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Survivor benefits after ex-spouse's death - will my SS payments increase if I was already collecting on his record?

I've been receiving ex-spousal Social Security benefits since I turned 62 (about 4 years ago). My ex started his benefits when he was around 64. We were married for 22 years before divorcing in 2005. I just found out he passed away last week, and I'm wondering if my monthly benefit amount will automatically increase now? Currently getting about $1,275/month based on his earnings record. I'm not sure if survivor benefits for an ex-spouse work differently than spousal benefits, or if they're even available since I'm already collecting. Does anyone know if I need to contact SSA about this or will they automatically adjust my payment? Thanks for any guidance on this confusing situation.

Yes, your benefits should increase. When you're already receiving divorced spouse benefits and your ex passes away, you become eligible for surviving divorced spouse benefits which are higher - up to 100% of what your ex-husband was receiving (instead of the 50% maximum for divorced spouse benefits). Since you started benefits early at 62, you'll receive a reduced amount, but it should still be more than you're getting now. The SSA won't automatically switch you - you need to call and apply for the survivor benefits. Bring his death certificate when you go to the office.

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Thank you! So I definitely need to contact them? I wasn't sure if they'd automatically know since I'm already in their system as his ex-spouse. Do you know approximately how much more I might receive? I'm trying to plan my budget for the next few months.

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my mom went through this last year. they DONT automatically switch u over!! u gotta call them and tell them he died. bring death certificate. she got like 60% more $ after they changed it to survivor benefits but she waited 3 months to tell them and they wouldnt backdate it!!!

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Oh no! I'm sorry your mom lost out on those months of higher payments. I'll definitely call right away then. Did they process her increase quickly once she provided the death certificate?

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took about 4 weeks to get the new payment. first one was bigger cuz they paid the difference for that month too. make sure u call ASAP!!

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Sorry for your loss. I was in a similar situation and yes, you should see an increase. The survivor benefit is based on 100% of what he was receiving rather than the spousal benefit which is only 50%. But since you took benefits early at 62, you'll get a reduced amount - I think around 71.5% of his full benefit. Still more than what you're getting now though!

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This isn't entirely accurate. The reduction for taking survivor benefits early is different than for regular retirement benefits. At age 66 (assuming that's her FRA), she would get 100% of his benefit. At 62, it would be reduced to 71.5% as you mentioned. But since she's now 66, she might be able to get close to the full 100%, depending on when exactly she started benefits and her exact age now.

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The Social Security Administration doesn't automatically know when your ex passes away, so you DEFINITELY need to contact them. When I tried calling the national 800 number last month about my own benefits, I was on hold for over 2 HOURS and then got disconnected!!! TWICE!!! So frustrating. I finally used this service called Claimyr (claimyr.com) that got me connected to an agent in about 15 minutes. They have a video showing how it works: https://youtu.be/Z-BRbJw3puU. Saved me so much time and frustration. For something important like survivor benefits, you really need to talk to someone quickly.

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Thank you for the suggestion! I was worried about the wait times. I'll check out that service if I can't get through tomorrow morning. Did you find the SSA agent helpful once you got connected?

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Yes, once I actually got through to a person, they were quite helpful. Just getting to that point was the nightmare. The agent walked me through everything I needed. For your situation, you'll definitely want your marriage certificate, divorce decree, and his death certificate ready when you call.

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I went through exactly this when my ex died in 2023. You WON'T get 100% of his benefit because you took benefits early at 62. The reduction is permanent. But you WILL get more than your current divorced spouse benefit. When my ex died, my payment went from $1,380 to $2,150 per month, which was life-changing! Call them ASAP because they won't pay retroactively beyond 6 months, so any delay means losing money you deserve.

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That's a significant increase! Did they process your claim quickly? I've heard horror stories about survivor benefit applications taking months.

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It took about 4 weeks for everything to be processed. The key was having all my documents ready - marriage certificate, divorce papers, death certificate. Don't let them tell you that you need the original death certificate though! A certified copy is fine, despite what some representatives might say.

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There's a lot of misinformation here. Let me clarify: As a surviving divorced spouse, you're eligible for the same survivor benefits as a widow if you were married for at least 10 years (you were married 22 years, so you qualify). Since you're already receiving benefits on his record, the SSA should be notified of his death to convert your benefit to a survivor benefit. Important: The survivor benefit can be up to 100% of what he was receiving, but since you claimed at 62, you'll receive a reduced amount. The reduction for survivor benefits is about 28.5% if claimed at 62, so you'd get about 71.5% of his full benefit. However, since you're now 66, the reduction may be less severe depending on your exact age. I strongly recommend scheduling an appointment with your local SSA office. Bring your marriage certificate, divorce decree, and his death certificate. They'll calculate the exact amount based on your specific situation.

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Thank you for such detailed information! This is very helpful. I'll gather those documents and contact my local office. Do you know if I'm able to switch to my own retirement benefit later if it would be higher than the reduced survivor benefit? I worked for about 30 years myself.

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Yes, you can switch between benefits. If your own retirement benefit would eventually be higher than the survivor benefit (especially as it grows with delayed retirement credits), you can switch to your own benefit later. This is one of the few remaining claiming strategies after the 2015 law changes. I suggest asking the SSA representative to calculate both scenarios for you when you meet with them.

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I had to deal with this last year and wish someone had told me this: RECORD THE DATE YOU FIRST REPORT THE DEATH!!! SSA backdate payments to when you first report, not when they process the claim. I lost 2 months of higher payments because I couldn't prove when I first called. And yes, your payment will go up substantially.

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That's really good advice - I wouldn't have thought of that. I'll definitely document everything, including when I call. Thank you!

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wait i just realized something does anybody know if she has to pay back the benefits she already got this month??? my cousin said something about how they make u pay back the month someone dies but im not sure if thats true for ex spouses???

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Good question. For survivor benefits, SSA pays benefits for the month of death, but not for any months after that until you apply for survivor benefits. Since she was already receiving divorced spouse benefits on his record, she wouldn't need to repay anything - her benefit will simply convert to the higher survivor benefit once she notifies them and applies. The payment rules are different for retirement benefits versus survivor benefits.

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Has anyone mentioned that you need to apply within 60 days? My sister waited too long and had issues. And don't forget there's a one-time death benefit of $255 you might be eligible for too!

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The 60-day rule isn't accurate for survivor benefits. You can apply for survivor benefits up to 6 months retroactively. However, waiting longer means potentially losing months of higher payments. As for the $255 death benefit, that typically goes to a current spouse or dependent children, not an ex-spouse (even a surviving divorced spouse).

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