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It's possible they might pursue child support, but not guaranteed. When you apply for certain benefits like TANF/CalWORKs, counties typically require cooperation with child support enforcement unless you have good cause not to (like domestic violence concerns). Since your dad applied for Medi-Cal in a different county and the father isn't on the birth certificate, there's less immediate connection, but systems do eventually share information. The temporary custody situation might also factor in. If you're concerned about this, you have options: - You can request a "good cause" exemption if pursuing child support would cause harm - You could proactively discuss the situation with your caseworker - The father could potentially establish paternity and arrange support voluntarily The county will likely eventually ask about the father's information. Being upfront with your caseworker about your specific situation is usually the best approach, as they can explain your options based on your exact circumstances.
This is a complex situation with several moving parts. Since the father isn't on the birth certificate and you're in different counties, there isn't an automatic connection in the system right now. However, California's child support system (DCSS) does share information across counties. A few important things to consider: - TANF/CalWORKs applications typically require you to cooperate with child support enforcement, but there are exceptions - The temporary custody arrangement you had might actually work in your favor - it shows he was providing support when you couldn't - Since you now have custody and he's applied for Medi-Cal, his income information is in the system You might want to think about whether pursuing child support would actually benefit you financially versus potentially complicating your current arrangement. Sometimes voluntary support agreements work better than court-ordered ones. I'd recommend being honest with your caseworker about the father's identity and your concerns. They can help you understand your specific options and whether you qualify for any exemptions from child support cooperation requirements.
this happened to my neighbor too! the county keeps saying they mail stuff but nothing ever comes. she started taking pics of all her pay stubs and rent receipts just in case. glad u got it fixed tho!!! the whole system is so broken
So glad you got this resolved! This exact same thing happened to me about 6 months ago - they said they mailed verification requests but I never got them either. It's honestly scary how they can just cut off your food benefits without you even knowing there's a problem. I've started checking my BenefitsCal account every few days now because I don't trust their mail system at all. The stress of not knowing if you'll be able to feed your family is just awful. Hope your benefits come through quickly!
Glad you found the issue! Pro tip: upload the document ASAP and then call them to let them know you've submitted it. Ask them specifically to expedite processing due to hardship. Under CalFresh regulations, they're required to process these verifications within 10 days, but if you explain you're out of food, they can often process it faster. Also, be sure to keep checking both the app AND website - the systems don't always sync perfectly.
Hope you get this resolved quickly! Just wanted to add that if you're running really low on food while waiting for your benefits to get sorted out, you might want to check if there are any local food banks or pantries in your area that can help bridge the gap. Many don't require any paperwork and can provide groceries same-day. The 211 helpline (dial 2-1-1) can help you find resources nearby. It's frustrating when the system fails us like this, but at least you found the missing task. Fingers crossed they process it fast once you call tomorrow!
One other thing to keep in mind - don't forget you'll need to complete a SAR7 form after 6 months and recertification after a year to keep your benefits going. I learned this the hard way when my benefits suddenly stopped because I missed my SAR7 deadline. They don't always send reminders, so mark your calendar now for these important deadlines!
That's really helpful advice, thank you! I'll definitely mark my calendar. Would that be 6 months from when I applied or from when I was approved?
It's usually 6 months from when you were approved. Your approval letter should mention the specific month when your first SAR7 is due. If you're not sure, you can also check on the BenefitsCal website under 'My Documents' or upcoming deadlines. Just don't miss it - the paperwork headache to restore benefits is such a pain!
Welcome to CalFresh! What you experienced is completely normal and happens to most new recipients. The extra amount you received ($641 vs your monthly $424) was intentional - it included your prorated September benefits plus your full October benefits in one payment. Since you applied mid-September, you got partial benefits for those remaining days in September, plus the full October amount all at once. Your next regular payment of $424 should come in November on the same date of the month as your first payment (likely around the 20th based on when you received your first deposit). Don't worry about paying anything back - this is just how the system works for new applicants!
Thanks for the welcome and explanation! It's really reassuring to hear from so many people that this is totally normal. I was genuinely worried I'd done something wrong or would get in trouble later. This community has been so helpful - wish the county office was this clear about how everything works from the start!
Giovanni Colombo
For future reference, if your benefits are showing as 'pending' beyond your regular issuance date, you can also check BenefitsCal.com for any notices or tasks that might be waiting for you. They've improved the portal quite a bit in 2024-2025, and many notices that used to only go through postal mail now show up in your online account as well. This is especially useful for seeing if they need any verification documents from you.
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Liam Sullivan
•That BenefitsCal site is GARBAGE though. Half the time I try to log in it says my account is locked, then I call and they say it's not locked. Or the documents I upload never show as received. They need to fix the WHOLE SYSTEM not just keep patching it!!
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Giovanni Colombo
•You're right that there are still technical issues with BenefitsCal, especially during high traffic periods. If you're having login problems, try accessing it very early morning (before 7am) or late evening (after 8pm) when the system load is lower. The document upload function has been particularly problematic, so I always recommend calling to confirm receipt of anything important you upload.
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Chloe Harris
This is really helpful information from everyone! I'm dealing with the same issue - my April benefits have been showing as pending since the 2nd. I'm in San Bernardino County and my normal issuance date is the 15th, so I'm not quite at my regular date yet, but seeing "pending" instead of just waiting for the normal deposit date made me nervous. It sounds like this is a system-wide processing delay rather than individual case issues. I'm glad to hear some people's benefits have already loaded - gives me hope mine will come through soon too. Does anyone know if different counties process at different speeds, or is this all handled at the state level?
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