FAFSA delays forcing me to calculate college costs myself - anyone else making their own financial plans?
I'm so frustrated with waiting for FAFSA to finally process my application! I've been checking studentaid.gov every day for weeks. Since I can't wait any longer, I started calculating everything myself using the university's cost calculator. I've figured out what my son's actual costs will be after removing things we don't need (like the health insurance package which saves us $3,200 since he's already covered on our plan). I already took out $20k in Parent Plus loans last year, but with everything getting more expensive, I REFUSE to borrow more! Instead, I'm adjusting our budget - no vacation this year, cutting out restaurant meals, and tightening our spending until he graduates. Has anyone else just given up on waiting for FAFSA and started doing their own calculations? I've been using each university's net price calculator, subtracting scholarships he's already received, and making two budget scenarios - one assuming he gets pending scholarships and one assuming he doesn't. At least this way we're prepared no matter what FAFSA eventually decides to tell us!
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Lucas Bey
Same boat here! Tired of refreshing that stupid processing screen. Started making our own plans too. Smart move with the health insurance savings!
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Charlotte Jones
•Thanks! It's just so frustrating. Have you found any other campus fees you can opt out of? Every dollar counts right now.
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Harper Thompson
This is actually a really smart approach. The school's net price calculator is usually pretty accurate, and it's good financial planning to prepare for both best and worst-case scenarios. One recommendation: also check if your son's school has any emergency grants or supplemental scholarships with later deadlines - some schools hold back 10-15% of their aid for students who face unexpected shortfalls after FAFSA results come in.
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Charlotte Jones
•That's super helpful, thank you! I didn't know about emergency grants. I'll have him ask the financial aid office about that tomorrow.
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Caleb Stark
your being way to proactive lol. just wait for the SAI and then figure stuff out. maybe youll get more money than you think!!
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Jade O'Malley
•That's terrible advice. The SAI (Student Aid Index) could take MONTHS to process this year with the new system. Being proactive is exactly what parents should do - universities have payment deadlines that don't wait for FAFSA delays.
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Jade O'Malley
You're absolutely right to take this approach. I'm a financial aid counselor, and we're telling all our families to do exactly what you're doing. Create your own financial plan based on the published Cost of Attendance minus any confirmed scholarships. Pro tip: Make sure you're differentiating between grants (free money) and loans when you do your calculations. Some schools include loans in their "financial aid package" which can be misleading. And don't forget to account for the loan origination fees on Parent PLUS loans - they take about 4% off the top.
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Charlotte Jones
•Oh no, I didn't factor in the origination fees! That's a good point. And yes, I've been very careful about separating grants from loans in my calculations. Not making that mistake again after last year's surprise.
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Lucas Bey
•Wait what??? They take 4% of Parent PLUS loans??? So if I borrow $10k I only get $9600?? That's robbery!!
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Hunter Edmunds
I spent FOUR HOURS on hold trying to talk to someone at Federal Student Aid about our delayed application. My son's deposit is due in 2 weeks and we STILL don't have our aid package! Finally used a service called Claimyr (claimyr.com) that got me through to an agent in 20 minutes. They have a video showing how it works: https://youtu.be/TbC8dZQWYNQ At least I found out our application is just stuck in verification, not lost. The agent said to expect it in another 10 business days. Now I can plan accordingly.
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Charlotte Jones
•Thank you for sharing this! I might try that service. Did they tell you why your application needed verification? I'm worried mine might be stuck in the same situation.
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Lucas Bey
•Is that service legit? Sounds too good to be true after the hours I've wasted on hold...
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Hunter Edmunds
•Yeah it's legit. They just help you skip the phone queue. The verification was because my income changed a lot from previous year (got promoted) so they wanted additional documentation. The agent was actually super helpful once I got through.
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Ella Lewis
I know it's frustrating, but please remember that the financial aid officers at your son's school are probably just as frustrated as you are. The FAFSA delays this year are unprecedented because of the FAFSA Simplification Act changes. Your approach is exactly right though - planning for multiple scenarios is smart. One thing to watch for: some schools are offering extensions on their deposit deadlines specifically because of these FAFSA delays. Have you asked if that's an option?
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Charlotte Jones
•That's a really good point. I'll check with the school about deposit deadline extensions. I don't want to take my frustration out on the financial aid staff - you're right that they're probably overwhelmed too.
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Andrew Pinnock
We did something similar, but I made a HUGE mistake in my calculations! I forgot that when looking at the Cost of Attendance, room & board was already included, so I accidentally double-counted it by adding it again. Made my daughter panic for nothing when I told her we were short $14,000. Triple-check your math!!!
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Charlotte Jones
•Oh wow, that's a good warning! I'll double check all my numbers tonight. Easy mistake to make when you're stressed about the costs.
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Brianna Schmidt
i went through this EXACT situation last year. ended up taking out private loans with sallie mae because the parent plus loan wasnt enough. now im paying 11.2% interest and its killing me. dont do what i did. cut costs where u can like ur doing. wish id been as smart as u.
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Jade O'Malley
•This is unfortunately very common. Private student loans should be absolute last resort after exhausting all federal loans, grants, work-study, and payment plans. That 11.2% interest is exactly why the financial aid community urges caution with private loans.
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Jade O'Malley
One more suggestion that might help: Many schools have payment plans that let you spread the cost over 10-12 months instead of paying each semester in full. This can reduce the need for loans and give you more flexibility. The enrollment fee is usually around $50-75, which is WAY less than loan interest. Just ask the student accounts office about it - it's not always well advertised.
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Charlotte Jones
•That's brilliant! I had no idea this was an option. I'll definitely look into payment plans - that could really help us avoid additional loans. Thank you so much!
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