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Lucas Turner

Can employer call it 'job abandonment' if I decline accommodation and wait for my EDD SDI RTW date?

I've been on California SDI for 4 months due to a back injury with complications, and my employer is now pushing me to come back early with what they call a 'reasonable accommodation.' My doctor has me cleared to return on March 15, 2025 (about 3 weeks from now), but my employer's HR called yesterday saying they have an immediate position with 'modified duties' they want me to take. When I explained I'd rather follow my doctor's RTW plan and return on the 15th, the HR rep said if I don't accept the accommodation and return now, they'll consider it 'job abandonment' and terminate me. I understand my 12 weeks of FMLA/CFRA protection ended a while ago, but can they really call this 'job abandonment' when I'm actively on disability with a specific return date? Feels like they're setting things up to fight an unemployment claim if I end up terminated and my disability benefits run out. Anyone dealt with something similar or know my rights here?

Kai Rivera

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This is a classic intimidation tactic. If you have WRITTEN documentation from your doctor supporting your return-to-work date, they cannot legally call it job abandonment. Job abandonment means you stopped showing up without notice - you clearly haven't done that! You're following medical orders. Make sure everything is in writing, and email them back saying you intend to return on your doctor-approved date. Forward them the medical documentation again. If they fire you, they can call it whatever they want, but it won't hold up if you file for unemployment after your SDI runs out.

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Lucas Turner

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Thanks for the advice. I do have the return-to-work plan in writing from my doctor. I'll email HR today and attach it again. Should I specifically mention in the email that I'm not abandoning my job but following medical direction? I'm really nervous about losing both my job AND potentially unemployment benefits.

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Anna Stewart

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my boss tried the same thing last year when i was on disability for carpal tunnel!!! they called it job abandonent when i wouldnt come back early and fired me. i got unemployment after my disability ended no problem, edd saw right through it. dont let them push u around!!

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Lucas Turner

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That's reassuring to hear you were able to get unemployment afterward. Did you have to appeal or did EDD approve you right away? I'm trying to prepare for worst-case scenarios here.

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Layla Sanders

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While they legally can terminate your employment since you're beyond FMLA/CFRA protection, labeling it as "job abandonment" is misleading. Job abandonment typically requires an employee to be absent without notice for multiple consecutive days. You have a documented disability claim with a specific return date. I recommend you: 1. Email HR confirming your intent to return on your doctor-approved date 2. Attach your medical documentation again 3. Clarify that you are not refusing to work or abandoning your position, but following medical guidance 4. Request written clarification on why they believe this constitutes abandonment If they do terminate you, apply for unemployment immediately after your SDI ends. The "job abandonment" label is likely an attempt to classify this as misconduct to block UI benefits. But with proper documentation, you can appeal and likely win.

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Lucas Turner

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This is incredibly helpful, thank you. I'll draft that email today. One follow-up question - if they offer an accommodation that my doctor hasn't approved, am I obligated to even consider it? My work restrictions are pretty specific.

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I work in HR (not at your company) and this sounds fishy to me. Job abandonment requires that you stop showing up WITHOUT COMMUNICATION. You are clearly communicating. They're trying to intimidate you. They can terminate you for being unable to work, but calling it abandonment is incorrect and seems calculated.

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Kaylee Cook

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Exactly right. They're playing games with terminology to set up for a UI denial. I've seen this before - they know exactly what they're doing.

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Lucas Turner

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I hadn't thought about calling EDD directly, that's a good idea. I've heard the wait times are insane so I'll definitely check out that service. I would feel better hearing directly from EDD how this might play out regarding future benefits.

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Lara Woods

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THEY CANNOT CALL THIS JOB ABANDONMENT!!! This is ILLEGAL and they know it!! I went through the EXACT SAME THING in 2023 with my retail job!!! They tried to force me back during my SDI claim for my shoulder surgery and I told them NO WAY, my doctor says I can't come back yet. They pulled the same "job abandonment" threat. My lawyer friend said that's COMPLETE BS because YOU ARE COMMUNICATING WITH THEM!! Abandonment means NO COMMUNICATION. They're trying to scare you!!! DON'T FALL FOR IT!!!!

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Kai Rivera

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While I understand your frustration, it's important to clarify that they CAN legally terminate employment after FMLA/CFRA protection ends. They just can't accurately call it abandonment. It's still wrongful terminology, but the termination itself might be legal depending on company size and policies.

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Kaylee Cook

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This is a common issue with disability claims. The law gets tricky here. While they can't call it abandonment (that's misleading), they can terminate you for being unable to perform job duties once job protection has expired. However, if they're offering an accommodation that doesn't match your doctor's restrictions, you should have your doctor review their proposal specifically. If your doctor rejects their accommodation as medically unsuitable, document that. It strengthens your position for both wrongful termination claims and future unemployment benefits.

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Lucas Turner

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That's a good point about having my doctor review their specific accommodation offer. They want me to do a desk job, but my restrictions include no sitting for more than 20 minutes at a time, which seems incompatible with their offer. I'll ask my doctor to specifically address their proposal.

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Adrian Hughes

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wait im confused, isnt this more of a workers comp question than disability? are you on regular disability or work injury disability?

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Lucas Turner

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Sorry if I wasn't clear. I'm on regular SDI disability, not workers' comp. My injury happened outside of work (fell while hiking), so it's being handled through California's State Disability Insurance program.

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Layla Sanders

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In addition to the excellent advice already shared, I'd suggest requesting the accommodation offer in writing as well. Ask them to clearly outline what specific duties they're proposing, hours, and how they believe it accommodates your medical restrictions. Compare this directly with your doctor's written restrictions. Regarding unemployment after SDI - if they do terminate you, California EDD generally considers you eligible for UI benefits if you're terminated because you're unable to work due to a disability but become able to work later. The key is documenting everything and demonstrating you were willing to return on your doctor-approved date. Also, consider filing a complaint with DFEH (Department of Fair Employment and Housing) if they terminate you for following medical guidance. While they can legally terminate after FMLA/CFRA exhaustion, there are still protections against disability discrimination.

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Lucas Turner

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I just got the accommodation offer in writing, and you're right - it's completely inconsistent with my medical restrictions. I've forwarded it to my doctor to review, but they want me sitting at a computer 7 hours a day with 'flexible breaks' which doesn't match my no-sitting-more-than-20-minutes restriction at all. I'll look into the DFEH angle too, thank you.

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Document everything and stay strong! Based on what you've shared, their "accommodation" offer is clearly not reasonable if it contradicts your medical restrictions. The fact that they're calling it job abandonment when you're following doctor's orders and communicating with them shows they're either uninformed about the law or deliberately trying to create grounds to deny future unemployment benefits. A few additional thoughts: - Keep copies of ALL communications (emails, texts, voicemails) - Consider sending a certified letter to HR reiterating your position and medical restrictions - If you have an employee handbook, review the job abandonment policy - I bet it requires lack of communication for multiple days - Contact your state representative's office if you need help navigating EDD - they often have constituent services that can cut through red tape You're doing everything right by following medical advice. Don't let them bully you into returning before you're medically cleared. Your health comes first, and the law is on your side here even if they're trying to make you think otherwise.

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Zainab Ismail

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This is such comprehensive advice, thank you! I never thought about the certified letter approach - that's brilliant for creating an official paper trail. I've been keeping screenshots of everything, but I should probably also save the actual emails in a separate folder. The employee handbook suggestion is great too - I'm going to dig that up tonight and see exactly how they define job abandonment. It's reassuring to hear from so many people that this isn't actually abandonment. I was starting to second-guess myself with all their intimidation tactics. Really appreciate everyone's support here!

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James Johnson

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I'm dealing with something similar right now - employer pressuring me to return early from SDI with an "accommodation" that doesn't match my restrictions. What really helped me was getting everything in writing and having my doctor specifically review their proposed accommodation. When my doctor wrote a letter explaining why their offer was medically inappropriate, it completely changed the dynamic. Also want to echo what others said about the "job abandonment" label - that's pure intimidation. I called EDD's disability office (took forever to get through) and they confirmed that following your doctor's return-to-work plan while maintaining communication with your employer is the OPPOSITE of abandonment. Stay strong and don't let them rush you back before you're medically ready. Your back injury could get worse if you return too early, and then you'd be dealing with an even longer recovery. Document everything and trust your medical team's timeline!

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Luca Esposito

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Thank you for sharing your experience! It's really helpful to hear from someone going through the same thing. I'm definitely going to have my doctor write a specific letter about why their accommodation doesn't work with my restrictions - that sounds like it could be a game-changer. You're absolutely right about not rushing back too early. I've already had one setback with this back injury from trying to do too much too soon, and I can't afford another one. It's frustrating that employers seem to think they know better than our doctors, but I'm feeling more confident about standing my ground after reading everyone's advice here. Hope your situation works out well too!

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Paige Cantoni

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I went through almost this exact situation two years ago with my employer after a knee surgery. They kept pushing me to come back early with a "light duty" assignment that was basically just busywork, but my orthopedic surgeon had me on strict weight-bearing restrictions until a specific date. What saved me was being proactive about documentation. I sent HR a detailed email every week updating them on my status and reconfirming my doctor-approved return date. When they tried to pressure me, I had a paper trail showing I was communicating regularly and following medical orders. The "job abandonment" threat is total BS - you're literally doing the opposite by staying in contact and following your treatment plan. They're hoping you don't know your rights. If they do fire you, make sure to file for unemployment the day after your SDI ends. I had to appeal initially because they contested it, but EDD sided with me completely once they saw all my documentation proving I wasn't abandoning anything. One thing I wish I'd done differently - I should have asked my doctor to put in writing WHY I couldn't return early, not just the date. It would have made the unemployment appeal even stronger. Good luck and don't let them intimidate you!

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Amara Eze

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This is exactly what I needed to hear - thank you for sharing your experience! I love the idea of sending weekly status updates to HR. That creates such a clear paper trail showing ongoing communication. I'm definitely going to start doing that immediately. And you're absolutely right about getting my doctor to explain WHY I can't return early, not just when. I think that detail could make a huge difference if this ends up going to unemployment appeals. It's so frustrating that we have to be this strategic just to follow medical advice, but I'm grateful for all the wisdom from people who've been through this. Your success story gives me hope that even if they do terminate me, it won't stick for unemployment purposes. Thanks for the encouragement!

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Connor Rupert

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I'm so sorry you're dealing with this stress while trying to recover! As someone new to this community but unfortunately familiar with employer intimidation tactics, I wanted to add that you might also want to consider reaching out to a disability rights organization or employment attorney for a free consultation. Many offer initial consultations at no charge and can give you specific advice about California law. From what I'm reading, everyone here is absolutely right - what they're calling "job abandonment" is actually you following proper medical protocol and maintaining communication. That's literally the opposite of abandonment! The fact that they're using this specific terminology suggests they're trying to create a paper trail to fight any future unemployment claim. One thing that might help is to ask your doctor to include in their documentation not just your return date, but also a statement about the risks of returning early or performing duties outside your restrictions. Having medical evidence that their "accommodation" could cause further injury strengthens your position significantly. Stay strong and trust your medical team's timeline. Your health is more important than their convenience, and you have more legal protections than they want you to believe!

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Liam Cortez

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Thank you so much for the suggestion about getting a free consultation with an employment attorney! I hadn't thought about that, but it makes total sense to get professional legal advice given how calculated their approach seems. You're absolutely right that their specific use of "job abandonment" terminology feels very deliberate - like they're building a case against me for future benefits. I'm going to call a few employment lawyers tomorrow to see if I can get some quick guidance on my rights here. And I love the idea of having my doctor include specific language about the risks of early return - that could be really powerful documentation if this goes to unemployment appeals. It's reassuring to hear from someone new to the community who immediately sees how wrong their tactics are. Sometimes when you're in the middle of it, you start to doubt yourself. Really appreciate the support and practical advice!

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Connor Murphy

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I'm new to this community but unfortunately not new to employer retaliation during disability claims. What you're experiencing is textbook intimidation designed to pressure you into returning before you're medically ready. The "job abandonment" label is particularly concerning because it's legally inaccurate and seems calculated to harm your future unemployment eligibility. A few things to consider that haven't been mentioned yet: 1. File a formal complaint with the California Labor Commissioner's office - they investigate retaliation against employees exercising their rights under disability laws 2. Check if your employer has an Employee Assistance Program (EAP) that might include legal consultation services 3. Consider having your doctor write a letter stating that returning early could worsen your condition and result in a longer recovery period 4. Document the financial pressure they're putting on you - this could be relevant for a constructive dismissal claim You're following your doctor's orders and maintaining communication - that's the definition of being a responsible employee, not abandonment. Don't let them gaslight you into thinking otherwise. Your recovery timeline is based on medical expertise, not their staffing convenience. Stay strong and trust your medical team. Many of us here have been through similar situations and can tell you that standing firm on your medical restrictions is always the right choice, even when employers try to make you feel otherwise.

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