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Adrian Connor

FAFSA household size confusion - include graduate student siblings or not?

I'm losing my mind trying to figure out the household size question on the FAFSA for 2025-2026. My parents support me (19) and my brother (23) who's in grad school. My mom says to count my brother in household size because they claim him on taxes, but my financial aid office said only count undergrad students? My dad thinks we should leave him off completely. The StudentAid.gov instructions are so vague! If we count him, our SAI could be lower, but what if that triggers verification? Has anyone gotten clarity on whether grad students count in household size? I'm worried about getting this wrong and delaying my aid.

Aisha Jackson

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i had the same problem last year with my sister. we ended up counting her in household size but NOT as a college student (since she was in grad school). worked fine for us, no verification or anything.

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Adrian Connor

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So you included her in the household count but left the college enrollment number alone? Did that affect your aid amount at all?

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This is a common point of confusion. The household size question and the number in college question have different rules. For household size, you should include siblings who receive more than half their support from your parents, regardless of whether they're undergraduate or graduate students. For the number in college, you only count undergraduate students. So in your case, you SHOULD count your brother in household size if your parents provide more than half his support, but you should NOT count him in the number in college question since he's a graduate student.

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Adrian Connor

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Thank you!! This makes so much more sense now. My parents definitely provide more than half his support, so I'll include him in household size but not in number in college. I really appreciate the clear explanation!

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Lilly Curtis

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Wait but what if they claim him on taxes but he also has a job that pays for more than half his stuff? Does tax claiming automatically mean he's supported by parents?

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Leo Simmons

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Actually, the determination for household size isn't based on tax dependency status - it's about financial support. If your parents provide more than 50% of your brother's support, he should be included in household size regardless of whether he's in undergrad or grad school. The "number in college" question is separate - that's where only undergraduate students working on their first degree should be counted.

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Lilly Curtis

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So the tax filing status doesn't automatically determine this? I always thought whoever you claim on taxes is who counts in household size.

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Leo Simmons

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That's a common misconception. Tax dependency and FAFSA household determination are related but not identical. The FAFSA specifically looks at who provides more than half of a person's support, which doesn't always match tax filing status. Some people can be tax dependents while providing most of their own support, and vice versa.

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Lindsey Fry

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The FAFSA system is RIDICULOUS!! I made this exact mistake last year and it triggered verification which delayed my aid by MONTHS. I had to send in proof of my brother's expenses and how much my parents contributed and it was a COMPLETE NIGHTMARE. The FA office at my school gave me wrong information too! Honestly I hate this whole process with a burning passion.

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Saleem Vaziri

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same!!! i swear they make this confusing on purpose. my parents and i spent like 8 hours trying to figure out all the household questions and i still got selected for verification

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Kayla Morgan

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I was struggling with this exact issue and kept getting disconnected when calling the FSA helpline. I finally used Claimyr.com to get through to an actual person at Federal Student Aid who confirmed that graduate students DO count in household size if parents provide 50%+ support, but NOT in the number in college section. They have a video demo at https://youtu.be/TbC8dZQWYNQ that shows how easy it is to get connected. Saved me from making a mistake that could have delayed my aid package.

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Adrian Connor

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I've never heard of this service before. Did you actually get through to someone who knew what they were talking about? Last time I called FSA I got transferred 3 times and still didn't get a clear answer.

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Kayla Morgan

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Yes, it connected me directly to an FSA agent who specializes in application questions. I didn't have to wait on hold or deal with disconnects. They explained that the household size rule is based on the support test, not student type, and confirmed what others here have said about grad students counting in household but not in college count.

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James Maki

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my cousin works in financial aid at a community college and she says this question causes sooooo many problems every year! she told me there's actually a whole training thing they have to do about household size vs. number in college because people mess it up all the time

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To summarize for anyone else who finds this thread: 1. Household size: Include siblings who receive more than 50% support from parents, regardless of education level (including grad students) 2. Number in college: Only count those who will be enrolled at least half-time in an undergraduate program And remember, if you're unsure about whether someone receives more than 50% support, look at their total annual expenses (housing, food, medical, education, etc.) and determine if your parents provide more than half of that total. Documentation of this may be required if selected for verification.

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Adrian Connor

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This is super helpful - I didn't even think about having to potentially document the support. I'll mention that to my parents so we can keep track of what they're contributing to my brother's expenses just in case.

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Saleem Vaziri

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ok but what about siblings who live at home during summer break but are mostly at college during the year? my sister is at school 8 months but home for 4 months and my parents pay for everything during summer but she has financial aid during school year. this whole system is soooo confusing!!!!

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Leo Simmons

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It's about the total annual support. If your parents provide more than 50% of her total annual expenses (including what they pay during those 4 months plus any contributions during the school year like helping with rent, sending spending money, keeping her on family health insurance, etc.), then she counts in household size. If all her expenses throughout the year add up to more than what your parents contribute, then she doesn't count.

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Aisha Jackson

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pro tip: if ur on the borderline between counting someone or not, usually better to include them in household size. makes ur SAI lower and usually helps u get more aid. just make sure u can back it up if they ask for verification

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This isn't good advice. You should always report information accurately on the FAFSA. Purposely misreporting information to try to get more aid can be considered fraud and may result in having to repay aid, fines, or even criminal charges in extreme cases. Report based on your actual situation, not based on what might give you more aid.

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Adrian Connor

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Thanks everyone for all the helpful information! I'm going to count my brother in household size but not in number in college. My parents definitely provide over 50% of his support when you add up his rent, health insurance, car insurance, and the extra expenses they cover. I feel much more confident about how to answer this now! I really appreciate all the guidance.

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I just went through this exact same situation last month! What really helped me was creating a simple spreadsheet to track all the expenses my parents cover for my sister (who's in grad school). I listed things like her rent contribution, health insurance, car payments, groceries when she's home, etc. It made it super clear that they provide way more than 50% of her support. Having that documentation ready also gave me peace of mind in case I got selected for verification. Definitely include your brother in household size if your parents are covering that much - it sounds like you have a solid case for it!

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StarStrider

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That's such a smart idea to make a spreadsheet! I'm definitely going to do that to track everything my parents pay for my brother. It'll be so much easier to see if it really adds up to more than 50% and I'll have all the documentation ready if needed. Thanks for the tip!

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As someone who just completed the FAFSA process, I can confirm what others have said here is correct! The key distinction is that household size and number in college are two separate questions with different rules. I included my older sister (who's in law school) in our household size because my parents pay for her apartment, health insurance, and food expenses - easily over 50% of her total costs. But I didn't count her in the "number in college" section since she's a graduate student. My financial aid counselor actually praised me for getting this right because so many students mix up these two questions. The spreadsheet idea from Fatima is brilliant - I wish I had thought of that! It would have made the verification process much smoother when I had to prove the support amounts.

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Sasha Reese

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This is so reassuring to hear from someone who just went through the process! I was really worried about messing this up, but it sounds like as long as I have the documentation ready and answer the two questions correctly (household size vs number in college), I should be fine. It's great that your financial aid counselor complimented you on getting it right - gives me hope that I'm on the right track too. Thanks for sharing your experience!

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Daniel Price

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This thread has been incredibly helpful! I'm a newcomer here and was just about to ask this exact same question. My situation is almost identical - I have a brother in graduate school and my parents weren't sure whether to include him or not. Reading through all these responses, especially the clear explanation from Ryder about the difference between household size and number in college, has saved me so much confusion. I love the spreadsheet idea too - I'm definitely going to track all the expenses my parents cover for my brother to make sure I have documentation ready. It's really reassuring to see that so many people have dealt with this same issue and gotten it sorted out correctly. Thanks everyone for making this so much clearer for those of us just starting the FAFSA process!

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Lucas Bey

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Welcome to the community! I'm so glad this thread was helpful for you. It's really great to see how everyone here shares their experiences and helps each other navigate these confusing FAFSA questions. The spreadsheet method seems like such a practical approach - I think I'll use that strategy for other financial aid documentation too. Good luck with your FAFSA application, and feel free to ask if you run into any other questions along the way!

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Paolo Rizzo

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Hi everyone! I'm new to this community and this thread has been a lifesaver. I'm facing the exact same dilemma with my twin sister who's in her first year of graduate school. My parents cover her rent, groceries, health insurance, and cell phone bill, which definitely adds up to more than 50% of her expenses. Based on all the advice here, I'm planning to include her in household size but not in the number in college section. The spreadsheet idea is genius - I'm going to create one right now to document everything my parents pay for her. It's so comforting to know that this confusion is common and that there are clear guidelines once you understand the distinction between the two questions. Thanks to everyone who shared their experiences, especially those who went through verification - it helps to know what to expect!

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Welcome to the community, Paolo! I'm glad you found this thread helpful too. It sounds like you have a really clear case for including your sister in household size since your parents are covering so many of her major expenses. The twin situation is interesting - does that make the support calculation any easier since you're both the same age? I'm curious how that works with financial aid. The spreadsheet approach really does seem like the way to go, especially after hearing from people like Chloe who went through verification. It's amazing how much clearer this all becomes once you understand that household size and college enrollment are completely separate questions with different rules!

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Welcome to the community! As a newcomer, I have to say this thread has been incredibly enlightening. I'm currently filling out my FAFSA and was completely confused about this household size question - my older brother is in his second year of medical school and my parents weren't sure whether to count him or not. After reading through all these responses, it's crystal clear now that since my parents pay for his housing, health insurance, car insurance, and help with living expenses (definitely more than 50% of his total costs), he should be included in household size but NOT in the number in college section since he's a graduate student. The spreadsheet tracking idea is brilliant - I'm going to implement that immediately to document all the support my parents provide. It's really reassuring to see how many people have navigated this successfully and that there are actual FSA agents who can clarify these rules when needed. Thank you all for sharing your experiences and making this process so much less stressful for newcomers like me!

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Everett Tutum

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Welcome to the community, Katherine! It's so great to see another newcomer getting clarity on this confusing topic. Medical school definitely counts as graduate school, so you're absolutely right about including your brother in household size but not in the college enrollment number. The fact that your parents are covering housing, insurance, and living expenses makes it a pretty clear-cut case for the 50% support test. I love how this thread has become such a comprehensive resource for anyone dealing with this exact situation - it shows how valuable it is when community members share their real experiences and solutions. The spreadsheet method seems to be the gold standard approach based on everyone's feedback. Best of luck with your FAFSA, and don't hesitate to ask if you run into any other questions!

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Anna Kerber

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Hi everyone! I'm new to this community and just wanted to say how incredibly helpful this thread has been! I'm in almost the exact same situation - my older sister is in graduate school for social work and my parents weren't sure whether to include her in our household size. After reading through all these detailed explanations, especially the clear breakdown from Ryder and the real-world experiences from people like Chloe and Kayla, I now understand that I should include her in household size since my parents definitely provide more than 50% of her support (they pay her rent, car payment, health insurance, and groceries when she's home), but I should NOT count her in the number attending college section since she's a graduate student. The spreadsheet idea that Fatima suggested is absolutely genius - I'm going to create one right now to track all the expenses my parents cover for my sister so I have everything documented in case of verification. It's such a relief to find a community where people actually explain these confusing FAFSA rules clearly instead of just giving vague advice. Thank you all for making this process so much less overwhelming for newcomers like me!

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Sophia Nguyen

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Welcome to the community, Anna! It's wonderful to see how this thread has helped so many newcomers navigate this tricky FAFSA question. Your situation with your sister in social work graduate school sounds very similar to what others have described, and you're absolutely right about the distinction between household size and college enrollment. The fact that your parents are covering rent, car payments, health insurance, and groceries definitely puts you well over that 50% support threshold. I'm also planning to use the spreadsheet method after seeing how many people have recommended it - it seems like such a smart way to stay organized and prepared for potential verification. This community really is amazing for breaking down these complex financial aid rules in a way that actually makes sense. Best of luck with your FAFSA application!

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Chloe Harris

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Hi everyone! I'm completely new to this community and stumbled upon this thread while desperately searching for answers about the household size question on my FAFSA. I can't believe how perfectly this addresses my exact situation! My older brother is in his first year of a Master's program in engineering, and my parents have been going back and forth about whether to include him or not. After reading through all these incredibly detailed responses, I now completely understand the distinction between household size (include him since my parents pay his rent, health insurance, phone bill, and food expenses - definitely over 50% of his total costs) and number in college (don't include him since he's a graduate student). The spreadsheet tracking idea that multiple people have mentioned is absolutely brilliant - I'm creating one right now to document everything my parents contribute toward my brother's expenses. It's such a relief to find a community where people share real experiences and actual solutions rather than just repeating confusing official language. Thank you all for making this intimidating FAFSA process so much more manageable for newcomers like me! This thread should honestly be pinned as a resource for anyone dealing with graduate student siblings.

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