Confused about EDD PFL baby bonding time - can I get more than 8 weeks after maternity leave ends?
I'm so confused about my baby bonding benefits through EDD! I had my second child in November and I've been on pregnancy disability since then. My doctor just cleared me to return to work, so now I'm transitioning to PFL for baby bonding. My EDD online account shows I have 8 weeks of baby bonding available, but my coworker swore that California recently increased the amount of time to 12-14 weeks total? I'm scheduled to return to work in April, but if I qualify for additional bonding time, I'd love to stay home longer with my baby. Has anyone else heard about or received this extended bonding time? The EDD website isn't clear about any changes and the last time I called, I waited 2 hours before giving up! Help!
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Emma Wilson
Hi there! I just went through this process myself. California still provides 8 weeks of PFL baby bonding time - there hasn't been an increase to 12-14 weeks. Your coworker might be confusing it with the TOTAL time you get when combining Pregnancy Disability Leave (PDL) with PFL baby bonding. Typically, you get up to 4 weeks before birth and up to 6-8 weeks after birth for PDL (depending on delivery type), and then the 8 weeks of PFL baby bonding. So in total, that could be around 18-20 weeks, but the PFL portion is still just 8 weeks.
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Javier Gomez
•Thank you for explaining! That makes sense - she probably was including the disability portion in her calculation. Do you know if I have to take all 8 weeks consecutively or can I split it up? My husband is thinking about taking some bonding time too, but we're not sure if we can overlap or if we need to take turns.
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Malik Thomas
The previous responder is correct. California PFL for baby bonding is still 8 weeks total. What your coworker might be referring to is the combined leave you're entitled to under various programs. Here's how it typically works: 1. Pregnancy Disability Leave (PDL) - typically 4 weeks before birth and 6-8 weeks after (covered by SDI) 2. Baby Bonding PFL - 8 weeks There is no "extra" time beyond these standard benefits. However, if you work for a company with 5+ employees, you may be eligible for additional unpaid, job-protected leave under CFRA (California Family Rights Act), which could give you up to 12 weeks on top of your disability leave. This wouldn't be paid through EDD though.
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Javier Gomez
•Thank you for the detailed explanation! I'll look into CFRA - I work for a company with about 75 employees so I might qualify. Do you happen to know if I can split up my 8 weeks of PFL? Or do I have to take it all at once right after my disability ends?
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Isabella Oliveira
My sister just had a baby in January and she got the same 8 weeks for bonding. Nothin extra. I think your coworker is wrong lol
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Malik Thomas
To answer your question about splitting up PFL - yes, you can split your 8 weeks of baby bonding! You don't have to take it all at once. You can break it up however you want as long as you use it within the first year of your child's birth. And yes, both parents can claim PFL, even simultaneously. Each parent gets their own 8-week entitlement. Regarding CFRA, if you qualify, you'd need to coordinate with your HR department about how to use it. Some people use CFRA concurrently with PFL (to protect their job while receiving pay), while others use it after PFL ends (to extend their total time off).
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Javier Gomez
•That's great news! I had no idea we could both take PFL at the same time. That would be really helpful for the first few weeks. I'll talk to HR about CFRA tomorrow. Thanks for all the information!
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Ravi Kapoor
when i had my baby last yr they gave me 6 wks disability then 8 wks bonding and then my work gave me 2 more wks paid. maybe thats what ur coworker meant?? every company has different benefits on top of state stuff
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Freya Larsen
Ugh, the EDD system for maternity leave is SO CONFUSING! I spent hours on hold trying to figure it out with my first kid and ended up crying to the rep when I finally got through. The website is basically useless too - it's like they intentionally make things unclear!! I'm due with #2 in June and already having anxiety about dealing with it all again. 😫
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GalacticGladiator
•I had the same experience with EDD's phone lines - impossible to get through! I actually found this service called Claimyr that connected me to an EDD agent in about 8 minutes instead of waiting for hours. It saved my sanity when I was having issues with my baby bonding transition. They have a video showing how it works: https://youtu.be/DOLxZQb92wM?si=6N1iCQ3a8Cdb2Ay5 and their website is claimyr.com. Definitely worth checking out if you need to talk to an actual human at EDD.
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Freya Larsen
One more thing I just remembered - if your employer offers any paid parental leave, that's completely separate from the state benefits. My company gives 6 weeks paid parental leave, which I can use after my EDD benefits end. Maybe check if your company has something similar?
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Javier Gomez
•That's a good point! I need to double check our employee handbook. I think we might have some paid parental leave, but I'm not sure how much. Definitely going to look into that tomorrow.
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Omar Zaki
THE WHOLE SYSTEM IS DESIGNED TO CONFUSE US!!! I swear they WANT us to mess up our claims. When I applied for bonding time after my maternity leave disability ran out, they "lost" my application TWICE and I had to resubmit everything. Then I got a random DENIAL letter even though I qualified for everything. Had to appeal and wait ANOTHER 3 weeks with no income. Meanwhile bills kept coming! America hates mothers, I'm convinced.
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Ravi Kapoor
•omg that happened to my cousin too!! she almost got evicted waiting for her money
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Emma Wilson
Just to answer your final question clearly - you can definitely split up your 8 weeks of PFL baby bonding! The law allows you to break it into smaller chunks within the first 12 months after birth. Some parents take 4 weeks right after disability ends, then save the other 4 weeks for later. Or you could do 2 days a week for a longer period to ease back into work gradually. Just be aware that each time you start a new PFL period, you'll need to submit a claim form. Your husband can also take his own 8 weeks of PFL for bonding, and you can overlap if you want to - each parent has their own separate entitlement.
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Javier Gomez
•Thank you for this clear explanation! I might actually consider doing a gradual return to work by using PFL for part of each week. That sounds like it could be a nice transition. Do you know if there's any minimum amount of time you have to take at once? Like could I do just 1 day a week of PFL for 40 weeks?
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Emma Wilson
Regarding your question about minimum time chunks for PFL - the smallest increment you can claim is one day. So technically, yes, you could use one day per week for 40 weeks if you wanted to! However, be aware that each separate period of leave requires a new claim form, so doing it daily or weekly might create a lot of paperwork. Most people find it easier to take PFL in larger chunks (like weekly or monthly blocks). Also, your employer needs to approve intermittent bonding leave schedules, so make sure to discuss your plans with HR before finalizing anything.
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Isabella Oliveira
•My friend tried to do this one-day-a-week thing and her boss gave her such a hard time about it! Said it was "disruptive to the workflow" and basically pressured her into taking the time in bigger chunks. Just sayin, some companies make it difficult even if it's technically allowed.
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Jackie Martinez
Just wanted to add my experience from last year! I was in a similar situation and got really confused by all the different leave types. What helped me was creating a simple timeline on paper showing: 1) Pregnancy disability weeks, 2) PFL bonding weeks, 3) Any employer benefits, and 4) Unpaid CFRA time if needed. For the record, California PFL is definitely still 8 weeks for bonding - no recent increases. But like others mentioned, when you add up ALL your leave options (disability + bonding + employer benefits + unpaid protected time), it can total 12-20+ weeks depending on your situation. Pro tip: Submit your PFL application about 2 weeks before your disability ends to avoid any gaps in payments. The transition can be bumpy if you don't time it right!
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Zainab Abdulrahman
I'm currently pregnant with my first and trying to wrap my head around all this before the baby arrives. This thread has been SO helpful! Just to make sure I understand correctly - the 8 weeks of PFL baby bonding is separate from and in addition to the pregnancy disability leave, right? So if I get 6 weeks of disability after birth, then I'd get another 8 weeks of bonding time after that? That would be 14 weeks total paid leave? Also, does the bonding time start automatically after disability ends or do I need to file a separate claim? Sorry for all the questions - I want to make sure I don't mess anything up when the time comes!
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Santiago Martinez
•Yes, you've got it exactly right! The 8 weeks of PFL baby bonding is completely separate from and in addition to your pregnancy disability leave. So if you get 6 weeks of disability after birth, you would indeed get another 8 weeks of bonding time after that - totaling 14 weeks of paid leave through EDD. You do need to file a separate PFL claim for the bonding time - it doesn't automatically start when disability ends. I'd recommend submitting your PFL application about 2 weeks before your disability period is scheduled to end to ensure there's no gap in payments. The forms are different and the process is separate, even though both come through EDD. Good luck with everything!
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Yara Abboud
I went through this exact same confusion last year! Your coworker is mixing up the total time available versus just the PFL portion. California PFL for baby bonding is still 8 weeks - there hasn't been any increase to 12-14 weeks. What she might be thinking of is the TOTAL leave time when you combine everything: pregnancy disability (usually 6-8 weeks after birth) + PFL bonding (8 weeks) + any employer benefits. That can add up to 14+ weeks total, but the state PFL portion is still just 8 weeks. The good news is you can definitely split up those 8 weeks however works best for your family! I took 4 weeks right after my disability ended, then saved the other 4 weeks for when my husband went back to work. Just make sure to file your PFL claim about 2 weeks before your disability ends so there's no gap in payments. The EDD phone lines are a nightmare, but the online portal usually works okay for filing claims.
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Mason Lopez
•This is exactly what I needed to hear! Thank you for sharing your experience. I think my coworker was definitely mixing up the total time with just the PFL portion. It makes so much sense now that everyone is explaining it. I really like your approach of splitting the 8 weeks - taking some right after disability and saving some for later. I'm going to start planning out my timeline and definitely file the PFL claim early like you suggested. The online portal has been working okay for me so far, so hopefully I can avoid those terrible phone lines!
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GalaxyGlider
I'm a new mom who just went through this process a few months ago! Everyone here is absolutely right - California PFL for baby bonding is still 8 weeks, no changes. Your coworker is probably thinking of the total leave time when you add up disability + bonding + any employer benefits. One thing I wish someone had told me earlier: make sure to check if your employer has a "top-off" policy where they pay the difference between your EDD benefits and your full salary. My company did this but I didn't know until week 3! Also, if you're breastfeeding, remember you can use some of your PFL time intermittently later in the year if you need time for pumping issues or pediatric appointments. The flexibility of being able to split the 8 weeks is honestly a lifesaver. I used 6 weeks right after disability ended, then saved 2 weeks for when my baby was around 8 months old and I was feeling burned out. Best decision ever!
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Samantha Hall
•Thank you so much for sharing your experience! I had no idea about the "top-off" policy - I definitely need to check with my HR department about that. The idea of saving some PFL time for later when you're feeling burned out is brilliant! I never thought about using it that way, but it makes so much sense. As a new parent, it's hard to predict when you'll need that extra time most. I'm definitely going to look into splitting my 8 weeks strategically like you did. This whole thread has been incredibly helpful - I feel so much more confident about navigating this process now!
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Carmen Flores
I'm a new member here and just wanted to say how incredibly helpful this entire thread has been! I'm currently 32 weeks pregnant with my first baby and have been stressing about understanding all the different leave options. Reading everyone's experiences has really clarified things for me. Just to confirm what I'm understanding from all the responses: California PFL for baby bonding is 8 weeks (not 12-14), it's separate from pregnancy disability leave, both parents can take their own 8 weeks (even simultaneously), and you can split it up however you want within the first year. Is that right? One question I haven't seen addressed - does the 8 weeks have to be used for actual "bonding" activities, or can it be used for things like childcare while your partner works, doctor appointments, or just general parenting duties? I'm trying to figure out the best way to use this time strategically once my baby arrives. Thanks to everyone who has shared their experiences - it's such a relief to get real-world advice from people who have actually been through this process!
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Aaliyah Reed
•Welcome to the community! You've got all the basics absolutely right - 8 weeks of PFL bonding (not 12-14), separate from disability leave, both parents get their own 8 weeks, and you can split it however works for you within the first year. To answer your question about what counts as "bonding" - the good news is that PFL is pretty flexible! You can use it for general childcare, doctor appointments, establishing routines, or just being present with your baby. The state doesn't require you to document specific "bonding activities" - they understand that caring for and spending time with your new baby in any capacity counts as bonding time. Many parents use it strategically - some take it right after disability ends, others save it for when their partner returns to work, and some use it intermittently for things like pediatric appointments or when childcare falls through. The flexibility is really one of the best parts of the program! Congratulations on your upcoming arrival and welcome to the community! 🎉
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Yuki Nakamura
I just wanted to chime in as someone who recently navigated this same confusion! Your coworker is definitely mixing things up - California PFL for baby bonding is still 8 weeks, period. There hasn't been any increase to 12-14 weeks at the state level. What might be happening is she's thinking of the TOTAL time off when you combine everything: pregnancy disability (typically 6-8 weeks after delivery) + PFL bonding (8 weeks) + any employer-provided benefits. When you add it all up, you could be looking at 14-20+ weeks total, but the actual PFL portion remains 8 weeks. I had my baby in September and went through the exact same transition from disability to PFL. My advice: start your PFL application about 2 weeks before your disability period ends to avoid any payment gaps. The online system worked fine for me - much better than trying to call! Also, definitely explore splitting those 8 weeks if it works for your situation. I took 6 weeks immediately after disability ended, then saved 2 weeks for when my baby was older and I needed a mental health break. Having that flexibility was amazing!
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Charlee Coleman
•Thank you for sharing your experience! It's so reassuring to hear from someone who just went through this exact situation. I really appreciate the tip about starting the PFL application 2 weeks early - that seems to be a common theme in this thread and I definitely don't want any gaps in payments! Your approach of taking 6 weeks immediately and saving 2 weeks for later sounds really smart. I'm starting to think that might be the way to go - use most of the time right away when the baby needs me most, but keep a little in reserve for unexpected situations or when I might need that mental health break you mentioned. The flexibility really does seem like one of the best parts of this benefit!
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