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Ethan Brown

Can I Claim Business Expense Deduction for Going to Wedding of Major Client's CEO's Son?

So my business partners and I are in this awkward situation. The son of the CEO at one of our biggest clients is tying the knot next month, and we've all received invitations. The CEO has made it pretty clear he "expects" us to be there... and honestly, we're only going to keep the client happy and hopefully secure more business with them down the road. We're trying to figure out what we can legitimately deduct as business expenses since this is 100% a business relationship thing: - The travel costs (it's about 4 hours away in another state) - Hotel stays for the weekend - Wedding gifts (which we know need to be pretty substantial given the client's importance) This feels like an "ordinary and necessary" business expense to maintain this critical relationship, but I wanted to check before we try deducting these costs. Or will our business just have to absorb these expenses? Thanks for any advice you tax pros might have!

Yuki Yamamoto

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This is actually a common question for business owners! The IRS does allow deductions for "ordinary and necessary" business expenses, but there are some nuances here. For the travel and accommodations - these would generally be deductible if the primary purpose is business. Since you're explicitly going to maintain a client relationship, these costs should qualify as long as you document the business purpose. For the wedding gift - this falls under business gifts, which have a $25 limit per recipient per year. So you can only deduct up to $25 for the wedding gift, regardless of how much you actually spend. The key here is good documentation. Keep records showing the business relationship, the necessity of attending, and how this relates to your business income. I'd recommend creating a memo explaining the business purpose and keeping it with your receipts.

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Carmen Ortiz

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Wait, only $25 for the gift deduction?? That seems ridiculously low for what a "nice" wedding gift would cost, especially for an important client relationship. Is there any way around this limit? Like could we consider it entertainment or something else?

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Yuki Yamamoto

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The $25 limitation is specifically for business gifts, and unfortunately it hasn't been adjusted for inflation in decades. You're right that it's low compared to what appropriate gifts cost today. You cannot reclassify it as entertainment since the Tax Cuts and Jobs Act eliminated most business entertainment deductions. However, if you're giving something with your company logo prominently displayed, that could potentially be considered advertising rather than a gift. Also, if you're invited to the wedding as a business contact and attend the reception where food and drinks are served, your attendance might qualify under business meal deductions (which are 50% deductible) rather than gifts.

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Something nobody's mentioned yet - if multiple people from your company attend, each person can give a $25 deductible gift. So if three partners go, that's a $75 deduction. Not huge but better than just $25. Also, consider if there's a business meeting you could schedule while you're in town for the wedding. If you conduct actual business during the trip (separate from the wedding), it strengthens your case for the travel deductions.

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Ethan Brown

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That's a great idea about scheduling an actual business meeting while we're there. We could probably meet with some of the client's team the day before or after the wedding. Would that help with deducting more of the hotel costs too?

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Yes, scheduling a legitimate business meeting strengthens your case for deducting the hotel costs. Just make sure to document the business meeting thoroughly - agenda, minutes, who attended, what was discussed, etc. The key is that a significant purpose of the trip needs to be business. The wedding alone might qualify since you're attending to maintain an important client relationship, but adding a formal business meeting makes it even clearer. If the trip is primarily for business, your lodging and travel should be fully deductible for the business days and the wedding day.

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Amara Chukwu

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Don't forget to track your meals separately! Business meals are 50% deductible (assuming you're discussing business during the meals outside of the wedding itself). The wedding reception meal would not be deductible as a business meal though, since that's part of the event you're attending.

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Actually, I'm pretty sure wedding meals aren't deductible at all because they're considered entertainment, and the Tax Cuts and Jobs Act eliminated entertainment deductions. Right?

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Also, document EVERYTHING. Take notes about business conversations you have at the wedding. Save the invitation showing it's the CEO's son. Keep all receipts. If you get audited, having solid documentation of the business purpose will be critical. The IRS tends to scrutinize these kinds of expenses.

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Great question! I deal with similar situations regularly in my practice. A few additional considerations beyond what others have mentioned: Make sure to keep the wedding invitation as documentation - it shows you were specifically invited due to your business relationship. Also, consider having a brief follow-up meeting or call with the client after the wedding to discuss any business topics that came up during conversations at the event. This helps establish that business discussions actually occurred. One thing I'd add about the gift situation - if you're giving cash or a check, that's clearly subject to the $25 limit. But if you're contributing to a honeymoon fund or registry item, the deduction treatment might be different. The key is whether it's considered a "gift" versus some other type of business expense. Also, don't forget to prorate your hotel costs if you extend the stay for personal reasons. Only the nights directly related to the business purpose (wedding + any business meetings) would be deductible. The documentation suggestions from others are spot-on - this is exactly the type of expense the IRS scrutinizes, so having a clear paper trail showing the business necessity is crucial.

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This is really helpful guidance! I'm curious about the honeymoon fund/registry contribution point you mentioned. How would that be treated differently from a traditional gift? Would it still fall under the $25 business gift limitation, or could it potentially be classified as something else entirely? I've seen more couples doing online registries and honeymoon funds lately, so understanding the tax treatment would be valuable for future client events too.

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