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Yuki Sato

FAFSA rejected because stepdad hasn't filed taxes in 2 years - urgent help needed

I'm in major panic mode right now about my son's FAFSA for 2025-2026. We just hit a massive roadblock I never saw coming. My son completed most of his portion correctly, but when it came time for me (mom) to add my info, I realized we're in trouble. I remarried 3 years ago, and my current husband (son's stepdad) just confessed he hasn't filed tax returns for the past TWO YEARS! We file our taxes separately, and I've always filed mine on time. The FAFSA is requiring my husband's tax info too, even though he won't be contributing a single dollar to my son's education. When we got to his section and had to check the box saying he hasn't filed, I'm terrified this will completely derail everything or cause massive delays. My son has worked so hard to get into college, and now I'm afraid this tax situation might cost him his financial aid. Has anyone dealt with this specific situation? Are we completely screwed? Will this just delay processing or will they reject the application entirely?

Carmen Ruiz

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This is actually a common situation and won't necessarily stop the FAFSA process, though it does complicate things. Since your household includes your husband (and you're married), federal regulations require his financial information regardless of whether he's contributing to your son's education. Here's what you can do: 1. Complete the FAFSA with your tax information, and for your husband, select the "Will file" option rather than "Will not file" 2. Your husband needs to file those back taxes ASAP - the FAFSA may be selected for verification, and they'll need documentation 3. Once your husband files, you can then update the FAFSA with his tax information 4. Your application will likely be put on hold until his tax information is provided The good news is your son will still be considered for aid, but there will likely be a delay. Many schools have internal deadlines for aid priority, so I'd recommend contacting the financial aid offices at the schools your son is applying to and explaining the situation.

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Yuki Sato

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Thank you so much for the detailed response. I'm still freaking out though - my husband is being resistant about filing his back taxes quickly. If we select "Will file" but then he doesn't actually file for several more months, will that make things worse? I'm worried about providing incorrect information. Will my son lose all his aid opportunities if my husband keeps dragging his feet?

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your not the only 1 with this problem my sisters husband did the same thing and they still got through it but yeah its a MESS. took like 2 extra months for everything to get aproved and they had to send a bunch of extra paperwork. not gonna lie its gonna be annoying but your kid can still get there aid eventually

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Yuki Sato

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2 extra months?! That's exactly what I'm afraid of! Did they have to submit any special forms or call the financial aid office directly? I'm so stressed about this whole situation.

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The previous advice isn't entirely accurate. You shouldn't select "Will file" if you're unsure if/when your husband will actually file his taxes. Here's what the Department of Education actually recommends for this situation: 1. Select "Will not file" for your husband if he hasn't filed and doesn't have immediate plans to do so 2. Complete the FAFSA with estimates of your husband's income for the required tax years 3. Your application will be selected for verification (almost guaranteed) 4. You'll need to submit a Verification of Non-filing Letter from the IRS for your husband 5. Your son's schools will require additional income documentation like W-2s or a signed statement explaining the situation This is an unfortunate situation, but it won't necessarily prevent your son from receiving aid. The verification process will be more complex, but it's navigable. Contact each school's financial aid office proactively.

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Yuki Sato

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This is such helpful information! So even though my husband hasn't filed, we can still estimate his income? Where do we get the Verification of Non-filing Letter? My husband is worried about contacting the IRS at all since he hasn't filed... Is there any way around this?

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I went thru this EXACT thing last year!!!! My husband (also a stepdad) hadnt filed for THREE years and we were freaking out. The finacial aid office told us to just submit the FAFSA with my tax info and then fill out a special form they had for non-tax-filing spouses. They made us submit all his W2s and paystubs instead. It was a PAIN IN THE BUTT but my daughter still got her loans and some grants. Every school handles it different tho.

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Yuki Sato

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That's reassuring to hear! Was your daughter's aid delayed at all? I'm so worried about missing deadlines. Did you have to deal directly with the financial aid office or did you have to talk to FAFSA people too?

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Mei Wong

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QuantumQuasar

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is that service legit? seems kinda sketchy to me. does it actually work?

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Mei Wong

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Yes, it's legitimate - it just holds your place in line so you don't have to stay on hold yourself. The FAFSA agent I spoke with was extremely helpful and explained all the options for our non-filing spouse situation. Saved me hours of frustration.

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Liam McGuire

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This FAFSA system is SUCH GARBAGE! Why should YOUR SON be punished because his STEPDAD didn't file taxes??? This is the kind of bureaucratic nonsense that keeps hard-working kids from getting an education. The whole system is stacked against blended families. My nephew went through something similar and ended up having to take a gap year because his aid was so delayed. The colleges don't care, FAFSA doesn't care, nobody helps. Try calling their customer service line - JOKE! I waited 2.5 hours just to get disconnected!!

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Yuki Sato

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Oh no, a gap year? That's my worst fear! My son would be devastated. Did your nephew eventually get his aid sorted out? I'm going to try calling FAFSA tomorrow but I'm worried about the wait times.

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To answer your follow-up question: Yes, you can and should estimate your husband's income if he hasn't filed. Use W-2s, pay stubs, or any other income documentation you have. As for the Verification of Non-filing Letter, he can request this from the IRS using Form 4506-T even if he hasn't filed taxes. This letter simply confirms that the IRS has no record of a tax return filed for that year - it's not an admission of wrongdoing or an automatic trigger for an audit. Regarding your concerns about your husband contacting the IRS: He will need to address his unfiled taxes eventually, but requesting the verification letter is a separate process that doesn't automatically put him on their radar for enforcement. Many schools will not complete financial aid processing without this letter.

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Yuki Sato

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Thank you for this clarification! This makes me feel a bit better. I'll talk to my husband about requesting the verification letter. Do you know if we'll need one for each year he didn't file?

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QuantumQuasar

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what about getting ur son to apply as an independent student? then they wont need ur tax info or ur husbands at all. my cousin did that and it worked

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Carmen Ruiz

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This is unfortunately incorrect advice that could cause more problems. FAFSA has very specific requirements for independent student status. Being under 24, a student typically needs to be married, have dependents, be a veteran, be homeless, or have documented proof of being completely self-supporting. Simply having parents who don't contribute financially is not enough. Falsely claiming independent status can result in fraud charges and requirement to repay aid.

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QuantumQuasar

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oh dang i didnt know that. my cousin must have qualified some other way then. nevermind!

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To answer your question - yes her aid was delayed by about 6 weeks. What helped us was being SUPER proactive. I called financial aid offices like every week lol. They probly hated me but whatever! The most helpful thing was having all his income documents ready even without tax returns - all W2s, paystubs, 1099s, anything showing what he actually earned those years. The schools were way more helpful than the actual FAFSA people tbh.

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Yuki Sato

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6 weeks isn't as bad as I feared! I'm definitely going to be proactive about this. I'll start gathering all his income documents this weekend. Thanks for sharing your experience - it really helps to know we can get through this!

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Carmen Ruiz

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One more important point: make sure your son fills out the CSS Profile if any of his schools require it (many private colleges do). The CSS Profile has different procedures for handling non-filing parents/step-parents, and sometimes more flexibility. Each school using CSS Profile can set their own policies for how they handle these situations. Also, when you contact the financial aid offices, ask specifically about any institutional forms they might have for documenting special circumstances. Many schools have their own forms for situations exactly like yours that can help ensure your son gets properly evaluated for need-based institutional aid, not just federal aid.

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Yuki Sato

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Thank you - I hadn't even thought about the CSS Profile! I'll check if any of his schools require it. This whole process is so overwhelming with all these different forms and requirements.

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Ethan Brown

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I'm going through something similar right now with my stepson's FAFSA - his dad hasn't filed in years either and it's been such a stressful process! One thing that really helped us was creating a timeline and action plan. First, gather ALL income documentation your husband has - W2s, pay stubs, bank statements, anything showing what he earned. Second, have him request those Non-Filing Verification letters from the IRS ASAP using Form 4506-T (one for each year he didn't file). Third, contact every single school your son applied to and explain the situation - don't wait! Most schools have dealt with this before and some have internal forms that can help speed things up. The key is being super organized and persistent. Yes, it will likely delay things by 4-8 weeks, but your son WILL still get aid. The schools want to help, they just need the proper documentation. Don't panic - you've got this! Your son's hard work won't be wasted because of this bureaucratic mess.

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