Why are college commitment deadlines before FAFSA aid packages arrive? Can't commit without knowing costs!
I'm absolutely losing my mind right now. My daughter got accepted to 5 colleges (yay!) but they all want her decision by May 1st. Meanwhile, we STILL don't have financial aid packages from 3 of them because of the FAFSA delays. How are we supposed to make a $75k+ decision without knowing what we'll actually pay?? One school says they can't generate aid offers until they get our FAFSA data, which is still "processing" after 7 weeks. I emailed all the financial aid offices, and only one bothered responding saying "we understand your frustration." That doesn't help! Has anyone successfully gotten a commitment deadline extension? Or found a way to speed up their FAFSA processing? This system is completely broken.
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Hugh Intensity
You can absolutely request a commitment deadline extension. Most schools are aware of the FAFSA disaster this year and are being flexible. Email the admissions office (not financial aid) directly and explain your situation. Be specific about which schools you're waiting on and request a firm extension date. I work in college counseling and we've had about 80% success rate with extension requests for our students this year.
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Sunny Wang
•THANK YOU. I've been emailing financial aid offices which might be my mistake. I'll try admissions directly tomorrow. Did your students have to pay any portion of deposits to hold their spots while waiting for extensions?
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Effie Alexander
my kid had same issue last yr we just paid deposit at 2 schools (lost 1 deposit but worth peace of mind) and withdrew from the 2nd once we got all the numbers... expensive but less stress
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Sunny Wang
•That's $500-1000 down the drain though... not everyone can afford to just lose that money. Plus, what if we pay deposits at all 5 schools? That's potentially thousands lost. The system is so messed up.
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Melissa Lin
The FAFSA delays this year are unprecedented. I've been helping families navigate financial aid for 15+ years and have never seen anything like this. Here's what you need to do: 1. Contact both admissions AND financial aid offices, specifically ask to speak with directors, not frontline staff 2. Use the exact phrase "financial hardship due to FAFSA processing delays" in your communications 3. Request a specific extension date (June 1 is reasonable) 4. Ask if they can provide an estimated aid package based on your income information while waiting for official FAFSA data Almost every school has internal protocols for dealing with FAFSA delays - they just don't advertise them. Be persistent but polite.
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Sunny Wang
•This is incredibly helpful! I'll use these exact phrases. We're so stressed about this - my daughter's dream school is one we're still waiting on aid info from. Do you know if I should be following up with Federal Student Aid about the FAFSA processing too, or just focus on the schools?
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Melissa Lin
You should absolutely be following up with Federal Student Aid too. Processing times are ridiculous right now, but sometimes you can get your application prioritized if you explain your urgency with upcoming deadlines. However, reaching them is nearly impossible through normal channels.
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Lydia Santiago
i tried calling FSA like 20 times last week and never got through lol their hold times are insane
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Romeo Quest
•I had the same problem but found a service called Claimyr that got me through to an actual FSA agent in about 20 minutes instead of waiting for hours. You can see how it works at https://youtu.be/TbC8dZQWYNQ - it basically waits on hold for you then calls when an agent picks up. I used it last week and the FSA agent was able to identify a specific issue with my daughter's FAFSA that was causing the delay (missing signature) and fixed it right there. Worth checking out if you're still stuck in FAFSA limbo. Website is claimyr.com
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Val Rossi
This whole system is ridiculous!! My son has to commit by May 1 too but we've only gotten one financial aid package so far. FAFSA says it'll be 6-8 WEEKS for processing... like what?? How is that acceptable? Are we just supposed to commit blindly and hope we can afford it? Colleges don't care about families at all.
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Eve Freeman
•It's actually not the colleges' fault this year. The Department of Education completely botched the rollout of the new FAFSA and delayed the release by months. Colleges normally have all of January, February and March to process aid packages, but this year they're all backed up because they didn't start getting FAFSA data until March. It's a mess all around.
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Hugh Intensity
Many colleges ARE pushing back their commitment dates. Just not all of them. Check the NACAC website - they maintain a list of schools that have officially extended their decision deadlines. Over 200 colleges have extended to May 15 or later. If your schools aren't on that list, that's when you need to reach out individually as I mentioned earlier.
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Sunny Wang
Update: I just got off the phone with one of the colleges using that Claimyr service someone recommended (it actually worked!). They said they're processing extensions on a case-by-case basis and will grant us until May 15th as long as we submit a formal request. Not ideal but better than nothing. Still waiting on 2 more schools to respond.
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Melissa Lin
•That's great progress! For the remaining schools, make sure to send a follow-up email documenting your phone conversation and extension request. Schools are drowning in calls right now, and without written documentation, your request might get lost. A paper trail is always helpful.
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Effie Alexander
has anyone's SAI score changed from what the fafsa calculator estimated?? worried about surprises
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Eve Freeman
•The new FAFSA formula for calculating SAI (Student Aid Index, which replaced EFC) is significantly different from previous years. Many families are seeing major changes, both higher and lower. The calculator estimates are generally close but can be off by $1000-2000 in either direction based on how the new formula treats certain types of income and assets. Until you see your official SAI, it's hard to predict exactly what your aid packages will look like.
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Sunny Wang
Final update: Success! After a LOT of emails and phone calls, all 5 schools have granted us extensions until May 15th. One even said they can give us until June 1st if our FAFSA is still processing by mid-May. I'm still furious that we had to fight so hard for this when the problem isn't our fault, but at least we have some breathing room now. Thanks everyone for your advice!
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Hugh Intensity
•That's excellent news! Make sure to get those extensions in writing, and keep documentation of all communications. And congratulations to your daughter on her acceptances!
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Sofia Torres
So glad to see this worked out for you! This thread has been incredibly helpful - I'm bookmarking it because I suspect we're going to see this same scenario play out again next year if the Department of Education doesn't get their act together. The fact that families had to fight tooth and nail for extensions when the delays were completely outside their control is just unacceptable. Your persistence really paid off though, and hopefully other parents in similar situations can use your strategies. Best of luck to your daughter with her final decision!
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