Filing taxes jointly or separately? Which saves more money for married couples?

My husband and I just landed better-paying jobs after struggling financially during our education years, and now we're trying to figure out the smart way to handle our taxes. We got married last year and filed jointly, but I'm wondering if that's actually the best approach for our current situation. Our financial picture looks like this: I'm earning $80k yearly, putting me in the 22% tax bracket (around $60k after taxes). My husband makes $42k yearly, in the 12% bracket (about $36k after taxes). If we file jointly, our combined income would be $122k, which seems to put our whole household in that 22% bracket. After taxes, we'd have roughly $91k. But if we filed separately, I'm calculating we'd have closer to $96k combined after taxes. Am I missing something here? It looks like filing separately would save us nearly $5k in taxes, which would be incredibly helpful since we're trying to buy our first home this year. Are there advantages to filing jointly that I'm not aware of? I'm relatively new to the US tax system (not a citizen originally), so any advice would be really appreciated!

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18 comments

Zoey Bianchi

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I'm a tax preparer, and I think there's a misunderstanding about how tax brackets work. The US has a progressive tax system, meaning you don't pay the same percentage on all your income. Only the portion of income that falls within each bracket gets taxed at that rate. When you file jointly, you'll actually have larger bracket thresholds than filing separately. For 2025, married filing jointly has a standard deduction of around $29,200, while married filing separately is about $14,600 each. Plus, certain tax benefits like education credits, child tax credits, and retirement contribution deductions can be reduced or eliminated when filing separately. In almost all cases, married filing jointly results in equal or lower tax liability. The rare exceptions are usually when one spouse has extraordinary medical expenses, student loan interest deductions in certain situations, or when one spouse has income-based repayment plans for student loans. I'd recommend doing a "test run" calculation both ways before deciding, but be aware that if one of you itemizes deductions when filing separately, the other must also itemize even if the standard deduction would be better.

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Aiden Chen

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Thanks for explaining the progressive tax system - I think I was completely misunderstanding how the brackets work! So just to clarify, even if our combined income puts us in the 22% bracket, we're not paying 22% on all of our income? That makes more sense. What about deductions? We don't have kids yet, but I do have some student loans. And my husband has some medical expenses from a procedure last year. Would those factors potentially make filing separately beneficial?

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Zoey Bianchi

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You're exactly right - you only pay the higher rate on the portion of income that falls into that bracket. For example, in 2025 for married filing jointly, only the income above about $94,300 (up to $201,050) would be taxed at 22%. The income below that is taxed at lower rates. For student loans, you can deduct up to $2,500 in interest when filing jointly if your income is below certain thresholds. For 2025, the deduction starts phasing out at $155,000 and disappears at $185,000 for joint filers. If filing separately, unfortunately, you cannot take this deduction at all - it's completely eliminated. For medical expenses, they need to exceed 7.5% of your adjusted gross income to be deductible. If your husband's expenses are substantial relative to his lower income, filing separately might be beneficial, but you'd need to calculate both scenarios to be certain.

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Christopher Morgan

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Christopher Morgan

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Aurora St.Pierre

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Eli Wang

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Cassandra Moon

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One thing nobody's mentioned yet - if you file separately, you both have to either take the standard deduction OR itemize. You can't have one person itemize and the other take the standard deduction. This rule alone often makes filing separately a bad deal. Also, if you file separately, you can't claim: earned income credit, education credits, child and dependent care credit, and the student loan interest deduction gets completely eliminated. At your income levels, I'd be shocked if filing separately actually saved you money once everything is factored in. The initial calculation looks tempting but the details usually make MFJ better.

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Cassandra Moon

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There isn't a specific income threshold where filing separately automatically makes sense. It's almost always situation-specific rather than income-specific. The most common scenarios where filing separately can be beneficial are: When one spouse has income-based student loan payments, filing separately can sometimes keep those payments lower, which might outweigh the tax benefits of filing jointly. This requires calculating the long-term loan forgiveness benefit versus immediate tax savings. The other main scenario is when one spouse has very high medical expenses compared to their individual income. Since medical expenses must exceed 7.5% of AGI to be deductible, separating incomes can sometimes allow one spouse to exceed that threshold when they couldn't jointly.

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