When should I file my taxes: Before or After my upcoming Marriage?
Hey tax people! So I'm getting married on March 30th this year, and I'm super confused about when I should file my taxes. I've always been pretty on top of getting my taxes done early (usually January or February), but now I'm not sure if I should wait until after the wedding. I know our filing status is based on whether we're married on December 31st, so technically we'd still file as single for 2024 taxes (filing in 2025) since we weren't married last year. But is there any benefit to waiting and filing after the wedding anyway? Or should I just go ahead and file now while I have time? My fiancé is definitely the procrastinator type who always files in April lol. Also, for next year when we do file as married, is it usually better to file jointly or separately? I make about $72,000 and he makes around $58,000 if that matters. No kids yet but we're planning to start trying later this year! Thanks in advance for any advice!
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Javier Cruz
Since your marriage is happening on March 30th this year, your marital status on December 31st of the previous year is what determines your filing status for this filing season. So you're correct - you'll both file as "single" (or "head of household" if either of you qualify) for your 2024 tax returns. There's really no tax benefit to waiting until after your wedding to file. In fact, if you're expecting refunds, filing sooner means getting your money back sooner! The IRS doesn't care about your future marital status for this year's filing. Plus, filing separately now might be simpler than trying to coordinate joint finances right after your wedding when you'll be busy with other things. For next year when you do file as married, typically filing jointly is more beneficial for most couples. With your income levels ($72,000 and $58,000), you'll probably benefit from filing jointly as the tax brackets for "married filing jointly" are more favorable than "married filing separately" in your income range. But there are exceptions - like if one of you has significant medical expenses, student loan payments, or other specific deductions.
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Emma Thompson
•Does it matter if they already live together and share expenses? I thought there might be some benefit to waiting if they're already basically functioning as a household.
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Javier Cruz
•Living together and sharing expenses doesn't impact your tax filing status - the IRS only recognizes your legal marital status as of December 31st of the tax year. Even if you're engaged and living together on December 31st, you still file as single. There's no benefit to waiting to file after the wedding for this year's taxes. Your 2024 return (which you're filing now in 2025) is completely separate from any changes that happen in 2025. The wedding date only matters for next year's taxes.
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Malik Jackson
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Isabella Costa
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StarSurfer
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Malik Jackson
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StarSurfer
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Ravi Malhotra
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Freya Christensen
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StarSurfer
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Ravi Malhotra
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StarSurfer
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Omar Hassan
For what it's worth, my husband and I just went through this exact situation last year. We got married in February but had already done our taxes in January (filed as single). It worked out fine, but we had one small issue - we both got refunds sent to our individual accounts, which was a little awkward since we had just combined finances after the wedding. If you're planning to merge finances after marriage, maybe consider where you want your refunds to go! You can have them direct deposited to any account you choose, so you could send them to a joint account if you already have one set up, even if you're filing as single.
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Natasha Orlova
•That's actually super helpful! We are planning to set up a joint account right after the wedding, but I hadn't thought about the refund issue. Did you have any problems updating your name with the IRS after you got married? I'm taking his last name so I'm a little worried about that process too.
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Omar Hassan
•The name change process wasn't too bad, but make sure you update your name with Social Security first before doing anything with the IRS. The IRS system checks against the Social Security database, so if the names don't match, it can cause processing delays. For the refund situation, you could either wait to file until you have a joint account set up, or you could always have the refund sent to just one of your existing accounts temporarily. Some people even choose to get paper checks for this reason, though that takes longer.
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Chloe Robinson
Just a heads up - one advantage to filing before your wedding is that it's one less thing to worry about when you're dealing with all the post-wedding chaos. My wife and I got married last April and we regretted not filing beforehand because we were so busy with thank you notes, changing names, merging accounts, etc. Also, start gathering documentation now for next year's taxes when you'll file jointly! It's way more complicated combining two people's tax situations. Especially keep track of any wedding-related expenses that might be deductible (rare, but some business-related wedding expenses can be).
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Diego Chavez
•What wedding expenses could possibly be tax deductible??? I've never heard of this!
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