Do we qualify for $250,000 capital gains tax exemption when selling home after adding my name to title recently?
I've been living in my mom's house for over 10 years, but she only added me to the title and mortgage this past May (about 7 months ago). Now we unexpectedly need to sell the property, and I'm really worried about the $250,000 capital gains tax exemption since I haven't owned the house for the required 2 years, even though I've lived here for a decade. My mom has owned it for over 10 years. Most of the sale proceeds will go toward paying off the mortgage, and we absolutely need whatever's left to buy a smaller place outright with no mortgage. The new property would just be in my name due to my mom's current financial situation. If we get hit with capital gains tax, I honestly don't know how we'll afford it. My mom recently lost her job, and I've been unemployed for quite a while because of health issues. We're in a desperate situation and definitely didn't plan for this to happen. Does anyone know if we can still qualify for the exemption? Or are there other tax options we should consider? We really need advice on how to handle this situation without losing what little money we might have left after selling.
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Brooklyn Knight
The capital gains exclusion for your primary residence has two main requirements - you need to have owned AND lived in the home as your main residence for at least 2 out of the last 5 years before selling. These don't have to be the same 2 years or consecutive. In your situation, your mom clearly meets both requirements (owned and lived there 10+ years). You meet the residency requirement (lived there 10+ years) but not the ownership requirement (only owned since May). However, there's good news! The IRS allows partial exclusion in certain circumstances when you're forced to sell before meeting the 2-year requirement due to unforeseen circumstances like unemployment or health conditions - which you both have experienced. Your mom should definitely qualify for her full $250K exclusion on her portion of the gain. For your portion, you should qualify for a partial exclusion based on how long you've owned it, plus potentially more due to the unforeseen circumstances provision. I'd strongly recommend consulting with a tax professional to properly structure the sale and maximize your exemptions, but there are definitely options available to minimize your tax burden in this situation.
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Owen Devar
•If the mom qualifies for the full $250K exclusion, wouldn't that cover the entire capital gain since they're co-owners? Or does it get split proportionally between them? And what exactly counts as "unforeseen circumstances" for the partial exclusion? Would job loss definitely qualify?
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Brooklyn Knight
•The $250K exclusion applies to each qualified owner individually, but it only applies to their portion of the gain. So if mom owns 50% and the child owns 50%, mom can exclude up to $250K of her portion of the gain, but the child's portion would typically be fully taxable without meeting the 2-year requirement. Unforeseen circumstances specifically include things like job loss, health issues that require selling, and other unexpected life events. Both unemployment and health issues mentioned in the post would likely qualify under IRS rules. The partial exclusion is calculated based on the fraction of the 2-year period that the person owned and used the home, and can be increased when qualifying events are involved.
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Daniel Rivera
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Sophie Footman
•How accurate was it compared to what a CPA would tell you? I'm dealing with a somewhat similar situation (added my son to my house title last year, now considering selling) and wondering if this would be better than paying for a consultation.
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Connor Rupert
•I'm skeptical of these online tools. How does it actually handle the unforeseen circumstances part? That seems really subjective and I'd be worried about triggering an audit.
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Daniel Rivera
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Sophie Footman
Just wanted to follow up about the taxr.ai site someone recommended above. I gave it a try and it was really helpful for my situation with my son on the title! It analyzed our specific scenario based on the timeline of when I added him, ran the numbers for different selling dates, and showed exactly how the partial exemption would work. It also showed us how to document my medical issues as qualifying circumstances. The best part was that it showed us how structuring the sale a certain way would maximize the exemption we'd qualify for. We're actually waiting 3 more months to sell based on the analysis, which will increase our partial exemption significantly. The documentation guidelines it provided are super clear, much better than the confusing IRS publications I was trying to decipher!
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Molly Hansen
If you're going to file for the partial exemption based on unforeseen circumstances, you might need to speak directly with the IRS to verify your specific situation. I tried calling them for weeks about a similar issue last year and could never get through. Eventually found https://claimyr.com (there's a demo video at https://youtu.be/_kiP6q8DX5c) which got me connected to an actual IRS agent in about 15 minutes when I'd been trying for days. Since your situation is somewhat complex with the co-ownership and the partial exemption claims, you might want to speak directly with the IRS before filing. They can tell you exactly what documentation you'll need and how to properly calculate the exclusion in your specific case. When I called, the agent walked me through exactly what forms I needed and how to document my partial exemption claim.
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Brady Clean
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Skylar Neal
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Molly Hansen
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Skylar Neal
I need to eat my words about that Claimyr service. After my skeptical comment I decided to try it anyway because I was desperate to talk to someone at the IRS about my capital gains issue from a house sale. It actually worked! Got a call back in about 35 minutes (was expecting hours) and talked to a really helpful IRS agent who clarified exactly how the partial exemption works in my case. Saved me from making a major filing mistake that would have cost thousands. The agent confirmed that job loss and health issues absolutely qualify as unforeseen circumstances and walked me through exactly what documentation I needed to include with my return. Definitely worth it when dealing with something as potentially expensive as capital gains on a home sale.
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Vincent Bimbach
Something nobody mentioned yet - if your mom is over 55, there's an additional capital gains exemption that might apply in your state (not federal). My parents were in a similar situation and they got additional tax relief through our state's senior property tax programs. Also, make sure you're tracking all the improvements made to the house over the years. Those get added to your cost basis and reduce the taxable gain. Things like a new roof, HVAC, renovations, etc. My parents found almost $43,000 in improvements over the years which significantly reduced their taxable amount.
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Kelsey Chin
•The over 55 exemption was actually replaced by the current system ($250k/$500k exemptions) back in 1997 with the Taxpayer Relief Act. Are there still states that offer this separately from the federal exemption?
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Vincent Bimbach
•Yes, you're right about the federal exemption being replaced. I should have been clearer - several states still offer additional exemptions specifically for seniors. California has Proposition 60/90 that allows seniors to transfer their property tax basis, Massachusetts has specific exemptions for seniors, and New York has Enhanced STAR for homeowners 65+. These aren't direct capital gains exemptions like the federal one, but they can provide significant tax relief in different forms. It varies by state, so it's worth checking local tax programs. The cost basis adjustments for improvements are still valid for everyone though - that part applies federally.
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Norah Quay
Has anyone mentioned the "ownership test" exception? I think there's something where if one spouse meets requirements and the other doesn't, you might still qualify. I know OP isn't talking about spouses, but there might be a similar provision for family members? Not sure tho.
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Leo McDonald
•That exception only applies to married couples filing jointly, not to parent/child situations. However, there is an important consideration here - if the mom was the sole owner before adding the child to the deed, the capital gain is calculated differently than if they purchased it together initially.
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Kara Yoshida
One thing that might help your situation is the "step-up in basis" rule if your mom passes away while you still own the property together. I know that's not something anyone wants to think about, but it's important to understand all your options given your difficult financial situation. Also, have you considered doing a 1031 exchange? If you're buying another property immediately, you might be able to defer the capital gains entirely. The new property would need to be of equal or greater value and you'd have strict timing requirements (45 days to identify replacement property, 180 days to close), but it could completely eliminate your current tax burden. Given that you mentioned you're planning to buy a smaller place outright, this might not work since you'd need to reinvest all the proceeds, but it's worth exploring with a tax professional. Sometimes restructuring the timing of purchases can save significant tax dollars. The unemployment and health issues you mentioned should definitely qualify for the unforeseen circumstances exception. Make sure you document everything - medical records, unemployment benefits, job loss documentation, etc. The IRS is generally sympathetic to these situations when properly documented.
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Abby Marshall
•The 1031 exchange is an interesting idea, but I'm not sure it would work in their situation since they specifically mentioned needing to downsize to a smaller, less expensive property. Don't you have to buy equal or greater value property for a 1031 to work? If they're selling a larger home to buy something smaller and cheaper, wouldn't that disqualify them from using this strategy? Also, regarding the step-up in basis - that's definitely something to keep in mind for estate planning, but given their immediate need to sell, it might not be practical advice for their current crisis. Though you're absolutely right about documenting everything for the unforeseen circumstances exception - that documentation could be crucial for maximizing their partial exemption.
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