QDOT requirements for greencard holders - will both spouses being non-citizens affect estate tax exemption?
My wife and I are both permanent residents with greencards, not US citizens yet. We've been trying to figure out estate planning and how to minimize the estate tax burden if one of us passes away. From what I've researched, it looks like a Qualified Domestic Trust (QDOT) might not help our situation. It seems QDOT only works if the deceased spouse is a US citizen, which would allow the surviving greencard holder spouse to access the $25.84M estate tax exemption. If we remain greencard holders, it appears the surviving spouse would face estate taxes of up to 40% with only about $175k deductible (practically nothing compared to our assets). Is this massive 40% estate tax hit upon first death unavoidable in our situation? Are there any other estate planning strategies for two greencard holders we should consider? We're not planning to become citizens in the immediate future due to some complications with our home country, but this tax situation seems really concerning.
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Daniel Washington
You're right to be concerned about this situation, but there are some nuances to understand. The QDOT doesn't actually help with accessing the $25.84M exemption amount in the way you're thinking. QDOTs are specifically designed when one spouse is a US citizen and the other is not. The purpose is to defer (not eliminate) estate taxes when assets pass to a non-citizen spouse. What's happening is that normally, there's an unlimited marital deduction for assets passing between spouses - but only when both are US citizens. When the surviving spouse is not a US citizen, that's where the QDOT comes in to defer taxes. In your case, with both spouses being green card holders, you're correct that the exemption is limited. However, it's not just $175k - each non-citizen has access to their own exemption amount (currently about $12.92M per person), but without the spousal transfer benefits citizens enjoy.
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Aurora Lacasse
•Wait, I thought green card holders were considered "domiciled" in the US and therefore subject to the same estate tax rules as citizens? Doesn't the $12.92M exemption apply to residents as well as citizens? The issue is just the marital deduction part, right?
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Daniel Washington
•You're absolutely correct about green card holders being considered "domiciled" in the US for estate tax purposes. Green card holders do receive the full $12.92M exemption amount, just like citizens. The critical difference is the unlimited marital deduction. For US citizens, property passing to a surviving spouse is 100% exempt from estate tax. When the surviving spouse is not a citizen (even with a green card), this unlimited marital deduction doesn't automatically apply. That's the key issue here, not the exemption amount itself.
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Anthony Young
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Admin_Masters
•Sounds interesting but I'm curious - did they suggest any strategies around timing of citizenship application as part of the planning? My spouse and I are considering citizenship specifically because of estate tax issues but not sure if it's worth rushing.
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Anthony Young
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Admin_Masters
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Jeremiah Brown
One option you might consider is life insurance. While it doesn't solve the QDOT issues directly, a properly structured life insurance policy could provide liquid funds to cover estate tax liabilities when one spouse passes. If the policy is owned by an Irrevocable Life Insurance Trust (ILIT), the proceeds could remain outside the taxable estate. This doesn't eliminate the tax, but provides a mechanism to pay it without having to liquidate other assets potentially at unfavorable times. For green card holders with substantial assets, this is often a key component of the estate plan.
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Royal_GM_Mark
•Does putting life insurance in an ILIT work the same way for green card holders as it does for citizens? I've heard there are special rules for trusts established by non-citizens.
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Jeremiah Brown
•For green card holders who are considered domiciled in the US, an ILIT generally works the same way as it does for citizens. The key determination is domicile - meaning you live in the US with the intention to remain indefinitely, which green card holders typically meet. The special rules you're thinking of likely relate to foreign trusts. When a non-US person establishes a trust, there can be complex reporting requirements and tax implications. However, if you're a US domiciliary (green card holder living in the US), a properly structured domestic ILIT should function as it would for a citizen for estate tax purposes.
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Amelia Cartwright
Has anyone looked into whether it's better to just renounce your green cards and go back to a nonresident alien status for estate planning? I know it sounds extreme but if you have significant assets, the estate tax hit as green card holders might be worse than if you were NRAs with primarily foreign assets?
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Chris King
•Careful with that strategy! If you've been a green card holder for 8+ years or have a high net worth, you could face an exit tax when renouncing. The IRS treats long-term residents similar to citizens for expatriation purposes. Also, as an NRA you'd only get a tiny $60,000 exemption for US-situated assets.
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Sergio Neal
The key issue you're facing is that green card holders don't get the unlimited marital deduction that US citizen couples enjoy. However, you do still get the full $12.92M estate tax exemption per person, which is significant. One strategy worth exploring is "equalization" of your estates - restructuring asset ownership so each spouse has roughly equal net worth (ideally under the exemption amount). This way, when the first spouse passes, their assets pass to the surviving spouse without exceeding the exemption limit. You might also consider making annual gifts to each other using the annual exclusion ($17,000 for 2023, $18,000 for 2024) to help balance the estates over time. Since you're married, you can also elect gift splitting to effectively double the annual exclusion amounts. Another option is establishing separate trusts for children or other beneficiaries now, rather than waiting until death. This removes assets from both of your taxable estates entirely while you're both alive to make those decisions together. The timing of citizenship could also be strategic - even if one spouse becomes a citizen, that opens up QDOT planning options for the non-citizen spouse. But as others mentioned, be careful about the exit tax implications if you later change your mind about US tax residency.
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Emma Anderson
This is a complex situation that many green card holders face. One important point to clarify - as permanent residents, you do get the full $12.92M estate tax exemption per person, not just $175k. The real issue is the loss of the unlimited marital deduction between spouses. Consider these strategies: 1. **Estate equalization** - Restructure ownership so each spouse has roughly equal assets under the exemption threshold 2. **Annual gifting** - Use the $18,000 annual exclusion (2024) to rebalance estates over time 3. **Generation-skipping planning** - If you have children, consider trusts that benefit multiple generations 4. **State planning** - Some states have no estate tax, which could influence where you establish domicile The citizenship timing is tricky. Even if just one spouse becomes a citizen, it opens QDOT options for the other. But be aware of potential exit tax consequences if you later renounce. Given the complexity and the amounts involved, I'd strongly recommend working with an estate planning attorney who specializes in non-citizen issues. The strategies available can save hundreds of thousands in taxes, but they need to be implemented correctly.
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Fatima Al-Suwaidi
•This is really helpful information! I'm curious about the state planning aspect you mentioned. Are there specific states that are particularly advantageous for green card holders with estate tax concerns? I know some states don't have estate taxes, but do they treat non-citizen residents differently than citizens for state-level estate planning purposes? Also, regarding the generation-skipping planning - are there any special considerations for green card holders when setting up trusts for children who might be US citizens (if born here) while the parents are still permanent residents?
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Brianna Muhammad
•Great questions! For state planning, states like Florida, Texas, Nevada, and Washington have no state estate tax, which is beneficial regardless of citizenship status. Green card holders are generally treated the same as citizens for state estate tax purposes since they're considered domiciled residents. However, there's an important nuance - some states have different rules for intangible property (like stocks, bonds) owned by non-citizens. For example, certain states may not tax intangible assets of non-residents, but since you're green card holders living in the US, you'd likely be considered residents anyway. Regarding generation-skipping trusts with US citizen children - this actually creates some interesting opportunities! Your children, as US citizens, would have different tax treatment than you as green card holders. You could potentially structure trusts that take advantage of both the generation-skipping transfer tax exemption ($12.92M per person) and the fact that distributions to US citizen beneficiaries don't face the same restrictions as distributions to non-citizen beneficiaries. One strategy is establishing dynasty trusts in states with favorable trust laws (like Delaware or South Dakota) that can benefit multiple generations of your family while removing assets from your taxable estates now. Since your children are citizens, they'd have more flexibility as future trustees or beneficiaries. The key is getting the trust structure right from the beginning - it's much harder to modify these arrangements later.
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Aiden Rodríguez
As someone who went through this exact situation, I want to emphasize that while the estate planning challenges are real, they're definitely manageable with proper planning. My spouse and I were both green card holders with assets well above the exemption threshold, and we were terrified about the potential tax hit. The key insight our estate planning attorney shared was that the problem isn't just about the estate tax itself - it's about liquidity. Even if you face estate tax, having a plan to pay it without forcing asset sales at bad times is crucial. We ended up implementing a combination strategy: life insurance in an ILIT (as Jeremiah mentioned), annual gifting to equalize our estates, and establishing trusts for our children early. The life insurance was particularly important because it provided guaranteed liquidity to cover any estate tax liability. One thing I wish someone had told us earlier - don't wait too long to start the gifting strategy. We could have saved significantly more in taxes if we had started the annual exclusion gifts and estate equalization process years earlier. The earlier you start, the more you can move out of the taxable estate over time. Also, consider the practical aspects beyond just tax planning. Make sure you have updated beneficiary designations on all accounts, proper powers of attorney, and healthcare directives. These non-tax issues can be just as important for protecting your family.
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Amelia Martinez
•This is exactly the kind of real-world perspective that's so valuable! Thank you for sharing your experience. I'm curious about the timing aspect you mentioned with annual gifting - how many years did it take you to meaningfully rebalance your estates through the annual exclusion strategy? Also, when you mention life insurance in an ILIT providing "guaranteed liquidity," did you structure it so the insurance proceeds would be available immediately upon death, or are there waiting periods or restrictions on how quickly those funds can be accessed to pay estate taxes? I'm trying to understand the practical timeline of how this all works when someone actually passes away. The point about beneficiary designations is really important too - I hadn't thought about how green card status might affect things like 401(k) or IRA beneficiary elections. Are there any special considerations there compared to what citizen couples need to worry about?
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Jackson Carter
This thread has been incredibly helpful - thank you to everyone sharing their experiences and insights. I'm in a similar situation as the original poster, but with an additional complication: we have assets in multiple countries (US, Canada, and the UK) from before we got our green cards. I'm particularly concerned about how international assets factor into the estate tax calculation. From what I understand, as green card holders we're subject to US estate tax on our worldwide assets, not just US-situated property. This seems like it could create a much larger estate tax liability than just our US assets alone. Has anyone dealt with the complexity of foreign assets in their estate planning? I'm wondering if there are tax treaties that might provide some relief, or if we need to consider restructuring how we hold these international investments. Also, I noticed several people mentioned specific services for getting professional help. Given the complexity with international assets, I'm thinking we definitely need expert guidance, but I want to make sure whoever we work with really understands the cross-border implications, not just domestic US estate planning. Any recommendations for finding attorneys who specialize in international estate planning for green card holders specifically?
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