Can I qualify for EITC if married filing separately with spouse living abroad?
Hi everyone, I'm in a bit of a tax situation and could use some advice. I currently earn about $32k annually and have one dependent child living with me full-time. My husband is not a US citizen and doesn't have an ITIN, so when filing taxes, I've been using the NRA (Non-Resident Alien) designation in place of a SSN and filing as Married Filing Separately (MFS). We've been physically separated this entire year - I'm living in California while he's been in his home country. I've been reading online that I might still qualify for the Earned Income Tax Credit (EITC) because we've been living apart for the last 6+ months of 2023. Does anyone know if this is accurate? And if so, which online tax software would actually let me file with this somewhat unusual situation? Most of the platforms I've looked at seem to automatically disqualify EITC when selecting MFS status without asking about the separation. Thanks in advance for any help!
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Demi Lagos
You're on the right track! The IRS does have an exception that might apply to your situation. Generally, you can't claim EITC if your filing status is Married Filing Separately. However, there's a special rule if you meet certain requirements. If you lived apart from your spouse for the last 6 months of the tax year (so July through December 2023), AND you have a qualifying dependent living with you for more than half the year, then you might qualify for EITC even with MFS status. The IRS considers this similar to being a head of household for EITC purposes. As for tax software, you might have trouble with the most basic versions since this is a bit of a special case. I've found TaxSlayer and H&R Block's deluxe or premium versions usually handle these situations better than the free versions. TurboTax also works but might require their Deluxe or Premier version to properly address your situation. Just make sure you can document that separation period if needed!
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Mason Lopez
•Thanks for the explanation! I'm in a somewhat similar situation, but my spouse has been gone for only 5 months. Does that mean I don't qualify at all, or is there some partial credit available?
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Demi Lagos
•Unfortunately, the IRS rule is pretty specific about the 6-month requirement - it needs to be the last 6 months of the tax year specifically. If your spouse was only gone for 5 months, you wouldn't meet that particular exception for claiming EITC while filing as Married Filing Separately. There isn't a partial credit available in this case - it's either you qualify by meeting all the requirements or you don't. However, you might want to look into whether you qualify for other credits or deductions, like the Child Tax Credit, which has different rules.
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Vera Visnjic
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Jake Sinclair
•Does taxr.ai work for other unusual tax situations too? I'm self-employed with a side gig and always worried I'm missing deductions I could be taking.
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Brielle Johnson
•How does it compare to TurboTax? I've used that for years but they always seem to miss things when my situation gets complicated. Are there actual humans reviewing your stuff or is it all AI?
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Vera Visnjic
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Jake Sinclair
Just wanted to update you all after trying out taxr.ai that was mentioned earlier. I was skeptical at first but decided to give it a shot with my complicated filing situation (I have the spouse abroad situation too). The site actually identified that I was eligible for EITC even with MFS status due to the separation rules, which saved me almost $3,000! The document analyzer caught that I'd been paying for childcare with no credit for it, and walked me through exactly how to file with TaxSlayer to make sure I got everything right. What really surprised me was how it flagged a potential audit risk with how I was documenting my spouse's foreign status. It gave me specific guidance on what additional documentation to keep on hand just in case. Definitely worth checking out if you're in a similar boat!
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Honorah King
I was in almost the exact same situation last year and spent HOURS trying to get someone at the IRS to explain whether I qualified for EITC. Kept getting disconnected or waiting forever. Finally discovered https://claimyr.com which got me through to an actual IRS agent in about 20 minutes instead of the 2+ hour waits I was getting before. The agent confirmed that yes, I could claim EITC with MFS status because of the 6+ month separation, and explained exactly what I needed to document. You can see how the service works in this video: https://youtu.be/_kiP6q8DX5c For tax software, I ended up using FreeTaxUSA's paid version which let me override some of the automatic MFS restrictions after I confirmed my eligibility with the IRS.
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Oliver Brown
•Wait, you can actually get through to a real person at the IRS? I thought that was impossible these days. How does that Claimyr thing actually work? Seems too good to be true.
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Mary Bates
•Sounds like a scam to me. Why would I need to pay some third party to call the IRS? Couldn't I just keep calling myself until I get through?
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Honorah King
•It's definitely real! The way it works is they basically navigate the IRS phone tree for you and stay on hold in your place, then call you when a real agent is about to come on the line. So instead of you sitting on hold for hours, their system does it for you. You absolutely could just keep calling yourself, but in my experience, that meant multiple attempts with 1-2 hour holds each time (usually getting disconnected). I tried for three days straight before giving up and trying Claimyr. With three young kids, I just couldn't sit on hold for hours on end. The time saved was worth it for me.
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Mary Bates
Ok I need to publicly eat my words about Claimyr being a scam. After my skeptical comment earlier, I decided to try it anyway because I was desperate to talk to someone about my EITC question with an international spouse. It actually worked exactly as described. I got a call back in about 35 minutes with an IRS agent on the line ready to talk. The agent confirmed that I DO qualify for EITC with my MFS status because my spouse and I lived apart the last 6 months of the year AND I have a qualifying dependent. The agent also told me that TaxAct and FreeTaxUSA both have options that can handle my situation, which saved me from buying the expensive TurboTax version. Saved time AND money!
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Clay blendedgen
Just to add one more data point - I was in this exact situation (NRA spouse, living apart, MFS, with dependents). I used TaxAct and it worked perfectly for me. When you get to the filing status part, select MFS but then it should ask if you lived apart from your spouse for the last 6 months of the year. Make sure you select "yes" to that question. Same with the dependent questions - be sure to indicate that the child lived with you more than half the year. The software was smart enough to then apply the EITC rules correctly. I got audited one year and had documentation of my spouse living abroad (his foreign tax returns, rental agreement, utility bills in his name, etc.) and it was approved without issue.
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Saanvi Krishnaswami
•Thank you so much for this specific advice! When you got audited, did they specifically ask for documentation proving the separation, or was it more about proving your dependent status? I'm trying to figure out what paperwork I should be gathering now just in case.
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Clay blendedgen
•They asked for both! They wanted proof that my dependent lived with me (school records, medical records, etc.), AND they wanted evidence that my spouse and I were truly living separately for the last 6 months of the year. For the separation evidence, I provided my spouse's foreign tax returns showing he paid taxes in another country, his rental agreement overseas dated before July, utility bills in his name at the foreign address, and employment records showing he worked abroad. I also had some flight information showing when he left the US. The more documentation you can gather, the better!
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Ayla Kumar
I know everyone's talking about software, but has anyone considered just going to a tax professional for this? I had a similar situation with an NRA spouse and EITC questions, and I went to a local enrolled agent who specialized in international tax situations. Cost me about $250 but they knew exactly how to handle it, got me maximum credits, and provided a letter to include with my return explaining the EITC exception. Well worth the money for peace of mind, especially if you're worried about potential audits.
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Lorenzo McCormick
•I second this! I tried doing it myself with software for two years and missed out on credits I could have claimed. A professional who knows international situations is worth every penny. Plus, when the IRS sent me a letter questioning my EITC claim, my tax pro handled the response for free as part of their service.
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Mason Lopez
•Is there a specific certification or credential I should look for when finding someone who specializes in these international situations? There are so many "tax preparers" out there and I don't want to end up with someone who just knows the basics.
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