembly member route doesn t'work. It s'good to know there are multiple escalation paths, even though it s'ridiculous that we need them. Reading everyone s'experiences here has been such a lifesaver. It helps to know we re'not going crazy and that this is clearly a widespread systemic failure. Hopefully our combined voices and advocacy efforts will eventually force EDD to fix these delays. Wishing you the best with your Assembly member contact on Monday. Please keep us posted on any progress - this thread has become such a valuable resource for parents dealing with these delays!
Zoe Walker
I'm going through this exact situation too - filed my PFL application almost 4 weeks ago and still radio silence from EDD. It's beyond frustrating when you're already dealing with a family situation that qualifies you for leave AND now you're stressed about money on top of it. I've tried the early morning calling strategy multiple times with no luck. What's really helped me is keeping a detailed log of everything - screenshots of my application confirmation, dates/times of call attempts, any emails or correspondence. I also contacted my local assembly member's office last week and they said they'd look into it, though haven't heard back yet. One thing I learned is that sometimes the delay can be on the employer's side if they haven't submitted their portion properly - might be worth double-checking with your HR department if that applies to you. The whole system is so broken, but hang in there - from what I've read here and elsewhere, people do eventually get their benefits, it just takes way longer than it should. We really need better support during these difficult times! 💙
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Amaya Watson
•I'm so sorry you're going through this too! 4 weeks is absolutely ridiculous. I just started my PFL journey and seeing all these stories has me really worried about what's ahead. Thank you for sharing the tip about keeping detailed logs - I'm definitely going to start doing that right away. It's heartbreaking that we have to become our own advocates and jump through so many hoops when we're already dealing with family crises. The fact that the system is this broken when people need support the most is just wrong. I really hope your assembly member comes through for you soon. Sending you strength during this difficult time! 🙏
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MoonlightSonata
I'm dealing with this exact same issue! Applied for PFL about 2.5 weeks ago and my account is still completely empty - no status updates, no acknowledgment that they even received my application. It's so nerve-wracking when you're already dealing with a family situation and now have to worry about finances too. I've been trying all the strategies mentioned here: calling at 8am sharp (still get busy signals), checking spam folders, documenting everything. What's really frustrating is that there's no way to just confirm they received your application without going through the phone gauntlet. I'm seriously considering reaching out to my assembly member's office based on the advice here. It shouldn't be this hard to get basic information about an application when people are already going through tough times with their families. The whole system feels designed to exhaust people into giving up. Hang in there Omar - sounds like persistence is key even though it's exhausting! 😓
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