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ThunderBolt7

FAFSA reporting split dependents with divorced parents - tax return shows only 2/4 kids

I'm stuck in a frustrating situation with my 2025-26 FAFSA application. According to our divorce decree, my ex and I officially split custody of our 4 children (2 dependents each for tax purposes). But the reality is I'm financially supporting all 4 kids most of the time, even though my tax return only shows 2 dependents. When I'm filling out the FAFSA, there doesn't seem to be anywhere to explain this discrepancy. I'm worried colleges will think I only have 2 kids when calculating my family's financial need, which wouldn't accurately reflect my situation. Has anyone dealt with this specific dependent reporting issue before? Do I need to contact each college's financial aid office separately or is there something on the FAFSA form I'm missing? My oldest is applying to 7 different schools and I don't want this to hurt her chances for aid.

Jamal Edwards

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same happened with me in 2023. youll need to do professional judgment request at every college your kid applies to. they all have different forms for it tho

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ThunderBolt7

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Ugh, that sounds like a ton of extra paperwork. Do you remember how long that process took? I'm worried about missing deadlines.

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Mei Chen

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This is a common issue with divorced parents. The FAFSA itself doesn't have a specific section to explain this situation, but it's addressed through what's called a "Professional Judgment" or "Special Circumstances" review. Here's what you need to do: 1. Complete the FAFSA normally with your current tax information showing the 2 dependents 2. After submission, contact each college's financial aid office to request their Special Circumstances form 3. You'll need to provide documentation: divorce decree showing custody arrangement, proof you're supporting all 4 children (receipts, bank statements, etc.) 4. Some schools might request a signed statement from your ex-spouse confirming the arrangement Do this as early as possible after FAFSA submission, as professional judgment reviews can take 3-4 weeks to process, sometimes longer during peak periods.

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ThunderBolt7

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Thank you so much for this detailed explanation! This makes a lot more sense now. I'll start gathering all that documentation right away. Does it matter if my ex-spouse hasn't been contributing their agreed portion for the kids they claim on taxes?

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My best frend went through this exact thing last year!!!! She had to write like a million letters to all the aid offices. So annoying but she ended up getting more money for her daughter in the end.

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Amara Okonkwo

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As a financial aid advisor, I can confirm the previous advice about requesting a professional judgment review. One additional detail to be aware of: the 2025-26 FAFSA on the Better FAFSA portal now includes a section to indicate the total number of household members in your family, which is separate from dependents claimed on taxes. Make sure you list all 4 children in your household size question, even though only 2 are claimed on your taxes. Each school will handle this differently. Some may accept your household size at face value, while others will flag it for verification if it doesn't match your tax return. That's when you'll submit the special circumstances documentation. The new SAI (Student Aid Index) calculation does consider household size separately from tax dependents.

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ThunderBolt7

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That's really helpful information! I wasn't sure if I should list all 4 in the household size or just the 2 on my taxes. I'll make sure to include all of them and be prepared with documentation for the inevitable verification.

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the whole system is BS if u ask me. my ex claims both kids for taxes even tho they live with me 90% of the time and fafsa said I cant include them in my household size!!! colleges dont care about real life situations they just want ur money

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thats not right!! you can appeal that decision! my cousin had the same issue and got it fixed

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Dylan Hughes

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I'm going through this right now with my daughter's applications. I've learned that under the new FAFSA, there's something called "special circumstances" that each college handles differently. The frustrating part is you have to submit the FAFSA first, THEN request special consideration at each school. Do you have a copy of your divorce decree and any other documentation showing you support all 4 kids? Start gathering everything now - bank statements showing payments, medical bills, school expenses, etc. I created a folder for each school with copies of everything.

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Mei Chen

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This is excellent advice. Documentation is key. The more organized you are with your evidence, the faster the professional judgment review will go. Each institution has different requirements for these reviews, but having a comprehensive documentation package ready will help with all of them.

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Jamal Edwards

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idk what your relationship is with ur ex but get them to write a letter saying u support all 4 kids. that helped my brother alot with his situation

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NightOwl42

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Why not just claim all 4 on your taxes next year? That's what my sister did lol

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Amara Okonkwo

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That would actually violate the divorce decree and potentially create legal issues. It's important to follow the court-ordered arrangement for tax filing. The professional judgment process exists specifically to address these situations without requiring anyone to file taxes incorrectly.

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Mei Chen

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One additional point about the new FAFSA system: Make sure you list any child support you receive (if applicable) in the "Untaxed Income" section. This helps establish your financial responsibility for the children not claimed on your taxes. Also, if your divorce decree specifies who pays for college, have that document ready as some schools will want to see it during their professional judgment review process.

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ThunderBolt7

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Thank you for this additional info. The decree doesn't specifically address college expenses, which is part of why this is so complicated. I do receive some child support (though it's inconsistent) so I'll make sure to document that too.

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