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Can I apply for FAFSA for myself while my kid is also in college? Need parent-student advice

My daughter starts her freshman year next week (so excited but nervous for her!). We've got all her FAFSA and financial aid sorted out finally, but now I'm thinking about going back to school myself. Do I need to create a separate FSA ID and FAFSA application for myself? Or can I somehow use the parent account I already created for her application? Also, does anyone know if they give decent aid to parents who are attending college simultaneously with their kids? I'm looking at a nursing program that would take about 3 years. Wondering if this 'both of us in college' situation might actually help with either of our aid calculations?

You absolutely need your own separate FSA ID and FAFSA application. The parent account you created was specifically to provide your information as a contributor to your daughter's application. For your own application, you'll be the student (primary), not the parent. As for aid when both parent and child are in school, there's potential for more aid, especially if your Expected Family Contribution (now called Student Aid Index or SAI) is affected by your own educational expenses. However, this mostly affects your daughter's aid, not necessarily yours. As an independent student (which you would be by age), your SAI calculation won't include your daughter's status.

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Thanks for explaining! So I'll need to start from scratch with my own application. Do you know if my income being divided between two college students (me and my daughter) might help her get more aid? Or will they still count my full income toward her expected contribution?

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good luck lol the system is NOT designed for parent students at all!!! i tried this 2 years ago and it was a nightmare. they kept getting confused about which application was which and my sons financial aid got delayed for MONTHS because they thought there was fraud happening with duplicate applications or something

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Oh no, that sounds horrible! Did you eventually get it sorted out? I really don't want to mess up my daughter's aid package since it's already approved.

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I'm going through this exact situation right now! Yes, you need your own FSA ID completely separate from your parent profile on your daughter's FAFSA. When you create your own FAFSA, you'll be filing as an independent student (assuming you're over 24). The good news: on your daughter's 2025-2026 FAFSA, there's a question about how many people in the household will be in college. When you indicate that you (a parent) are also in college, this CAN positively impact her aid eligibility because it essentially divides the expected family contribution. Your income is effectively stretched between two students. For your own aid: As an independent student, you'll likely qualify for the full Pell Grant amount if your income is moderate. You'll also have access to federal loans with the annual limit for independent students (which is higher than dependent students). Just make sure to keep all documentation very organized - separate files for her FAFSA and yours to avoid confusion!

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wait is that true about dividing the contribution??? my wife and i BOTH attend college with our son and we never knew this could help his aid package!!

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Yes, it absolutely can help! On the 2025-2026 FAFSA, when you indicate multiple family members in college, the Student Aid Index (SAI) formula takes this into account. The household's ability to pay is considered to be divided among the number of students. So if your calculated SAI would have been $10,000 with just your son in college, it might be reduced significantly with three family members enrolled. You should definitely update your son's FAFSA if you haven't indicated this information!

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There's a catch though!!!! Not all schools consider parents in college the same way when determining institutional aid! The FAFSA formula may calculate a lower SAI when parents are in college, BUT many private colleges that require the CSS Profile will disregard the parent-in-college status when calculating their own institutional aid. They only count children pursuing undergraduate degrees. So while your federal aid eligibility might improve, if your daughter is at a CSS Profile school, they might not give her additional institutional grants based on you being in school too. Check with her specific financial aid office about their policy.

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That's really important to know - she's at a state university so hopefully they follow the federal formula. I'll definitely check with her financial aid office about this!

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Try calling Federal Student Aid directly to get clear answers. I called them about a similar situation last month and got bounced around 5 different departments before someone could actually answer my questions about household members in college. Waited on hold forever and then got disconnected twice. So frustrating!!

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Thanks everyone for the helpful information! I'm going to start my own FAFSA application this weekend and make sure to keep all the documentation separate from my daughter's. I'll also check with her financial aid office about how they handle the parent-student situation specifically. Fingers crossed we both get good aid packages!

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good luck!!! btw what program are u going into?? im in year 2 of paralegal studies and its been hard but worth it

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I'm looking at a nursing program! Always wanted to do it but put it off when I had kids. Figure now's as good a time as any since I'll be an empty nester soon. How have you managed the work/school balance?

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its been crazy tbh. i do school at night and work during day. barely sleep lol. but my kid seeing me graduate will be worth it!!! nursing is awesome my sister did that at 42!!

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Congratulations on taking this step! I went back to school at 45 while my son was a sophomore and it was one of the best decisions I ever made. Just wanted to add a practical tip - when you're filling out your own FAFSA, make sure to use a completely different email address than what you used for your daughter's application. I used the same email initially and it caused some confusion in the system. Also, nursing programs often have additional scholarships specifically for non-traditional students, so definitely look into those opportunities once you get accepted. The workload is intense but totally manageable if you stay organized. You've got this!

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Thank you so much for the encouragement and practical tips! I definitely wouldn't have thought about using a different email address - that's really helpful advice. I'm excited to hear about potential scholarships for non-traditional students too, I'll make sure to research those once I get into a program. It's so inspiring to hear from someone who went through this successfully. Did you find that being in school at the same time as your son created any interesting dynamics or conversations about your studies?

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As someone who just went through this process last year, I can confirm everything others have said about needing separate FSA IDs and applications. One thing I'd add is to be really careful about the timing of when you submit your FAFSA versus when your daughter submits any updates to hers. I made the mistake of submitting mine right after my daughter made a correction to hers, and it somehow flagged both applications for verification. The financial aid offices at both schools thought there might be identity theft happening because they saw similar financial information on two different applications from the same address. It took weeks to sort out! My advice would be to stagger your submissions by at least a few days and maybe even call both financial aid offices beforehand to give them a heads up that you're a parent-student household. Also, keep copies of everything - I mean EVERYTHING - because you'll likely need to provide the same documentation multiple times to prove you're legitimate separate students.

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Wow, that verification flag situation sounds like a nightmare! Thanks for the heads up about staggering submissions - I never would have thought about that timing issue. The identity theft concern makes total sense from their perspective but must have been so stressful to deal with. I'll definitely call both financial aid offices beforehand to explain the situation. Did you find that once you got through the verification process, everything went smoothly? Or were there other unexpected hurdles along the way?

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Once we got past the verification nightmare, things did smooth out considerably! The biggest remaining hurdle was just keeping track of all the different deadlines and requirements for two separate students. I created a shared calendar with color coding - blue for my daughter's stuff, green for mine - which helped a lot. One unexpected thing that came up was that some scholarship applications asked about other family members receiving aid, so we had to be careful about how we answered those questions to avoid any conflicts. Also, my daughter's school required a form confirming that I was indeed a legitimate student elsewhere before they would finalize her aid package. But honestly, once all the initial confusion was sorted out, both of our aid packages ended up being better than expected because of the multiple-students-in-household factor. Just be prepared for extra paperwork and stay super organized!

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This is such valuable information from everyone! I'm actually in a similar boat - my twin boys are juniors in high school and I've been thinking about going back for my master's degree when they start college. Reading through all these experiences is really helpful for planning ahead. One question I have is about timing - would it be better to wait until their sophomore year to start my program, or jump in right when they're freshmen? I'm wondering if starting simultaneously might create too much chaos for everyone, but waiting might mean missing out on that household-with-multiple-students benefit for their first year. Also, has anyone dealt with this situation where you have MULTIPLE kids in college at the same time as yourself? I imagine that makes the aid calculations even more complex but potentially more beneficial?

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Great question about timing! From what I've learned reading everyone's experiences here, I'd actually suggest starting when they're freshmen if you're ready academically and financially. That way you get the maximum benefit of the multiple-students calculation for all four years instead of just three. The chaos factor is real though - maybe consider starting with just one or two classes to test the waters? As for multiple kids plus yourself, that should actually work in your favor even more! The FAFSA formula divides the expected family contribution among all students, so with three of you in college, each person's calculated need could be significantly higher. Just be super organized with separate FSA IDs for everyone and maybe use a spreadsheet to track all the different deadlines and requirements. The paperwork will be intense but the aid benefits could be substantial!

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I'm actually considering doing something similar! My son is a high school senior right now and I've been thinking about going back to finish my degree once he starts college. Reading through all these responses has been incredibly helpful - especially the warnings about keeping everything completely separate and organized. One thing I'm wondering about that I haven't seen mentioned yet - does anyone know if there are any special considerations for parent-students when it comes to work-study programs? I'm assuming I'd be eligible for federal work-study as an independent student, but I'm curious if schools have any policies about hiring parents of current students, or if there might be weird conflicts of interest issues. Also, has anyone found that being a parent-student affected their access to campus resources like tutoring centers, study groups, or even just finding your place socially among much younger traditional students? The financial benefits everyone's describing definitely make this seem worth pursuing, but I want to make sure I'm thinking through all the practical aspects too!

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Those are really thoughtful questions! I haven't personally dealt with the work-study situation as a parent-student, but from what I understand, work-study eligibility is based on your individual FAFSA and financial need, so being a parent of another student shouldn't disqualify you. However, you're smart to think about potential conflicts - I'd definitely ask the financial aid office about their specific policies regarding parent-students in work-study positions. As for the social aspect, I'm honestly a bit nervous about that too! I'm 44 and will be starting my nursing program soon, and I keep wondering how I'll fit in with students who are closer to my daughter's age. But I figure we're all there to learn, and maybe our life experience actually brings something valuable to study groups and class discussions. Plus, many programs have evening or weekend options that tend to attract more non-traditional students, so you might not be the only parent in your classes! The campus resources question is interesting - I hadn't thought about whether there might be age restrictions on things like tutoring centers, but I can't imagine why there would be. If anything, we might be more motivated to use those resources since we're probably paying for school ourselves and really want to succeed!

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I can relate to your concerns about the social aspect and campus resources! I went back to school at 39 when my daughter was a sophomore, and honestly, the age thing was way less of an issue than I expected. Most of my professors and classmates were just focused on the coursework, and I actually found that my life experience helped me contribute meaningfully to discussions and group projects. For work-study, I was eligible and worked in the library - no issues with being a parent of a student at another school. Just make sure to mention your situation during the work-study interview process so there are no surprises. One practical tip I wish someone had told me: look into whether your school offers childcare services or family housing, even if your kid isn't living with you. Some schools extend certain family-friendly resources to any student who is a parent, regardless of their children's ages or living situations. I was able to access some emergency childcare services during finals week when my younger son was sick, which was a lifesaver. Also, don't overlook online study groups and virtual tutoring options - they can be more convenient for juggling parenting responsibilities and often have more diverse age ranges. You've got this!

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This is so encouraging to hear! I'm really glad the age difference wasn't as big of a barrier as expected. The tip about childcare services is brilliant - I wouldn't have thought to look into those resources even though I don't have young kids at home anymore. It's smart to know about all available support systems just in case. The online study groups suggestion is really practical too. I've been so focused on the financial aid aspects that I haven't given enough thought to the day-to-day logistics of being a student again. It's reassuring to hear from someone who successfully navigated both the parent and student roles simultaneously. Did you find that your daughter had any particular reaction to you being in school at the same time? I'm curious whether it created any interesting conversations about your respective academic experiences or if it motivated either of you in unexpected ways. Thanks for sharing your experience - it's really helping me feel more confident about taking this step!

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This thread has been so incredibly helpful! I'm actually in a very similar situation - my daughter just finished her first semester and I'm starting to seriously consider going back for my teaching degree. Reading through everyone's experiences has given me a much clearer picture of what to expect. One thing I wanted to add that might help future parent-students: I spoke with a financial aid counselor at my local community college (where I'm thinking of starting before transferring), and she mentioned that some states have specific grant programs for adult learners that can stack on top of federal aid. In my state, there's a "workforce development grant" that covers up to 75% of tuition for certain high-demand fields like teaching and nursing, and it's specifically designed for students over 25. Also, for those worried about the social aspects - I've been auditing a few classes this semester just to get back into the swing of studying, and honestly, the younger students have been nothing but supportive and welcoming. Many of them actually seek out the "adult learners" for group projects because we tend to be really organized and committed! The separate FSA ID advice is spot-on though - learned that the hard way when I was just exploring options earlier this year. Thanks everyone for sharing your experiences!

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Thanks for sharing that information about state-specific grants! I had no idea there were workforce development programs that could stack with federal aid - that's definitely something I need to research for my state. The 75% tuition coverage you mentioned sounds amazing, especially for fields like nursing that are in high demand. It's also really encouraging to hear about your positive experience auditing classes. That's actually a brilliant way to test the waters before fully committing! I might look into doing something similar just to get back into study mode and see how I handle being in a classroom environment again after so many years. Your point about adult learners being sought after for group projects made me smile - I never thought about our organizational skills and life experience being viewed as assets by younger students. It's reassuring to know that the age gap doesn't have to be a barrier and might actually be beneficial in some ways. Thanks for taking the time to share your insights!

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This has been such an informative discussion! As someone who works in higher education administration, I wanted to add a few professional insights that might help future parent-students. First, regarding the timing question that came up - I'd actually recommend starting your application process early in the year (January-February) even if you're not planning to start until fall. This gives you time to work through any verification issues or complications without the stress of looming deadlines. Second, many schools now have dedicated "adult learner" or "non-traditional student" advisors who specialize in exactly these situations. They can help navigate the FAFSA complexities and often know about additional funding sources that general advisors might miss. Finally, don't forget about tax implications! When you have multiple family members receiving educational benefits, it can affect how you claim education credits and deductions. You might want to consult with a tax professional to optimize your family's overall tax strategy. The courage it takes to go back to school while supporting your children's education is incredible. Best of luck to everyone pursuing this path!

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Thank you so much for sharing your professional perspective! The tip about starting the application process early is really valuable - I can see how having those extra months to sort out any complications would be huge stress relief. I definitely wouldn't have thought about potential verification issues causing delays. The mention of dedicated adult learner advisors is particularly helpful. I'll make sure to ask about those resources when I contact schools. It makes sense that they would have specialists who understand the unique challenges we face as parent-students. Your point about tax implications is something I completely overlooked! With education credits and deductions for multiple family members, that could get complex quickly. I'll definitely look into consulting with a tax professional before we get too far into this process. This entire thread has been incredibly enlightening. It's amazing how supportive this community is! Thanks everyone for sharing your experiences and advice.

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Wow, this thread has been absolutely incredible! As someone who's been contemplating going back to school while my son is in his junior year of college, I've learned so much from everyone's experiences. The detailed breakdown of needing separate FSA IDs, the potential benefits for aid calculations when multiple family members are in school, and all the practical tips about timing and organization have been invaluable. I'm particularly grateful for the warnings about verification issues and the suggestion to give financial aid offices a heads up about parent-student households. The tip about using different email addresses is something I never would have considered but makes total sense to avoid system confusion. For anyone else reading this who's on the fence about pursuing education while their kids are in college - this thread is proof that it's not only possible but can actually be beneficial financially through the household-multiple-students factor. Yes, it requires extra organization and there will be challenges, but the support and success stories shared here are so encouraging. Thank you to everyone who took the time to share their experiences, especially the specific practical advice about separate documentation, staggered submissions, and looking into state-specific grant programs. This community is amazing!

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I couldn't agree more! This thread has been like a masterclass in navigating the parent-student journey. As someone who's just starting to seriously consider going back to school while my daughter is a college freshman, I feel so much more prepared now thanks to everyone's detailed experiences and advice. The practical tips about separate FSA IDs, different email addresses, and staggering FAFSA submissions are game-changers - I would have stumbled into every one of those potential pitfalls without these warnings. And learning about the possible financial benefits when multiple family members are in school simultaneously has actually made this feel more feasible than I initially thought. What really stands out to me is how supportive and encouraging everyone has been, especially about the social aspects and age concerns. Hearing that adult learners are often welcomed and even sought after for group projects really helps ease some of my anxiety about being the "old student" in the classroom. I'm bookmarking this entire conversation to reference as I move forward with my own applications. Thank you to everyone who shared their journeys - you've truly made this feel less daunting and more achievable!

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This entire conversation has been such a treasure trove of information! As someone who's been quietly lurking and considering the same path, I wanted to jump in and say thank you to everyone who shared their experiences. I'm a single mom with twins who are high school seniors, and I've been thinking about finally finishing my bachelor's degree once they start college. Reading about the multiple-students-in-household benefits has me really excited - I had no idea that could actually help with aid calculations for all of us! The warnings about keeping everything completely separate (FSA IDs, email addresses, documentation) are noted and appreciated. I can totally see how the system would flag similar information as potentially fraudulent. One thing I'm curious about that I don't think was mentioned - has anyone dealt with this situation while also being divorced? I'm wondering if there are any additional complications when the other parent is involved in the kids' FAFSA but obviously wouldn't be on mine. My ex-husband will be listed as a contributor on my daughters' applications, but I assume that has no bearing on my own student status? Either way, you've all given me the confidence to seriously start researching programs. Thank you for being so generous with your knowledge and encouragement!

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Great question about the divorce situation! You're absolutely right that your ex-husband being listed as a contributor on your daughters' FAFSA applications has no impact on your own student application. When you file your own FAFSA as an independent student, you'll only report your own income and assets (and your current spouse's if you're remarried). Your ex's financial information is completely irrelevant to your student aid eligibility. The only thing to be mindful of is if you receive alimony or child support - that would need to be reported as untaxed income on your FAFSA. But otherwise, your financial aid calculations will be completely separate from anything involving your ex-husband. Having twins starting college at the same time you do could actually work out really well financially! With three students in the household, that multiple-student factor could significantly boost everyone's aid eligibility. Just make sure to coordinate the timing of all three FAFSA submissions and maybe give the financial aid offices a heads up about your unique situation. You've got this! Single parenting while going to school is challenging but so many people have done it successfully. The fact that your daughters will see you pursuing your education goals could be incredibly inspiring for them too.

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This has been such an amazing thread to read through! I'm in a similar situation - my son is starting his sophomore year and I've been contemplating going back to finish my nursing degree. All the detailed advice about separate FSA IDs, keeping documentation organized, and the potential benefits of multiple students in the household has been incredibly helpful. One thing I wanted to add for future parent-students: if you're considering nursing specifically, many hospitals and healthcare systems offer tuition reimbursement programs or even direct partnerships with nursing schools. I've been researching this and found that some programs will actually guarantee you a job upon graduation in exchange for a commitment to work for them for a certain number of years. This could be a great way to supplement federal aid and have job security lined up! Also, for those worried about the time management aspect, I've been talking to nurses who went back to school later in life, and many recommended starting with prerequisite courses at a community college while working part-time. It's a way to ease into the student routine without diving straight into a full nursing program. Thank you to everyone who shared their experiences - you've made this feel so much more doable!

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That's such valuable information about hospital tuition reimbursement programs! I hadn't thought about looking into employer partnerships with nursing schools. The guaranteed job aspect is really appealing, especially given how competitive the job market can be in some areas. Do you know if these programs typically have age restrictions or if they're open to career changers like us? The community college prerequisite route is brilliant too - it would definitely be a gentler way to get back into study mode while testing how well I can balance everything. Plus, community college credits are usually much more affordable, which would help stretch the financial aid further. Reading through everyone's experiences in this thread has been so motivating. It's amazing to see how many parents are successfully navigating education alongside their children. The support and practical advice here has transformed this from a scary "what if" into something that feels genuinely achievable. Thank you for adding even more helpful insights to an already incredible discussion!

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