At what age are your children not able to be claimed as dependents on taxes?
Hey everyone, I'm trying to figure out this tax situation with my older kids. I have three children (19, 21, and 23) and I'm not sure if I can still claim them as dependents on my taxes this year. The oldest two are in college - one full-time and one part-time while working. The 19-year-old just started working full-time but still lives at home with me. I provide more than half of their support for all of them (housing, food, insurance, some tuition). I've heard different things from friends about age limits and income requirements. Some say it's 19, others say 24 if they're in school? I tried looking it up online but got confused with all the different rules about qualifying child vs qualifying relative. Does anyone know the cutoff age when I can no longer claim them? Also, does their income affect whether I can claim them or not? Filing season is coming up soon and I need to figure this out. Thanks!
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Dylan Wright
The age rules for claiming dependents can definitely be confusing! Here's a breakdown: For a qualifying child, they must be under 19 at the end of the tax year OR under 24 if they're a full-time student for at least 5 months of the year. There's no age limit for permanently disabled dependents. Based on what you shared, your 19 and 21-year-old could qualify if they're full-time students, but your 23-year-old would only qualify if they're also a full-time student. Besides age, they need to live with you for more than half the year (dorms during college count as living with you), you need to provide more than half their support, and they can't file a joint return except to claim a refund. There are income tests too, but they mainly affect whether the child needs to file their own return, not whether you can claim them. If they don't qualify as a child dependent, they might qualify as a relative dependent if their gross income is below $5,000 (for 2025 filing) and you provide more than half their support.
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NebulaKnight
•What if my son is 22 and in college but he made about $14,000 last year from his part-time job? Does that income disqualify him even though I'm paying for his tuition and housing?
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Dylan Wright
•For a qualifying child, there isn't actually an income limit that would disqualify them. The income test only determines whether they need to file their own tax return. As long as your 22-year-old is a full-time student for at least 5 months of the year, lives with you more than half the year (again, college housing counts), and you provide more than half their total support, you can still claim them regardless of their $14,000 income. The income limit of $5,000 I mentioned only applies if you're trying to claim someone as a "qualifying relative" rather than a "qualifying child." So your son's earnings don't prevent you from claiming him as a dependent.
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Sofia Ramirez
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Dmitry Popov
•Does it work for complicated situations? My daughter is 20, in college but only part-time (9 credits), lives with me, and I pay for everything except her car. Would this tool help figure out if she qualifies?
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Ava Rodriguez
•I'm hesitant about uploading my documents to random websites. How secure is this? Do they store your tax information after analyzing it?
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Sofia Ramirez
•It absolutely works for complicated situations like yours. The tool has a specific section for education credits and dependent status where you can input exact credit hours, living situation, and support provided. It'll walk you through whether your daughter meets the tests for either qualifying child or qualifying relative status. Regarding security concerns, I was worried about that too initially. They use bank-level encryption and don't permanently store your documents after analysis. Their privacy policy explains that they analyze the documents and then delete them from their servers after a short period. I was comfortable with it after reading about their security measures.
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Dmitry Popov
Update on my dependent situation: I ended up trying taxr.ai after asking about it here. You guys were right, it was super helpful! I plugged in all my daughter's info (the part-time student I asked about) and it confirmed I could still claim her since she met the qualifying relative test even though she didn't meet the full-time student requirement for a qualifying child. The tool flagged that she was taking 9 credits (not enough for full-time) but then walked me through the other tests and showed I was providing over 80% of her support. It even calculated the education credits I qualified for with her tuition! Definitely made things clearer than the IRS website did.
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Miguel Ortiz
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Miguel Ortiz
If you're still struggling with dependent questions, you might need to just call the IRS directly. I tried for WEEKS to get through to someone about my dependent situation (my stepson who lives with us part-time). I finally used this service called Claimyr (https://claimyr.com) that got me connected to an actual IRS agent in about 15 minutes instead of waiting for hours. They have a demo video showing how it works: https://youtu.be/_kiP6q8DX5c The IRS agent was able to review my specific situation and confirm that I could claim my stepson since I had custody for the majority of the year and provided more support than his other parent. Just
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Zainab Khalil
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QuantumQuest
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Miguel Ortiz
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QuantumQuest
Ok I need to eat my words about Claimyr. After posting that skeptical comment, I was still stuck with my dependent question (my 23-year-old disabled daughter who lives with me but received some social security income), so I figured what the heck and tried it. It actually worked exactly like they said. I got a call back in about 20 minutes saying they had an IRS agent on the line. The agent confirmed that my daughter qualifies as a dependent regardless of her age because of her disability, and that her social security income doesn't count toward the support test. This was after I had tried calling the regular way 4 separate times and never getting through. So yeah, I was wrong. It's definitely worth it if you have a complicated tax situation and need an official answer.
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Connor Murphy
One thing nobody's mentioned yet - if your child is on the borderline of qualifying, be careful about filing early. I claimed my 22-year-old son last year but then he filed his own return and claimed himself as independent without telling me. The IRS rejected my e-filed return and I had to file a paper return with documentation showing I provided most of his support. Huge headache that took months to resolve.
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Yara Haddad
•Did you have to file an amended return? I'm worried about this because my son is 23 and graduating college this year, but he thinks he should file as independent even though I pay his tuition and housing.
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Connor Murphy
•I didn't have to file an amended return since my original e-file was rejected. I just had to submit a paper return with documentation showing I provided over half his support (paid receipts for tuition, rent, insurance, etc.). The IRS eventually approved my claim, but it delayed my refund by about 3 months. You should definitely talk to your son before either of you file. Explain that whoever provides more than half the support gets the dependency deduction. If he files as independent and you try to claim him, one of you will need to file an amended return, and the IRS might audit to determine who's correct.
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Keisha Robinson
I just want to clarify something important about college students - the 5 month full-time requirement doesn't mean they need to be in school during the tax year for 5 months straight. It means they need to be enrolled full-time for what their school considers 5 months of the year (usually parts of 2 semesters). Also, make sure you're tracking ALL support - not just big items like tuition and housing. Things like health insurance, car insurance, cell phone plans, medical expenses, clothing, and food all count toward the support test. Parents often provide way more than they initially calculate.
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Paolo Conti
•Does scholarship money count toward the support test? My daughter got a partial scholarship that covers about 40% of her tuition. Does that mean I'm not providing enough support since I only pay the other 60% plus her housing and expenses?
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Ava Johnson
•Scholarship money generally doesn't count as support provided by your daughter - it's considered third-party support. What matters for the support test is comparing how much YOU provided versus how much SHE provided for herself. So if you're paying 60% of tuition plus housing, food, insurance, etc., you're likely still providing more than half of her total support even with the scholarship covering the other 40% of tuition. The scholarship actually helps your case since it means your daughter isn't using her own money to support herself!
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Gabriel Freeman
This is such a helpful thread! I'm in a similar situation with my 20-year-old daughter who's in her sophomore year of college. She's full-time (taking 15 credits per semester) and I pay for her tuition, room and board, health insurance, and give her spending money. She works about 10 hours a week at the campus bookstore making maybe $3,000-4,000 per year. Based on what everyone's shared here, it sounds like I should be able to claim her as a dependent since she's under 24, is a full-time student, I provide way more than half her support, and she lives in the dorms (which counts as living with me). Her small income from the campus job shouldn't disqualify her from being my dependent, right? I'm planning to use some of the tools mentioned here like taxr.ai to double-check everything before I file. Thanks everyone for breaking down these confusing rules so clearly!
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Admin_Masters
•Yes, you're absolutely right! Your daughter definitely qualifies as your dependent based on what you've described. She meets all the criteria for a qualifying child: under 24 and a full-time student, lives with you (dorms count), and you clearly provide more than half her support. Her campus job income won't disqualify her at all - there's no income limit for qualifying children. Just make sure to keep good records of all the support you provide (tuition payments, room & board receipts, insurance premiums, etc.) in case you ever need to document it. And definitely coordinate with your daughter before filing to make sure she doesn't accidentally claim herself as independent on her own return if she needs to file one. That's been a common issue mentioned in this thread! Using taxr.ai sounds like a smart move to verify everything. Your situation seems pretty straightforward though - you should have no problem claiming her as a dependent.
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Daniel Rogers
Great thread everyone! I've been dealing with similar confusion about my twin 20-year-olds. One is in college full-time and the other took a gap year to work full-time (making about $25k). I provide housing, food, insurance, and other support for both. From reading all your responses, it sounds like I can definitely claim my college student since she meets the under-24 full-time student rule. But I'm still unclear about my working son - he's under 19 so he should qualify as a qualifying child regardless of his income, right? Or does the fact that he's making $25k change things? Also want to echo what others said about coordination - I learned the hard way last year when one of them filed independently without telling me first. Had to sort out that mess with the IRS for months! Now we have a family meeting before tax season to make sure we're all on the same page about who's claiming what.
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NeonNinja
•Actually, there's a small correction needed here - your working son is 20, not under 19, so he doesn't automatically qualify as a qualifying child based on age alone. Since he's not in college, he would need to meet the "qualifying relative" test instead. For qualifying relative status, his $25k income would actually disqualify him since the gross income limit is only $5,000 for 2025 filing. Even though you provide housing and other support, that income threshold is a hard cutoff for qualifying relatives. So you're right about your college daughter - she definitely qualifies under the student rules. But unfortunately your working son's income puts him over the limit for you to claim him as a dependent, even though you're supporting him. It's one of those frustrating tax situations where providing support doesn't always mean you can claim the dependency exemption. Good call on the family tax meetings though! That coordination step is so important to avoid the IRS headaches.
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Aria Khan
Just wanted to add something that might help with record keeping - I use a simple spreadsheet to track all the support I provide for my college kids throughout the year. I have columns for tuition payments, housing costs, insurance premiums, medical expenses, food/groceries, transportation, and miscellaneous expenses like clothing or textbooks. It's been super helpful when tax time comes around because I can quickly add everything up and see that I'm providing way more than 50% of their support. Plus if the IRS ever questions it, I have all the documentation organized in one place with dates and amounts. I also take photos of major receipts and store them in a cloud folder labeled with the tax year. Sounds like overkill but it saved me when I had to prove support for one of my kids a couple years ago. The IRS accepted my documentation without any issues. For anyone still confused about the rules after reading this thread, I'd definitely recommend trying one of those tax tools people mentioned or getting professional help. These dependency rules are tricky and the consequences of getting them wrong (like dual claims) can be a real headache to sort out later.
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Michael Green
•This is excellent advice about record keeping! I wish I had started tracking everything from the beginning of the year. I'm scrambling now to find all my receipts and bank statements to calculate the support I've provided. One thing I'd add is to also keep track of what your kids spend their own money on. For the support test, you need to compare what YOU provided versus what THEY provided for themselves. So if your child used their work income to pay for their own car, gas, or entertainment, that counts as support they provided for themselves and reduces your percentage. The spreadsheet idea is brilliant - I'm definitely setting that up for next year. Did you include a section for tracking what your kids contributed to their own support? That seems like it would be important for the more than 50% calculation.
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Paige Cantoni
This thread has been incredibly helpful! I'm dealing with a similar situation with my 22-year-old son who's in his senior year of college. He's taking 12 credits (full-time at his school), I pay his tuition and rent, and he works about 15 hours a week making around $8,000 annually. One thing I wanted to add that I learned from my tax preparer last year - make sure you understand how the American Opportunity Tax Credit interacts with claiming your child as a dependent. You can only claim the education credit if you're also claiming them as a dependent. So even if the dependency exemption itself doesn't save you much in taxes, the education credits (up to $2,500 per student) can be substantial. Also, for those tracking support expenses, don't forget to include the fair market value of housing if your child lives at home with you. The IRS has guidelines for calculating this - it's usually based on what it would cost to rent a similar room in your area. This can significantly boost your support calculation if your child is living at home rent-free. Has anyone had experience with how this works when your child graduates mid-year? My son graduates in May, so I'm wondering if that affects his student status for the full tax year or just the months he was enrolled.
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Fatima Al-Maktoum
•Great point about the education credits! That's definitely something people overlook when deciding whether to claim a dependent. Regarding your son graduating mid-year, the good news is that student status is determined by whether they were enrolled full-time for at least 5 months during the tax year, not whether they were enrolled for the entire year. Since your son will be enrolled from January through May (5 months), he should still qualify as a full-time student for the entire 2025 tax year. The fair market value housing tip is really smart too. I hadn't thought about calculating that for kids living at home. Do you happen to know if there's a specific IRS publication that explains how to calculate fair market rental value? That could really help boost the support percentage for parents whose kids moved back home after college. Also, just want to confirm - once he graduates in May and potentially starts working full-time, that won't affect his dependent status for 2025 since the tests are based on the situation during the tax year when he was still a qualifying student, right?
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Maya Patel
This has been such an informative discussion! As a tax professional, I wanted to add a few clarifications that might help others in similar situations. First, regarding the "5 months full-time student" rule - it's important to note that this refers to any 5 months during the tax year, and they don't have to be consecutive. So even if your child takes a semester off but was full-time for fall and spring semesters, they likely still meet this test. Second, I see some confusion about income limits. For qualifying children (under 24 and full-time students), there is NO income limit that disqualifies them from being your dependent. The $5,000 limit only applies to qualifying relatives. However, if your child's income is high enough that they're required to file their own return, make sure you coordinate so both of you don't claim the same person. One thing that hasn't been mentioned much is the "tie-breaker" rules when multiple people could potentially claim the same dependent. If parents are divorced or separated, there are specific rules about which parent gets to claim the child that go beyond just who provides more support. Also, keep in mind that some states have different rules than federal, so if you live in a state with income tax, double-check their dependency requirements as well. For anyone still unsure about their specific situation, I'd recommend consulting with a qualified tax professional rather than relying solely on online tools, especially for complex family situations.
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Ethan Clark
•Thank you for this professional perspective! This really helps clarify some of the confusion in this thread. I have a quick follow-up question about the tie-breaker rules you mentioned for divorced parents. My ex-husband and I have joint custody of our 20-year-old daughter who's in college. She splits time pretty evenly between our houses during breaks, but her permanent address is listed as mine for school purposes. We both contribute to her support - I pay tuition and he covers her car/insurance. Do you know which parent would have the stronger claim for the dependency exemption in this situation? We've been alternating years claiming her, but I want to make sure we're doing this correctly according to IRS rules rather than just our informal agreement. Is there an official way divorced parents should handle this, or does our alternating arrangement work as long as we coordinate properly? Also, I really appreciate your point about state tax differences - I hadn't considered that our state might have different rules than federal. I'll definitely look into that!
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