FAFSA confusion: How did my son get student loans without me cosigning?
I'm completely baffled about student loans and need some clarification before my younger son starts college this fall. After FAFSA, we still need about $15K to cover his freshman year costs. Here's what's confusing me: My older son attended college back in 2013-2015. I only filled out the FAFSA for him - never signed any loan documents or cosigned anything. He went out of state his first year, then transferred to Embry Riddle. He eventually dropped out without finishing his degree and has been deferring his student loans for years. I recently asked him how he got those loans without me cosigning, and he honestly couldn't tell me! He has no idea, yet he's still responsible for them. How does this work? How can an 18-year-old with no credit history get approved for thousands in student loans without a parent cosigning? This information would really help me understand what my younger son is signing up for this fall. I'm worried about him taking on debt he doesn't understand, but we definitely need loans to make up that $15K gap.
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Rudy Cenizo
Your older son most likely had federal direct student loans through the FAFSA, not private loans. Federal direct loans don't require a parent cosigner - they're in the student's name only. The government offers these to students regardless of credit history. When you completed the FAFSA, it determined his eligibility for direct subsidized and unsubsidized loans. For your younger son, he'll likely be offered federal direct loans as part of his financial aid package after you submit FAFSA. These have borrowing limits though (typically around $5,500 for freshmen), so if you need $15K, you might need to look at Parent PLUS loans or private loans to cover the difference.
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Harmony Love
•That makes so much more sense! So the government just gave him the loans based on the FAFSA? No wonder he couldn't remember signing anything special. Do these federal direct loans have borrowing limits? $15K feels like a lot for my younger son's first year.
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Natalie Khan
yeah the loans ur son had were prob direct subsidized/unsubsidized federal student loans. the govt gives those to any student who fills out fafsa and is enrolled at least half time. no cosigner needed! they have lower interest rates than private loans too
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Daryl Bright
•This is correct. First-year dependent students can typically borrow up to $5,500 in Direct Loans, with no more than $3,500 of that being subsidized (where government pays interest while in school). The loan limits increase slightly in subsequent years. For the remaining $9,500 gap mentioned, the parent would need to apply for Parent PLUS loans or look at private loan options.
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Sienna Gomez
I was just as confused as you when my daughter started college! There are two main types of federal student loans through FAFSA: Direct Subsidized and Direct Unsubsidized loans. These are in the STUDENT'S name only - no parent signature required except for the FAFSA itself. But there's a relatively low limit on these (about $5,500 for first-year students). If you need $15K, your son can get maybe $5,500 on his own through these federal direct loans, but the remaining $9,500 would require either: 1. Parent PLUS loans (in YOUR name) 2. Private loans (which would almost certainly require a cosigner) My guess is your older son only took the federal direct loans, which is why you never had to sign for them specifically.
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Kirsuktow DarkBlade
•This is exactly right. Parent PLUS loans are actually the most common way to cover the gap between the Direct Loan limits and the total cost of attendance. But the PLUS loans are entirely in the parent's name, not the student's. The parent is 100% responsible for repayment, not the student.
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Abigail bergen
ok but direct loans have limits tho!!! freshman can only get like $5500 max!!! thats not enough for $15k!!!
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Harmony Love
•That's what I'm worried about! So how do people make up the difference? Do most parents just take out loans in their own names?
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Ahooker-Equator
Oh wow, this brings back memories. When my kids went to college, I had the EXACT same confusion. I remember filling out the FAFSA and then suddenly they had loans, but I never signed anything! Turned out they were federal direct loans that don't need a cosigner. But like others said, those only cover part of the costs usually. The whole system is so confusing and they don't explain it well to parents OR students!
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Rudy Cenizo
•You're absolutely right - the financial aid system doesn't do nearly enough to educate families about what they're actually signing up for. Many students don't realize those loans are in their names until they graduate and start getting bills!
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Daryl Bright
To answer your question directly: 1. Federal Direct Loans (both subsidized and unsubsidized) are available to students without a parent cosigner. The current limits for dependent first-year students are $5,500 total. 2. For the remaining $9,500 gap, you have three main options: - Parent PLUS loans (credit check required, but only checks for adverse credit history) - Private student loans (almost always requires cosigner for students) - Other payment options (payment plans, scholarships, work-study) 3. Your older son likely only took the federal direct loans that were automatically offered after FAFSA submission. These would have been entirely in his name. For your younger son, make sure he understands exactly which loans he's accepting and who is responsible for them. The financial aid award letter should break this down.
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Harmony Love
•Thank you for breaking this down so clearly! I'll make sure to look closely at his award letter. One more question - are Parent PLUS loans hard to get approved for? My credit is decent but not amazing.
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Daryl Bright
Parent PLUS loans only check for adverse credit history, not credit scores. You'll be approved as long as you don't have: - Accounts 90+ days delinquent - Collections or charge-offs in the past 2 years - Default on federal student loans - Bankruptcy, foreclosure, repossession, tax lien, wage garnishment, or write-off of federal student debt in the past 5 years Even with some of these issues, you can still potentially get approved with an endorser (similar to a cosigner). If you're concerned about getting through to someone at Federal Student Aid to discuss your options, I recently used a service called Claimyr (claimyr.com) that helped me get through to a live agent without the endless hold times. They have a video demo at https://youtu.be/TbC8dZQWYNQ that shows how it works. It saved me hours of frustration when I had questions about my daughter's PLUS loan application.
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Harmony Love
•That's really helpful! I'll check out both the PLUS loan requirements and that Claimyr service - the hold times at FSA are absolutely ridiculous whenever I've tried calling. Thanks for the detailed information!
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Kirsuktow DarkBlade
One thing to be aware of - your older son's loans are possibly in default if he's been deferring them for many years. There are limits to how long you can defer. This could potentially impact your family's ability to get additional federal aid, so you might want to help him get on an income-driven repayment plan if possible.
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Harmony Love
•I hadn't even thought of that! I'll definitely talk to him about his loan status. Would his loan issues affect my younger son's ability to get federal loans?
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Kirsuktow DarkBlade
•Your older son's loan status wouldn't directly affect your younger son's eligibility for his own federal loans. However, if YOU have defaulted on any federal student loans (like Parent PLUS loans), that could affect your ability to take out new Parent PLUS loans for your younger son.
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Natalie Khan
btw embry riddle is $$$$$ no wonder he has so much debt. hope ur younger son chose somewhere cheaper lol
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Harmony Love
•Yeah, Embry Riddle was definitely not cheap! My younger son is going to a state school, thankfully, but even that is more expensive than I expected.
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Ahooker-Equator
I remember when my first kid went to college in 2011, I was SHOCKED at how easy it was for him to get loans without me. I thought for sure they'd need a parent signature beyond just the FAFSA, but nope! The system just... gives teenagers thousands of dollars with basically no financial education. Then we wonder why there's a student loan crisis? SMH.
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Rudy Cenizo
•This is such an important point. The federal government will lend directly to students with no credit history and minimal financial literacy. While this makes education more accessible, it also creates long-term problems when students don't fully understand what they're agreeing to.
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Camila Jordan
This whole situation is exactly why I think families need better financial aid counseling! Your older son got federal Direct Loans - these are automatically offered to students who complete FAFSA and don't require parent cosigning. The government basically gives them to any enrolled student regardless of credit history, which explains why he can't remember signing anything special beyond accepting his financial aid package. For your younger son's $15K gap, he'll likely qualify for about $5,500 in Direct Loans on his own. The remaining ~$9,500 would need to come from Parent PLUS loans (in your name) or private loans (which would need a cosigner). I'd strongly recommend sitting down with your son AND the financial aid office to go through exactly what he's accepting - too many students sign loan documents without really understanding the long-term implications. Make sure he knows which loans are his responsibility vs. yours!
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Nia Johnson
•This is such great advice! I'm definitely planning to sit down with both my son and the financial aid office before he accepts anything. After seeing what happened with my older son - just accepting loans without really understanding them - I want to make sure we're all on the same page this time. Do you know if financial aid offices typically do a good job explaining the difference between federal loans and Parent PLUS loans? I want to make sure we understand exactly who's responsible for what before we commit to anything.
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