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When my daughter was in this situation, we had to make the tough choice between her dream out-of-state school and the affordable in-state option. She chose the affordable route and honestly? BEST DECISION EVER. She graduated with minimal debt and is now in her dream graduate program. Not saying your son should give up his dream school, but don't discount the extreme financial burden of that $10K gap EVERY YEAR for four years. That's $40K+ with interest if you're borrowing. Sometimes the practical choice sets them up for better long-term success and graduate school options.
As someone who works in higher education, I want to add a few more resources that might help bridge that gap: 1. Check if the university offers emergency or bridge loans - these are short-term, low-interest loans specifically for situations like yours while waiting on scholarship decisions 2. Look into cooperative education (co-op) programs in engineering - many allow students to alternate semesters of study with paid work experience, which can significantly offset costs 3. Contact the engineering department directly about research assistantships or tutoring positions - these often come with tuition remission or stipends 4. Some universities have "completion grants" or "retention scholarships" that aren't widely advertised but are available for students who might not enroll due to small funding gaps 5. Consider reaching out to alumni networks in your area - many have informal scholarship programs or mentorship opportunities that include financial support The timing is frustrating, but don't lose hope! Many families piece together funding from multiple sources, and engineering programs often have more departmental funding available than other majors. Keep advocating for your son - the squeaky wheel often gets the grease in financial aid offices.
This is such valuable information, thank you! I had no idea about emergency loans or co-op programs - that sounds like it could be perfect for engineering. I'll definitely reach out to the engineering department directly. The idea of contacting alumni networks is interesting too, though I'm not sure where to start with that. Do you know if most universities have alumni directories or contact information available for current students' families?
For anyone dealing with this issue: document everything. Take screenshots of submission confirmations, save all emails, and note the dates of any calls or attempts to resolve the issue. If your aid is delayed because of FAFSA processing problems beyond your control, having this documentation can help your school's financial aid office work with you on deadline extensions.
As someone who just went through this exact situation last month, I can confirm that the signature issue after corrections is super common but fixable! The key thing to remember is that ANY change to your FAFSA invalidates all previous signatures - even if the person didn't make the actual correction. So if you corrected income info, both you AND your parent need to sign again. Log into studentaid.gov, go to your FAFSA, and look for the "Sign & Submit" section. You'll probably see that one signature is missing. Once you get both signatures in, it should process within a week. Also, definitely email your financial aid office to give them a heads up about the delay - they're usually understanding about FAFSA processing issues that are out of your control.
Thank you all for the advice. We're going to have our daughter take out the maximum in her own name first ($5,500 for freshman year), then use Parent PLUS for the remainder. We'll also appeal the financial aid offer to see if they can do any better given some medical expenses we had last year that weren't reflected in our FAFSA. Still disappointed about the loan forgiveness limitations, but at least we have a clearer picture now of what we're getting into. We'll likely use that Claimyr service to confirm everything directly with FSA before signing anything.
Just wanted to add that you should also check if your daughter's school participates in any state-specific loan forgiveness programs for teachers. Some states have their own teacher loan forgiveness programs that might have different eligibility requirements than federal PSLF. Since your wife is already in education, she might know about these programs or have colleagues who've used them. Also, make sure to keep detailed records of all your Parent PLUS loan payments and your wife's employment at the Title I school - even though Parent PLUS loans aren't directly eligible for PSLF, the rules around federal loan programs do sometimes change, and having documentation could be helpful if new forgiveness options become available in the future.
That's really good advice about state-specific programs! I hadn't thought about that. Since we're in California, I'll have my wife check with her district about any state teacher loan forgiveness options. And you're absolutely right about keeping detailed records - even if the rules don't help us now, who knows what might change in the future. Thanks for the tip!
I'm so sorry this happened to your daughter - what a devastating betrayal of trust. While others have given great advice about emergency funds and legal options, I wanted to mention that she should also consider contacting her state's consumer protection agency or attorney general's office. Some states have specific protections for educational loan misuse, especially when there's documented evidence of the intended purpose. Also, if she has any joint accounts or financial ties with her father, she should consider protecting those immediately. Sometimes parents who misuse education funds will also access other shared financial resources. The fact that he's flaunting the boat purchase on social media while his daughter faces homelessness is particularly egregious - make sure she screenshots those posts as potential evidence. I really hope the Dean of Students and financial aid office can provide some emergency relief tomorrow!
Ella Thompson
That's a really good point I hadn't considered. I'll definitely keep this in mind when we file his 2024 taxes. Thank you for all the helpful information!
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Freya Ross
Just want to add another perspective as someone who works in financial aid - the confusion around the new FAFSA timeline is totally understandable! You're absolutely right that for 2025-2026, you'll use 2023 tax info, and since your son's grants/scholarships were received in 2024, they won't impact that FAFSA at all. One tip: when you do file the 2025-2026 FAFSA, make sure to double-check that you're entering your son's 2023 income correctly (from his summer job). A lot of families accidentally put $0 for student income when the student did work that year, which can trigger verification if the IRS data doesn't match. Also, keep all your 2023 tax documents organized - the new FAFSA pulls most info directly from the IRS, but you might still need them for verification or if there are any discrepancies. Good luck with the process!
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Miguel Castro
•This is exactly the kind of insider perspective I was hoping for! Thank you for the tip about double-checking the student income section - I definitely would have been tempted to put $0 since the amount was so small. It's good to know that the IRS data matching is that precise. I'll make sure to have everything organized before we start the application process.
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