Quitting job due to no childcare in 2025 - can I get NY unemployment benefits?
I had to quit my job back in March because my kids' school closed down and I literally had no childcare options available. I've been surviving on savings but it's getting really tough now. I just finally got a questionnaire from NY unemployment yesterday and submitted it through the online portal. Does anyone know if I'll actually qualify for benefits since I technically quit? The questionnaire asked about my reason for leaving and I explained the childcare situation in detail. How long does it usually take them to make a decision after you submit this form? I'm getting really anxious waiting.
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Oliver Fischer
they usually deny anyone who quits first time around. you'll probably need to appeal.
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Amina Sy
Seriously? Even with the childcare situation? That's so frustrating. How long does the appeal process take?
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Natasha Ivanova
Under New York unemployment law, quitting for childcare reasons can actually be considered good cause if you had no reasonable alternatives. The key factors they look at are: 1. Did you try to find alternative childcare arrangements? 2. Did you discuss options with your employer like flexible scheduling or remote work? 3. Was the school closing truly unexpected and beyond your control? Make sure all of this information was clearly explained in your questionnaire. After submitting, decisions typically take 2-3 weeks, but the system is experiencing delays in 2025, so it might be longer. Don't get discouraged if your initial claim is denied - about 60% of childcare-related quits need to go through appeal, where they have a much higher success rate.
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Amina Sy
Thank you for this detailed response! Yes, I did try finding alternative childcare but everything was either full or way too expensive (like $2,400/month for two kids). I talked to my boss about working from home but my job required physical presence. I'll make sure to gather documentation showing I tried these options in case I need to appeal.
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NebulaNomad
I had almost the exact same situation last year! Got denied first time, then filed an appeal and finally got approved. The key was proving I had no reasonable alternatives. Good luck!!
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Amina Sy
That gives me hope! How long did your appeal process take?
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NebulaNomad
took about 5 wks from filing appeal to decision. not quick but worth it.
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Javier Garcia
I went through this EXACT situation and got denied initially even though I explained EVERYTHING about my childcare situation!!!! The system is rigged against parents I swear. What worked for me was I called and called and CALLED until I finally got through to someone who actually understood my situation and helped me navigate the appeal. But it took DAYS of calling and getting disconnected or waiting for hours!!!!
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Emma Taylor
I had the same frustrating experience trying to reach someone! After 2 days of constant calling and getting nowhere, I used a service called Claimyr (claimyr.com) that got me connected to an actual agent in about 20 minutes. They have this system that basically waits on hold for you and calls when an agent is available. Saved me hours of frustration and the agent I spoke with helped me understand exactly what documentation I needed for my appeal. They have a video showing how it works: https://youtu.be/Rdqa1gKtxuE - definitely worth checking out if you're struggling to get through on the phones.
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Emma Taylor
For documentation, I had to provide: 1) email exchanges with my employer about scheduling flexibility, 2) quotes/waitlist confirmation from childcare providers showing unavailability or prohibitive cost, and 3) the school closure notice. The more evidence you have that you exhausted all reasonable options, the better your chances on appeal.
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Malik Robinson
my sister works for nysdol and says childcare cases are getting reviewed faster now in 2025 cuz they changed the process. maybe you'll get lucky and get approved first try.
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Amina Sy
That would be amazing! I really hope you're right about that.
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Isabella Silva
In my experience, decision timeline varies widely. After submitting my questionnaire last month, I received a determination in just 8 days. However, my neighbor submitted hers around the same time and is still waiting. There seems to be little consistency in processing times. Make sure to continue certifying weekly even while waiting for a decision.
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Amina Sy
Wait, I should be certifying weekly already? Even before they've made a decision on my eligibility? I didn't know that!
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Isabella Silva
Yes, absolutely! You need to certify for every week you want to claim benefits, even while your eligibility is being determined. If you're eventually approved, they'll release payments for all properly certified weeks. If you don't certify, you won't receive benefits for those weeks even if your claim is ultimately approved.
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Javier Garcia
Omg I'm getting so ANGRY just reading this thread because it brings back all the frustration I went through!!! The questionnaire is DESIGNED to trip you up! Make sure you emphasize that you had NO REASONABLE ALTERNATIVES and that you would have continued working if childcare was available!!! Their whole system is built to find reasons to deny you!!!
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Natasha Ivanova
One more thing to consider: the questionnaire responses are crucial. If you've already submitted it, you may want to follow up by uploading additional documentation to your claim file through your online account. Include anything that proves: 1. The school closure notification 2. Emails/communications with potential childcare providers showing unavailability 3. Cost estimates that show childcare would have been financially unfeasible 4. Any communication with your employer about your situation before quitting Being proactive with documentation often helps avoid the initial denial that many experience. And as others mentioned, absolutely continue certifying weekly while you wait.
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Amina Sy
This is really helpful advice. I'll gather all this documentation tonight and upload it tomorrow. Thankfully I kept all the emails from my job and the schools. Should I also write a letter explaining everything in more detail or just upload the documents?
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Natasha Ivanova
A brief cover letter explaining how each document supports your case would be very helpful. Keep it concise but comprehensive - timeline of events, options you explored, and why each alternative wasn't viable. This gives the claims examiner context for all the documentation you're providing.
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Oliver Fischer
just wondering... did u try asking family for help with kids before quitting? they sometimes ask about that.
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Amina Sy
Yes, but my parents are elderly and high-risk, and my siblings all work full-time themselves. I mentioned that in my questionnaire too. Did they ask you about family specifically when you applied?
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Oliver Fischer
yep they specifically asked about family members who could've helped. sounds like u covered that base tho. good luck!
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Malik Robinson
my friend quit bcuz of childcare and got approved right away but that was bcuz her kid has special needs so maybe different rules?
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Natasha Ivanova
Based on your situation as described, you have a legitimate case for unemployment benefits under the "good cause" provision. The key is demonstrating that you exhausted all reasonable alternatives before quitting. From what you've shared about attempting to find childcare, discussing options with your employer, and lacking family support options, you've covered the major bases. A final tip: after uploading your documentation, if you don't hear back within 3 weeks, try contacting your state representative's office. They often have liaisons who can inquire about stalled unemployment claims. This frequently results in faster processing.
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Amina Sy
Thank you so much for all your advice. I feel much more prepared now. I'll definitely reach out to my state rep if I don't hear anything in 3 weeks. Really appreciate everyone's help!
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