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Layla Sanders

Is FAFSA worth the hassle when my kids got almost no aid for 4 years?

Ok I'm honestly at my wit's end with FAFSA. I've dutifully filled out these forms for FOUR YEARS STRAIGHT for my kids in college, and what did we get? Basically nothing! Just a measly $500 discount for my younger daughter because we submitted before some deadline at her school. That's it. Four years of hunting down tax documents, answering invasive questions about our finances, and dealing with that awful studentaid.gov website that keeps crashing. My oldest graduated with loans anyway, and my second is now a junior with barely any aid. For 2025-2026, why should I even bother? Our household income is around $98,000 with my husband's recent promotion, so I'm guessing we'll get the same result - zilch. Is there ANY reason I should put myself through this stress again when it seems designed just to disappoint families like mine? Anyone else feel like they're just checking a box for nothing?

You should absolutely still complete the FAFSA, even if you haven't seen significant benefits yet. The new FAFSA for 2025-2026 has completely revamped the SAI formula that determines aid eligibility. With the changes, many families in the $90-110K income range are seeing better results than before. Also, many schools require a completed FAFSA for ANY institutional aid, even merit scholarships. Without it, your daughter could miss opportunities regardless of your income level.

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Layla Sanders

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Really? I hadn't heard about formula changes. Her school did mention something about "institutional aid policies" but I honestly stopped listening after getting disappointed so many times. How significant are these SAI changes you're talking about?

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Kaylee Cook

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lol yeah it's basically useless if u make over like 80k. my parents make around what yours do and i got nothing except eligibility for unsubsidized loans which isn't even real aid tbh. waste of time every year but my school makes us do it anyway for stupid "institutional aid policies" whatever that means

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That's not entirely accurate. The FAFSA determines eligibility for many types of aid beyond just federal grants. Many schools use it for work-study positions, institutional grants, and various scholarships. The SAI calculation has also changed for 2025-2026, expanding eligibility for many middle-income families.

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I understand your frustration, but I'd strongly recommend completing the FAFSA again. Here's why: 1) The Student Aid Index (SAI) formula changed significantly for 2025-2026, with more generous allowances for middle-income families 2) Many colleges require FAFSA for ALL institutional aid - not just need-based. This includes merit scholarships, departmental awards, and special grants 3) If your family situation changes (job loss, medical expenses, another child entering college), having an active FAFSA makes adjustments much easier 4) At minimum, it secures access to federal student loans which have better terms than private alternatives 5) Some states have their own grant programs with higher income thresholds that use FAFSA data The $98,000 income level might actually qualify for more than you think under the new formula, especially with multiple dependents or if you live in a high-cost area.

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Layla Sanders

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Thank you for the detailed breakdown. I had no idea about the formula changes. My daughter mentioned her friend from a similar financial background got more aid this year, but I assumed it was just some special circumstance. Maybe there's hope after all? How do I find out more about these new SAI calculations?

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Lara Woods

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I was in EXACTLY your position last year! Two kids in college, making about $104K, and got basically nothing for years. But honestly, I almost didn't do FAFSA for my youngest's sophomore year and would have MISSED OUT BIG TIME. Turns out her university had a new donor-funded program that required FAFSA completion but had a higher income threshold (up to $125K). She got a $4,500 scholarship we would have completely missed if I hadn't grudgingly filled out that form one more time. Also, the FAFSA is so much easier now! The 2025-2026 form has fewer questions and better tax data integration. Took me 25 minutes instead of the usual 2-hour nightmare.

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Layla Sanders

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That's amazing! I had no idea programs like that existed. And 25 minutes sounds much more reasonable than what I've experienced before. Maybe I'll give it one more shot.

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Adrian Hughes

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THE ENTIRE SYSTEM IS RIGGED AGAINST THE MIDDLE CLASS!!!! We make too much to qualify for "need" but not enough to actually afford these insane tuition prices!!!! I've filled out FAFSA for 6 YEARS across 3 kids and all we ever got was LOANS LOANS LOANS. Just another way to TRAP families in DEBT while universities build fancy rock climbing walls and pay administrators six figures!!!

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I understand your frustration. The system does have gaps, particularly for middle-income families. However, even if loans are the only direct federal aid you qualify for, many institutional scholarships and grants require FAFSA completion as part of their application process. It's worth investigating what school-specific programs might be available that use FAFSA data but have different qualifying criteria.

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OMG don't even get me started on FAFSA customer service!!! I tried calling them like 8 times last year when they had that huge glitch with parent contributions, and I'd be on hold for HOURS just to get disconnected. I finally used Claimyr (claimyr.com) to get through to someone after my friends recommended it. They have this service where they wait on hold for you and call you back when an agent is on the line. They have a demo video here: https://youtu.be/TbC8dZQWYNQ Totally saved my sanity and I actually got a live person who fixed our application in like 5 minutes. Might be worth it if you decide to do FAFSA again and run into problems.

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Layla Sanders

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I've never heard of this service, but those hold times are the WORST. I spent 3 hours on hold last year just to get disconnected. Thanks for the tip - I'll check it out if I decide to go through with it again.

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Ian Armstrong

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I was in your shoes until last month - ready to give up after years of no results. My daughter's school financial aid office actually called and encouraged me to submit for her senior year, explaining that their endowment had created new scholarships specifically for students in the $90-115K family income range. I reluctantly did it, and she got a $3,200 scholarship that required FAFSA completion even though it wasn't technically "need-based." My advice: call your daughter's financial aid office directly and ask if there are ANY institutional aid programs that require FAFSA but might apply to your income level. Many schools have special funds that aren't advertised widely.

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Kaylee Cook

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wait thats actually really smart, never thought to just ASK the financial aid office what might be available. they're usually not helpful for anything else but maybe worth a try

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Layla Sanders

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I just want to thank everyone for the thoughtful responses. I had no idea about the SAI formula changes or that some school-specific scholarships require FAFSA regardless of need. I called my daughter's financial aid office this morning, and they mentioned TWO scholarship programs I hadn't heard of that require FAFSA completion but are designed for families in our income range. One is even specifically for students in her major! I'm going to complete the form this weekend and see what happens. Really appreciate all the advice - sometimes it's hard to keep pushing through bureaucracy when it feels pointless.

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That's excellent news! I'm so glad you reached out to the financial aid office. Many schools are creating more support for middle-income families who have traditionally fallen through the cracks. Best of luck with the application, and remember the new streamlined form should be much easier than previous years.

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So glad to hear you're giving it another shot! Your story gives me hope too - I'm in a similar situation with my son starting his junior year. The fact that there are programs specifically targeted at families like ours that we just didn't know about is both encouraging and frustrating. Good luck with the application this weekend, and I'd love to hear how it turns out if you're willing to share an update later!

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Santiago Diaz

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Just want to echo what others have said about contacting the financial aid office directly - that was a game changer for me too! I was in almost the exact same boat (household income around $95K) and had given up after three years of basically nothing. But when I called about my daughter's final year, they told me about an emergency fund for families affected by the pandemic that I never would have known about otherwise. Got $2,800 that literally saved us from taking out another loan. The new FAFSA really is easier too - I was shocked when I finished it in under 30 minutes this year compared to the multi-hour ordeal it used to be. And with those SAI changes everyone's mentioning, it seems like they're finally recognizing that middle-class families need help too. Definitely worth one more try, especially since you've already identified specific programs at your daughter's school!

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This is so encouraging to hear from everyone! I had no idea there were emergency funds and pandemic-related assistance programs still available. It's frustrating that schools don't make these opportunities more visible, but I'm grateful for this community sharing real experiences. Santiago, your 30-minute completion time gives me hope - I've been dreading the usual 2+ hour marathon session. I'm definitely motivated to tackle this weekend's FAFSA with a much more optimistic outlook now. Thanks for sharing your success story!

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