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Zara Shah

Can my 19-year-old daughter file FAFSA independently if she's living off-campus?

Hey everyone, my daughter (19) is starting college this fall and planning to get her own apartment off-campus instead of living in the dorms. She's been working part-time and saving up, but tuition is still way beyond what she can afford. We're wondering if there's any way she can file the FAFSA as an independent student so our household income isn't factored in? She's paying all her own living expenses and really doesn't want to take out massive loans. Does moving out and living independently qualify her somehow? Any loopholes or exceptions we should know about? Thanks in advance!

Luca Bianchi

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Unfortunately, living independently doesn't automatically make her an independent student for FAFSA purposes. The federal guidelines for independent status are pretty strict. At 19, she would need to meet one of these criteria: be married, have dependent children, be a veteran, be a ward of the court, be homeless, or have documented cases of parental abuse. Simply living off-campus and paying her own bills doesn't qualify her as independent for financial aid purposes. The Department of Education specifically designed the rules to prevent students from claiming independence just to get more aid.

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Zara Shah

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Ugh, that's what I was afraid of. Seems unfair since she's really going to be on her own financially. Is there ANY way around this? Would a dependency override from the financial aid office help? She hasn't talked to me in months if that matters...

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my cousin tried this exact thing last yr. ended up having to include parents anyway. total waste of time, schools dont care if ur paying ur own bills they just follow federal rules

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Nia Harris

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Same. My daughter tryed to file independent and got DENIED. Even though she hasnt lived with us since she was 18!!

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While the previous responders are correct that simply living off-campus doesn't qualify her as independent, there is something called a "Dependency Override" that's worth exploring. This is handled case-by-case by each school's financial aid office. Important things to know: 1) It's extremely rare to get approved - less than 2% of all dependency override requests succeed 2) You need significant documentation of unusual circumstances 3) Common reasons that DO qualify: parental incarceration, documented abuse or neglect, parents' whereabouts unknown 4) Common reasons that DON'T qualify: parents refuse to provide info, parents don't claim student on taxes, student self-sufficiency, parents unwilling to help pay Her best approach would be to contact the financial aid office at her specific school and ask about their dependency override process. Each institution handles these differently.

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Zara Shah

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Thank you for this detailed info! I'm going to have her reach out to the financial aid office tomorrow. We don't have any of those extreme circumstances, but maybe they'll consider her situation anyway.

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Aisha Ali

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The whole FAFSA system is RIDICULOUS! My son works 30+ hours a week, pays ALL his own bills, hasnt gotten a PENNY from me in 2 years but he still couldn't file as independent! Meanwhile I make just enough that he doesnt qualify for good aid but NOT enough to actually help him!! The middle class gets PUNISHED and its CRIMINAL!!!! The govt expects parents to bankrupt themselves for college even when the kids are adults taking care of themselves!!!!!

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Ethan Moore

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I feel your frustration - the system definitely creates a tough spot for middle-income families. One thing worth noting though - the new FAFSA for 2024-2025 has changed how they calculate the Student Aid Index (SAI), which replaces the old EFC. For many middle-income families with multiple kids in college, the new formula is actually more favorable. Might be worth recalculating under the new system.

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Yuki Nakamura

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Has ur daughter considered taking a gap year and working full-time? If she waits till she's 24, she automatically becomes independent for FAFSA. thats what i did, worked and saved $$ for 3 years, then went back. best decision cuz now i get way more aid and bigger pell grant

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Zara Shah

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That's interesting, but she's pretty determined to start this fall. Waiting 5 years until she's 24 seems like such a long time to put her education on hold.

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Ethan Moore

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Another angle to consider - while she may not qualify as independent, you could explore ways to minimize the parent contribution on the FAFSA. Some strategies: 1. Maximize retirement contributions before filing FAFSA (these assets aren't counted) 2. Pay down consumer debt before filing (reduces countable assets) 3. If you have multiple children in college simultaneously, that significantly reduces the expected family contribution per student 4. Look into schools that meet full demonstrated need or offer merit scholarships not tied to FAFSA 5. Have her apply for external private scholarships The FAFSA now uses the Student Aid Index (SAI) instead of EFC, but the principles remain similar. Your daughter should also make an appointment with a financial aid counselor at her specific school to discuss her unique circumstances - sometimes they have institutional funds they can use at their discretion.

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Zara Shah

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These are great suggestions! We'll definitely look into maximizing retirement contributions before filing. She's also looking at scholarship applications, though many deadlines have already passed for fall.

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StarSurfer

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Off topic but has anyone else been having trouble getting through to the Federal Student Aid support line? I've been trying for DAYS and either get disconnected or wait for hours. So frustrating when trying to figure out these complicated rules!

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Yuki Nakamura

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OMG YES! I spent 2.5 hours on hold last week and then got hung up on! Super annoying!!

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Luca Bianchi

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One more thing I should mention - she should definitely file the FAFSA regardless, even if you have to include your income. Many schools require it for ANY type of aid, including merit scholarships. Also, she'll at least qualify for unsubsidized federal loans which have better terms than private loans.

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Zara Shah

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Thanks, we'll make sure to file either way. I didn't realize it could affect merit scholarships too!

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Aisha Ali

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Forgot to ask - has she looked into working at Starbucks or Amazon? They offer tuition assistance programs that don't depend on FAFSA. Something to consider if the financial aid package isn't enough.

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Zara Shah

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That's a great idea! I'll mention those to her. I think I heard Target has some tuition benefits too.

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Nia Harris

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Try calling the school financial aid office in person! my niece got a special exception when she explained her situation face to face.... they didnt advertize it but they gave her extra grant money!!

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Ethan Moore

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This is excellent advice. Financial aid offices often have discretionary funds (sometimes called Professional Judgment adjustments) they can use for special circumstances. In-person visits tend to be much more effective than emails or calls.

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Zara Shah

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Oh wow, that sounds really helpful! I've been dreading making that call because of all the hold times people mention. I'll check it out, thanks!

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did anyone mention professional judgment? my friend got his EFC (now called SAI i think) reduced cuz his parents income on the tax return was way higher than normal for a one-time thing. financial aid office fixed it

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Ethan Moore

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Good point! Professional Judgment reviews are definitely worth exploring if the family's financial situation has changed significantly since the tax year being used for the FAFSA. Common qualifying circumstances include job loss, major medical expenses, or one-time income events that inflate the tax return numbers.

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NightOwl42

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Just wanted to add one more resource that might help - the National Association of Student Financial Aid Administrators (NASFAA) has a really good guide on their website explaining dependency status and all the specific criteria. It breaks down exactly what qualifies and what doesn't in plain English. Also, if your daughter's school participates in the Federal Work-Study program, that could help reduce her loan burden even if she doesn't qualify for other need-based aid. Work-study jobs are usually flexible around class schedules and the income doesn't count against her on next year's FAFSA. Best of luck navigating this process!

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Thank you so much for mentioning the NASFAA guide - I'll definitely look that up! The work-study program sounds like a great option too. I didn't realize that work-study income doesn't count against next year's FAFSA, that's really helpful to know. We're learning so much from everyone's responses here!

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I went through this exact situation with my son two years ago! He was living independently and paying all his bills, but we still had to include our income on the FAFSA. What ended up helping us was applying for a payment plan through the school's bursar office to spread out the costs, and he qualified for some need-based grants even though our income was included. Also, don't overlook state-specific aid programs - many states have their own grant programs with different eligibility requirements than federal aid. Your daughter should check her state's higher education website for additional opportunities. The key is to cast a wide net and apply for everything she might qualify for, even if the amounts seem small - it all adds up!

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Raj Gupta

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This is really encouraging to hear from someone who's been through the same situation! I hadn't thought about state grant programs - that's definitely something we should look into. The payment plan idea is smart too, especially if it can help break down the costs into more manageable chunks. You're absolutely right about casting a wide net. Even small scholarships and grants can make a real difference when they add up. Thanks for sharing your experience - it gives me hope that we can make this work even without independent status!

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Tasia Synder

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I'm new to this community but have been lurking and reading everyone's advice - thank you all for being so helpful! My daughter is in a similar situation, and after reading through all these responses, I feel much more informed about our options. I had no idea about things like professional judgment reviews or that work-study income doesn't count against next year's FAFSA. We're definitely going to have her schedule an in-person meeting with the financial aid office and look into state grant programs too. It's frustrating that the dependency rules are so strict, but at least now I know what we're working with. This thread has been incredibly valuable - wish I'd found this community sooner!

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Welcome to the community! I'm pretty new here too and have been amazed at how knowledgeable and helpful everyone is. It's so reassuring to know there are others going through the same struggles with FAFSA and college costs. I've been taking notes on all the suggestions in this thread - there are so many options I never knew existed! The in-person financial aid office meeting seems to be the common theme from everyone who's had success. Definitely feel like I have a much better game plan now thanks to all the experienced parents and students who've shared their stories here.

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Welcome to the community! As someone who just went through this process with my own kid, I can tell you that while the dependency rules are frustrating, there are definitely ways to make college more affordable even without independent status. A few things that helped us that I didn't see mentioned yet: 1) Community college for the first two years can cut costs dramatically while she figures out her major, 2) Look into schools that offer automatic merit scholarships based on GPA/test scores - these don't require FAFSA dependency status, 3) Consider schools in states with lower tuition rates or good reciprocity agreements. Also, encourage her to apply for local scholarships through community organizations, churches, etc. - these smaller scholarships often have fewer applicants and can really add up. The financial aid office visit is crucial though - they sometimes have emergency funds or institutional grants they can offer on a case-by-case basis. Hang in there!

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CosmosCaptain

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This is such great advice! The community college route is something we should seriously consider - I hadn't really thought about how much that could save over four years. And you're right about the automatic merit scholarships not being tied to dependency status, that's a really important distinction. I'm going to have my daughter start researching schools that offer those kinds of automatic awards based on her stats. The local scholarship idea is brilliant too - I bet there are organizations in our area that we haven't even thought to check with yet. It sounds like you really maximized all the available options. Thanks for the encouragement - it's so helpful to hear from parents who've successfully navigated this maze!

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Freya Pedersen

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As a financial aid counselor, I want to emphasize something important that hasn't been fully addressed - even though your daughter can't file as independent, the new 2024-2025 FAFSA has made some significant changes that could help families like yours. The Student Aid Index (SAI) calculation now has a more generous income protection allowance and doesn't penalize families as heavily for having assets. Also, if your daughter ends up taking federal loans, she should know about income-driven repayment plans like the new SAVE plan, which can cap payments at a percentage of discretionary income after graduation. One more tip - if she's considering graduate school later, she would automatically be considered independent at that point, so federal aid would be based solely on her income then. The system isn't perfect, but there are more safety nets than many families realize.

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Natasha Volkova

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Thank you so much for this perspective from a financial aid counselor! It's really reassuring to hear about the improvements in the new FAFSA formula - I hadn't fully understood how the Student Aid Index changes might actually benefit us compared to the old EFC system. The information about the SAVE plan for loan repayment is particularly helpful since we're trying to minimize her debt burden. I also didn't know that graduate school automatically makes students independent - that's definitely something to keep in mind for her long-term educational planning. It sounds like while the dependency rules haven't changed, at least the overall system is becoming more family-friendly in other ways. Really appreciate getting the inside scoop from someone who works with these programs every day!

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StarGazer101

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I'm a college student who went through this exact situation last year! I was 19, living completely on my own, and really hoped I could file independently. Unfortunately, like others have mentioned, the federal rules are super strict - just being financially independent doesn't qualify you. However, I want to share what DID help me: I scheduled a meeting with my school's financial aid office and brought documentation of all my expenses and income. While they couldn't change my dependency status, they were able to offer me additional institutional grants and connected me with emergency funding when I hit a rough patch mid-semester. Also, definitely look into your state's grant programs - I qualified for a state need-based grant that helped cover about $2,000 per semester. The key is being proactive and persistent with applications. Don't give up hope - there are more funding sources out there than just federal aid!

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